anybody else hate this thing called "love"

[SemoreBellys]

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[ChosenofMystra]

Just talk to her dude! 🙂 What's the worst she can do? Either she'll say she's not interested and the world will keep spinning or you both hit it off. Its better to go for these things than driving yourself nuts wondering "what it" ya know?

Don't worry so much about how you come off though when you talk to her; just be yourself, don't put on airs or act "macho" to impress her and you'll be fine.

And for pity's sake talk to her in person lol, using myspace to scout for love is pathetic like you said.

Good luck man, just take a deep breath or two and talk to her like you would anyone else.

 

[Cave In]

I'm going through I hate love thing as well...I've been playing matchmaker for a friend recently...I don't know why though. I should really be trying to find someone for myself but i fear rejection

 

[crydun]

I beg to differ. I love being in love. It's a wonderful feeling. He truly rocks my boat!

 

[german]

I beg to differ. I love being in love. It's a wonderful feeling. He truly rocks my boat!

I agree, it is a great feeling - especially when you look into their eyes you see the same love back..

Priest

 

[Deadsea7777]

Ugh.
Hopefully the title of this thread isnt too out there.

I'm attracted to someone at my school(college), but have idea on how to approach her, but havent spoke or acknowledged ones existence yet, and I dont know what to do. I'm sure everyone has heard of "love at first site", well this is more like "interested at first site." I hope that makes sense to everyone, thats the best I can explain it.

The easiest thing, for me, to do is talk to her online first through facebook.com or myspace or something, but thats such a loser thing to do. I know I'll get too nervous if I just walk up to her and start talking and make an ass out of myself. Talking to girls was never easy for me, I've had it rough...you know that guy in the movies that cant talk to girls and makes a fool out of himself...thats me...

anybody got an idea? 🙁

Go for it talk to her. If she likes you great if she does not...well she does not deserve you. If her mind is too slow to realize that you are the best thing that could ever happen to her, well she is the looser another will get the prize.
Practice make the master. If you make an ass? so what, eat your pride nobody has ever choke out of eating his/her own pride.
If you wait for a fish to jump out of the water into your frying pan, you will starve to death.
You may not catch anything bigger than a sardine , but well, that's far better than starve.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Just relax...

and be yourself!

Go up and talk to her. Talk to her like you've known her for years. Just do it.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

I am sure what I am about to say Cupid would not recommend, but " accidently " bump into her when she doesn't have anyone around her. If you knock her books over, you apologize telling her how clumsy you are ( while helping her pick up your mess ) and try to strike up a conversation from there. It would be the best time because you have her attention at that moment. Okay, you can start throwing your rocks now. 😀

 

[drew70]

Some hate love. Others love hate. It's a crazy mixed up world we live in.

 

[BLUE_THUNDER]

to quote the J. Geils band " LOVE STINKS "

 

[Eriksmasque]

to quote a famous song: " Love is a Battlefield"

 

[drew70]

to quote a famous song: "Love is a Battlefield"

I remember that song. From that 80s opera-singer-turned-rocker Pat Benadryl, wasn't it?

How about Nazareth's "Love Hurts"?
The Beatles "All You Need Is Love"
And finally, John Patrick's "Love Is a Many Splendored Thing"

 

[SemoreBellys]

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[Pokey]

I am sure what I am about to say Cupid would not recommend, but " accidently " bump into her when she doesn't have anyone around her. If you knock her books over, you apologize telling her how clumsy you are ( while helping her pick up your mess ) and try to strike up a conversation from there. It would be the best time because you have her attention at that moment. Okay, you can start throwing your rocks now. 😀

Good thing you didn't do this to Sadira, whe would'a decked ya ( )

This love thing is really a strange bird. It is the very best of things and sometimes the hardest of things to deal with. My suggestion;

I am low key, so I would do as my friend Knox says, be yourelf, take a breath, walk up to her and just tell her that you have noticed her and you think she is someone special. Would she have a couple of minutes to talk with you? If she isn't interested, you aren't really hurt since the heart isn't fully invested. If she says ok you can then see what happens. The love thing doesn't happen right away, but the very difficult infatuation thing is instant. Good luck

 

[911]

I was in that situation many times. Love is a vile demon that should be killed.

 

[Ethical Edward]

A year ago at this time a was looked upon like god by a beautiful girl and her 3 children. Don't believe me? Do a search for goddessofpixies...that was my soulmate Tanya and I was Sacrifice at that time. Read the love we had for each other. It was something I will never have again. Now one year later I have no one. I lost everything and everyone. Just like Anakin Skywalker gambled to have everything and failed with disastrous consequences so did I. Honestly the best christmas gift someone could give me would be 2 pistol shots to my cerebellum. Tanya gave me a ceramic christmas ornament last year that had some artificial mistletoe on it and inscirbed John -N- Tanya 2005 till forever. Forever came sooner than I thought. Love hurts...love kills.

 

[Ethical Edward]

Ya know I apologize for double posting but after reading my own post real tears fell from my eyes not just the smiley face. That was pretty powerful stuff. It's a good thing i'm alone in the house or i'd look like a fool. I always seem to be alone though...and looking like a fool. 🙁

 

[ChosenofMystra]

I wouldn't exactly say that. Sure, it sucks most of the time. It sucks hard. A lot of the time, it turns out not to be real and someone gets hurt badly in the process. Still, there is happiness in love. I know, I've seen it. Not personally, of course, but I've seen people who are truly in love. That's one reason that I keep my head up high, because I know that if I have faith in myself I'll have that someday as well.

Took the words right out of my mouth 🙂

 

[Ethical Edward]

I wouldn't exactly say that. Sure, it sucks most of the time. It sucks hard. A lot of the time, it turns out not to be real and someone gets hurt badly in the process. Still, there is happiness in love. I know, I've seen it. Not personally, of course, but I've seen people who are truly in love. That's one reason that I keep my head up high, because I know that if I have faith in myself I'll have that someday as well.

Continue to keep your head high. Someone as lovely as you can have any man she desires, remember that.

 

[alchemy]

I believe Queensryche said it best:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HPpwnbnc1AQ

For me personally, love, though enjoyable at times, has brought me nothing but bitter memories.

 

[Stugots]

You've got it all wrong, dude. You aren't in love. You're just too nervous to talk to women you find physically attractive. Don't be yourself around this woman because, let's face it...you're afraid to talk to attractive women. Be your best self by working to get over that fear of talking to attractive women! There is no better way to get over your fear than to walk up to random women and start up conversations with them and have fun in the process. Consider yourself fortunate because this month is a huge month for shopping malls. Use 'em to practice when you're out doing your Christmas shopping.

 

[SemoreBellys]

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[kis123]

I personally think there isn't much love, but a whole lot of misguided lust. Once the hormonal highs wear off, you have to learn to deal with each other and that takes work most people don't want to do. If you're not willing to put in the work, do yourselves a favor and move on.

And do not confuse great sex with love-I've been burned to ashes over that one! Just learn to enjoy great sex and you won't have the emotional baggage when the good times are over.

The older I get the more cynical I become.

 

[SemoreBellys]

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[Ethical Edward]

The older I get the more cynical I become.

I think that's the price you pay for being as wise as you are in the field of relationships.