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why do so many guys obsess over whether girls ‘really are into tickling’ ?
i dont think I have ever questioned whether a guy or anyone ‘really is into’ something and tbh i cant even imagine any other girls wondering that or questioning it
do guys still think we pretend ? and for what reason ? to please them ? is it an insecurity thing ? is it something we do that makes them not trust us ?
why would we even do that especially in a tickling group
I don't obsess over this in a general way, but if I session with a woman, I definitely care about how she experiences it and hope for her to be having fun with it like I am. Obviously, their enjoyment as a 'lee will be different from mine as a 'ler, but I'm not out to torture anyone with tickling.
I did a session with a woman that clearly had a much more dominant energy about her, and the whole time it felt to me like she'd rather be on the giving rather than the receiving end, and that bothered me. After having sessions with more submissive women, I noticed a huge difference with this, and again I could be wrong, but they at least left me feeling like they genuinely enjoyed the session too. And yeah, I think there is a lot of pretending with this kink, of course! That's fine with me, but at least be convincing about it? 😆 But really in that case, it was more a lack of chemistry I had with her than anything. And to be clear, I'm speaking of paid sessions, not just somebody I've met that claims they're into tickling, because that has never happened in my life outside of this site (and the bdsm dungeons that followed)! In that case, like you say, why would that person lie about it?
I'm not familiar with tickling in groups, so I can't speak to that, but it makes sense those involved probably wouldn't care? Sorry if I'm misunderstanding, as I've realized I have on this forum in other posts to my chagrin 😂