DebonairDavid
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This may have been asked before, but I didn't find any posts about it when searching for one
I agree with the sentiment shared by @natscott6282! 🙂not the fact that I am ticklish but definitely the full extent of my ticklishness
Afraid is maybe not the exact way I'd describe how I feel about it, but somewhere in that sentiment. I don't want most people to know. I think it's a control thing, similar to how @Wade described it. Once they know, it's kind of a thing that's likely to come up again, whether you want it to or not. In addition, tickling can at times have sexual implications for me and I want more control over who, when, where, how, etc. I keep it between me and close play partners only.This may have been asked before, but I didn't find any posts about it when searching for one
And exactly how full is the extent of it? Lolnot the fact that I am ticklish but definitely the full extent of my ticklishness
This is one of the things I purposefully ignored while answering my question for the same of simplicity, but uh, yeah, I don't have a "normal" reaction to tickling, and it compounds the possible risk by the fact I'm ace as hell and if somebody didn't know me and my reactions decided to go to 11, they might think I was asking for more uh, different activities. Depending on the person, I could be 🍇 or, more likely, ostracized. I don't live in a queer dense area so it's hard to know who's "family".Yes, in that my fetish could be discovered pretty easily, and it's only a fear for the people I know. Because I’m pretty starved in my desire to be tickled, if I were asked if I were ticklish or really any kind of conversation about tickling, or if I were tickled as like a quick tease or something, or however the topic of tickling would come about naturally, I feel I would have a horrible poker face and they would easily guess I like being tickled. Because I really don't know, as someone who fantasizes about being tickled almost every day, how to hide my love of it should a such a scenario come about. If someone were to pry just a little bit, they could easily find out my fetish, which is not something I want the people in my life knowing.
I mean, I would love it if someone tickled me, knew that I am ticklish, but it would be very difficult to respond to it in a way that doesn't raise an eyebrow for people who had no inkling I had a fetish. I'm also giving this way too much thought for a scenario that will probably never happen.