Artickle....I mean...Article

[Kalamos]

Yeah, I've noticed it. 😀
It's as if she wrote "parenting 101, growing children for dummies".

"Lesson one, that beet-red crying thing is your son/daughter/brat. Feed the crying side with milk and clean the smelly side with soap. Don't tickle after midnight. Rinse. Repeat as needed."

😀

Well, yeah, that friend of mine had been clearly tickle-tortured once too many.

MOST other girls/women I've met so far let me tickle them fairly liberally... 😉


This artickle... ER... article went a bit too far.
But I've read really worse advice, online.

Most other shrinks.org [nice word eh?] tell tickling is EVIL, and wifes letting their bullying hubbies to tickle them are just giving way to harassment, rape and what not.

This article was still mild, as far as I can say. 🙂
But, making things clear is good.

Maybe we'll find why she is so... titillophobic. 😀


Reg's. 🙂

 

[rackabones]

hmmm... perhaps the author is not totally wrong. Last week i experienced a kind of weird situation: The 14 Y. old niece of my girlfriend sort of teased me into tickling her pantyhosed feet. As i did it she seemed to enjoy it very much but after about 30 sec i realized how it aroused me. So i startled and my hands freezed. When i stopped she smiled at me in an inciting way, wiggled her toes and said: "Wooo i didn't know how ticklish i am! It crackles so funny!" I pulled away from her and completely changed the subject of our conversation. From then on i decided to never again touch a minors feet because for me it seems to be always sexual.

 

[Kalamos]

While the article didn't cover this particular matter, it is not a "laughable" thing.

Developed underage teens DO pose a problem for adults, since they might look grownup, but they are not.

Some of them develope fast, while others lag behind.


As a responsible adult IMHO you've done well.
I had to care for similar aged girls, and I faced the same problem: they tease you.

For us tk fans it is even worse, since tickling isn't outwardly sexual - and it might pass as innocent play.


Still, I think the article had another scope altogether. And you might talk your gf into tickling her niece as a kind of punishment, just for the sake of revenge. 😀 😀 😀
[Just joking]


Reg's.

 

[rackabones]

Well... it was just yesterday evening when i came home from work when her 17 y. old brother was sitting with her in the living room on the couch. He had her calves locked in his left arm while tickling her feet with his other hand. A board game was lying on the table. He agressively tickled while saying things about her cheating on him and him teaching her not be insidious and so on. He even put his nose on her pantyhosed feet and taunted her of the smell of her feet. It seemed very funny for her. When they saw me standing in the room in my business outfit, hands in my pockets her brother asked me to help him and that i should tickle while he holds her thight. And again she giggled and gave me a very inviting smile, wiggling her toes slowly. I just said: "No thanks. Dont be silly." and went upstairs into my office-room doing some continual work. Again i had this annoying lump in my throat. So what can one do about such things? I hope there will be no more situations like that anymore.
I mean what they did just happens to be my kind of fetish but it would be very wrong to use the situation.

 

[Kalamos]

... Somehow, I think they figured out.

Or tickling fetish runs deep in your family.

These all seem perfect fantasy situations. Anybody else would jump at the chance.

Of course you can't. And you get that sore lump in your throat. I would get one too.

Maybe you look too strict about it: and your gf's niece might be actively teasing you.
Dunno how she could set it up, but maybe you could loosen a bit and act casual about it.

Casual enough to prevent tickling becoming a recurring forbidden game when you are around.

Or you'll get used to that lump. 🙂


My 2 eurocents. I'd be quite embarassed if I were in your shoes.

Reg's. 🙂

 

[rackabones]

Thanks for your advice Kalamos.
But what do mean exactly with acting casual about it...?

 

[Kalamos]

Dunno. Casually whack her in the head. 😀

Casually tickle her a bit, but do it like you were tickling a small baby.
Don't let her associate tickling and pleasure - with you - unless you want an underage clinging on you at least opportune times.

And keep in mind she's got an aunt you could rely upon should this become an issue.

Some ppl like to do things that get on other's nerves.
Finding out WHY that teen is so keen on being tickled by or before you would help.

If she's developing a fetish, just make sure you aren't involved in it.
On the other hand, if she thinks she can "manipulate" you by wiggling her toes and smiling a bit, maybe you have a teen with a crush on you.

I don't really know the details - and I'm only offering some ideas.
But you know best. 🙂

If you can make it appear just wicked fun, you could do something like this: when the teen starts her wiggling thing and begs for tickling, have your gf tickle her instead.
"So you want to be tickled? Let's see how long you can last!"
From the teen's reaction you can gauge the situation and act accordingly.


My 2 eurocents.