For me as a ler I look for interesting, funny ,pretty face, great energy,down to earth girl,and is got to be ticklish c(-: but to let them know that my life doesn't revolve around tickling but that its a part of my life and hopefully they except it and to know that they will be loved, to be listened to, to be desired, to be respected, to be needed, to be trusted, and sometimes, just to be held.