attractiveness...how important?

[lespieds]

Not a problem! id rather be alone if it comes down to that.

Well what if she was willing to put up with your fart fetish?
YET she was not real cute?

a balance, my man, a balance

 

[maniactickler]

Well what if she was willing to put up with your fart fetish?
YET she was not real cute?

a balance, my man, a balance

Unacceptable! she must be attractive and fit. it wouldnt even help if she enjoyed burying her face into my butt when i blast away.

 

[chicago]

Unacceptable! she must be attractive and fit. it wouldnt even help if she enjoyed burying her face into my butt when i blast away.

I'm sure your wishes will come true Mr. middle aged balding fart lover.

 

[kis123]

Well what if she was willing to put up with your fart fetish?
YET she was not real cute?

a balance, my man, a balance

Don't waste your words here.....take it from someone who knows. He's not moving from his standards and would rather be alone. Good for him-at least he's consistent.

 

[kis123]

Unacceptable! she must be attractive and fit. it wouldnt even help if she enjoyed burying her face into my butt when i blast away.

That provided one helluva visual! 😱

But what does she get in exchange?

Are you as attractive and fit as you expect her to be? Then you're on the same level. If you're not, then you're basically delusional to stick to said beliefs. Then again, even a blind squirrel will stumble onto the occasional nut once in awhile so you may get lucky.

 

[huskys]

I don't really have a 'type' so to speak. And I really do believe that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. But I do find certain things very unattractive. Such as uncleanliness, and lack of personal hygene, etc.

I guess I get 'turned off' people rather than 'turned on' to them.

 

[jugner]

The most important thing about a woman - to a man - should be how much she likes him. I will take the plain Jane who is crazy about me over the knockout that's a pain in the ass, a drama queen, unreliable, or any of the other things people foolishly tolerate because they're trying to hang on. It is one of the most important things I took too long to learn.

My fondest female-related memories are of mostly the girls who were dying to please me, not those I was dying to impress. When the world's most powerful force - a woman who wants a man - is in effect, the things that lucky guy will see more than make up for the fact she may not turn as many heads as other girls do.

AMEN...If a girl likes me, it is attractive.

You can fix eyes, ears, nose, or breasts, but you can't fix stupid.....Ron White

 

[isabeau]

I'm sure your wishes will come true Mr. middle aged balding fart lover.

o god that is sooo funny...

Maniac is warped, no two ways about it...


beauty is in the eye of the beholder..inner beauty is what counts..in the long run, that is..

 

[venray]

Don't waste your words here.....take it from someone who knows. He's not moving from his standards and would rather be alone. Good for him-at least he's consistent.

He has standards????...whoda guessed..... 😉

 

[Louis]

Wow ... Interesting thread

I love these threads.... Some folks seem attracted to the fit, the fat, the bald... whatever. I guess it really is a personal preference. I used to think I wasn't very superficial but have come to realize there is a trace at least. My former wife was one of the most perfectly built and attractive women I'd ever know. My attraction to her started there but then grew into enjoying who she was and her company and conversation. Well a few years went by and there was a significant body change. I didn't love her any less at the time but my physical attraction shrunk as her weight grew. Our eventual breakup was for other reasons. I'm not a rude pig and I never brought up her weight but it was always a tap dance when she brought it up herself. What the hell is a guy supposed to say when asked,"DO you think I'm getting too fat?"? Interestingly enough, as soon as we split up, she hit the gym and looked better than ever. She remarried an outdoor loving active fit guy. Now she's bigger than ever and I often wonder what her new husband thinks.

We all have preferences and I don't really have a "type". I've dated many different people of different hair color, fitness levels, interests, looks, ethnicities and no particular type has been better than any other. But I do agree with many here (as a person and not a man) that all of us have to be "attracted" to the other person. I admire those who can overlook ALL the physical characteristics someone has and only see the true personality inside but I (and I think most) can't do that.

 

[isabeau]

I love these threads.... Some folks seem attracted to the fit, the fat, the bald... whatever. I guess it really is a personal preference. I used to think I wasn't very superficial but have come to realize there is a trace at least. My former wife was one of the most perfectly built and attractive women I'd ever know. My attraction to her started there but then grew into enjoying who she was and her company and conversation. Well a few years went by and there was a significant body change. I didn't love her any less at the time but my physical attraction shrunk as her weight grew. Our eventual breakup was for other reasons. I'm not a rude pig and I never brought up her weight but it was always a tap dance when she brought it up herself. What the hell is a guy supposed to say when asked,"DO you think I'm getting too fat?"? Interestingly enough, as soon as we split up, she hit the gym and looked better than ever. She remarried an outdoor loving active fit guy. Now she's bigger than ever and I often wonder what her new husband thinks

well if he truly loves her, he won't give a shit..my husband gained a significant amount of weight since our marriage, but that doesn't change who he is on the inside...first the physical attraction can be important, then after you get to know the person, other things come into play...he is trying to lose,not because i asked him to, which i did not..but for health reasons..

 

[lespieds]

But I like the way you think just as long as no one is getting hurt. You are familiar with the term "hogging"? I hope you're not into such and just appreciate the big, beautiful, sexy women that are out there waiting for a man's "appreciation."

Eh the size is not super important, as long as she is not to small. I have not really been with too many small women anyways.
And no I do not go "hogging". [that word is funny]

For me, my standards are not about what I do want, it is about what I do NOT want. well, would not want...
I would not want a woman much younger. I say about 28 or so is good. Mid 30's is perfect. I would not want a woman who is an alcoholic. The occasional drink is one thing, being wasted all the time, NO! I would prefer if she smoked, so she would not give me any shit about my smoking. Her and I could burn our money and lungs together .
Most important - I would not want a woman with emotional problems. I cannot deal with that. Looks are just not that important to me. I am not "looker" myself, so I don't expect a model.


OTHER -
The #1 rule of dating - don't get involved with someone who has more problems than you have.

 

[maniactickler]

I'm sure your wishes will come true Mr. middle aged balding fart lover.

Yep, every womans fantasy.

 

[maniactickler]

I love these threads.... Some folks seem attracted to the fit, the fat, the bald... whatever. I guess it really is a personal preference. I used to think I wasn't very superficial but have come to realize there is a trace at least. My former wife was one of the most perfectly built and attractive women I'd ever know. My attraction to her started there but then grew into enjoying who she was and her company and conversation. Well a few years went by and there was a significant body change. I didn't love her any less at the time but my physical attraction shrunk as her weight grew. Our eventual breakup was for other reasons. I'm not a rude pig and I never brought up her weight but it was always a tap dance when she brought it up herself. What the hell is a guy supposed to say when asked,"DO you think I'm getting too fat?"? Interestingly enough, as soon as we split up, she hit the gym and looked better than ever. She remarried an outdoor loving active fit guy. Now she's bigger than ever and I often wonder what her new husband thinks.

We all have preferences and I don't really have a "type". I've dated many different people of different hair color, fitness levels, interests, looks, ethnicities and no particular type has been better than any other. But I do agree with many here (as a person and not a man) that all of us have to be "attracted" to the other person. I admire those who can overlook ALL the physical characteristics someone has and only see the true personality inside but I (and I think most) can't do that.

Thats how id feel. if i married a woman in shape and then she ballooned up, i certainly wouldnt be a happy camper. if she wasnt willing to get back in shape, id be left with two choices, tickle behind her back, or leave her. thats my story and im sticking to it.

 

[maniactickler]

well if he truly loves her, he won't give a shit..my husband gained a significant amount of weight since our marriage, but that doesn't change who he is on the inside...first the physical attraction can be important, then after you get to know the person, other things come into play...he is trying to lose,not because i asked him to, which i did not..but for health reasons..

You cant compare mens views with womens on this topic. two completely different mind sets.

 

[maniactickler]

That provided one helluva visual! 😱

But what does she get in exchange?

Are you as attractive and fit as you expect her to be? Then you're on the same level. If you're not, then you're basically delusional to stick to said beliefs. Then again, even a blind squirrel will stumble onto the occasional nut once in awhile so you may get lucky.

Asking if im a hunk? are you trying to put the moves on me?

 

[kis123]

Asking if im a hunk? are you trying to put the moves on me?

You couldn't possibly be serious.

Besides, I'd ruin you for all other women

Now let's get back to the question; are you offering her the same package you expect from her or not?

 

[kis123]

Thats how id feel. if i married a woman in shape and then she ballooned up, i certainly wouldnt be a happy camper. if she wasnt willing to get back in shape, id be left with two choices, tickle behind her back, or leave her. thats my story and im sticking to it.

If she "ballooned up" while having your babies (which is why most women gain the weight in the marriage), you'd leave the mother of your children?

Wow.......all I can say is....wow! 😱

 

[maniactickler]

You couldn't possibly be serious.

Besides, I'd ruin you for all other women

Now let's get back to the question; are you offering her the same package you expect from her or not?

Well im in decent shape. actually i could stand to gain a few pounds. hey, im not in johnny depps class, but im still hunkilicious. 😎

 

[maniactickler]

If she "ballooned up" while having your babies (which is why most women gain the weight in the marriage), you'd leave the mother of your children?

Wow.......all I can say is....wow! 😱

Thats not an issue. i dont want kids.

 

[kis123]

Thats not an issue. i dont want kids.

Wow!

You want beautiful, fit, ticklish, and someone who doesn't want children. Hey, you don't want too much do you?

 

[unit5610]

Great sense of humor, cares about appearance (no matter what it is) and ticklish (!) are attractive enough for me!

 

[maniactickler]

Wow!

You want beautiful, fit, ticklish, and someone who doesn't want children. Hey, you don't want too much do you?

Thats what im trying to tell you. im not that fussy.

 

[lespieds]

Maniac, if you are about 40 or seeking a woman about that age, it is possible that she might have kids that are already grown.
Not like you would have to change diapers or be looking for a babysitter.

Most people have kids, whatever their ages.
I recently found out that my mom has 3 kids. Me, my brother, and my sister were pretty shocked.

 

[Tamia78]

Well im in decent shape. actually i could stand to gain a few pounds. hey, im not in johnny depps class, but im still hunkilicious. 😎

Reeeeally? I might have to move soon. Will my 10 kids be a bother to you? 😛