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Awkward situation

guitarman

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OK. So just started a music course at this college in London and it is absolutely amazing but so hectic. Its now also quite awkward because a girl there knows all about my fetishes.

Basically what happened was, during freshers, i met this lass, got really friendly with her, one night we really hit it off i got her back to my place. Obviously i was dying to tickle her, and she has the cutest little feet ever which were enough to get me horny as hell.

Anyway, normally during sex i like to sneak in some tickles, and in the past, some girls have caught on to the foot/tickle thing and have even encouraged it. Unfortunately this time, she was not ticklish one bit! She had cottoned on though and after sex, she quizzed me about it and i thought fuck it and told her. I surprised myself how much i told her and how it was such a big turn on for me. She found it quite hard to understand, and at times, it seemed like she thought i was making up some bullshit to get rid of her (i think she wanted us to become an item). I was tempted to show her this site but decided against it.

Now there's this really weird tension between us at college. We are all in separate groups, im in a guitar group and she's in a vocal group with a load of fit singers. She acts quite strange around me, im not sure if shes told anyone. I guess im kind of worried that if i show an interest in any other girls, that she might tell them just to fuck me over. I dunno why but im just getting that vibe. Maybe it could be a good thing (they might be into it) maybe not. Just had to get this off my chest.

Cheers guys,
 
your being paranoid dude, why is she gona go out her way too screw you over?

if i was in your shoes (because im a straight up honest person) i would just ask if u could speak to her after class and address the situation... and you probably know how to win people over, if there was any misunderstanding, apologise ect.... blah blah blah
 
Maybe your right mate, but i kinda get the feeling that she still wants a relationship, and that she might get jealous if I showed interest in another girl.

Some of the singers are unbelievable though, im gunna have to get involved lol.
 
Without trying to take a page out of Penthouse Letters, have you considered that the opposite might happen?

In my experience, where genuine interest or mutual desire may be minimal, curiosity can be the door-opener... especially for the adventurous kind of girl who might be willing to indulge a fetish that's new to her. Let's say your once-up-a-time hook up girl sees a spark between you and some other lass in the class, and mentions it... it might do more good than harm if she has her own secret desires (spanking, bondage, tickling, choking, whatever) that she might not ever admit to her newfound girlfriend, but might be reason to get to know you better.

Let me rassert what I have always held to be true. Tickling isn't creepy. All things made equal, about half of the girls out there are willing to at least explore it. Explained properly, it can be very intriguing to a girl. So if it comes up, don't treat it like something you have to go to Confession for- just shrug and say, "everybody has their thing. Mine is the way a girl laughs or the sexy way her body moves when she's being tickled- it does something for me. I know- unusual, huh?"
 
so basicly she was a one night stand..

.. because she wasn't ticklish? and you wonder that she acts strange to you?! oh yeah, she'll rat you out first chance she gets.
make it a point not to show any interest in any of the other girls.
good luck.

steve
 
It could boomerang in a good way

guitarman, few things frustrate me more than finding out a girl I like is not ticklish.

Anyway, as far as your question goes, women like to yap but that does not mean she will tell anyone how much tickling means to you. She may have forgotten all about it even if your failed attempts to tickle her made her ask what you were up to. Remember, tickling means so much to people who participate here that we forget how inconsequential it can be to those who aren't into it.

But if she does kiss and tell, what the hell, you didn't break any laws. And who knows, it could work out in your favor if a girl who likes you is either into it, too, or will put up with it to turn you on.
 
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.. because she wasn't ticklish? and you wonder that she acts strange to you?! oh yeah, she'll rat you out first chance she gets.
make it a point not to show any interest in any of the other girls.
good luck.

steve

I'd hate to say it, but I have to agree that I wouldn't be surprised if she opened her mouth to her girlfriends. I can't help but think back to my time at school, when I'd hear girls talking to each other ("Have you ever had your toes sucked? It doesn't feel bad, but it feels so weird. So-and-so likes to suck my toes."). At the same time, I don't think you should have to be on your guard the rest of your time in this music course. Regardless of what she wanted for the two of you, if it wasn't gonna work for you, don't let her try to carve you from a square peg down to a round one, just so you could fit in her hole ( ::snicker:: Sorry! I'm so juvenile. :evilha:). When you say she acts strange, what do you mean? Does she seem snippy, or perhaps avoidant? Pretend for a moment that the two of you never did anything together. Would her behavior still be explainable, or something you could ignore? If you're interested in pursuing other girls in this course, you shouldn't let her factor in. I know that's easier said than done, but even if word gets out that you like tickling, you don't want it to be something other girls are gonna associate specifically with this one other girl. Girls don't wanna be compared to past girlfriends and one-night-stands. Girls wanna think they're the best thing that's happened to you, were the best lay you ever had, and that no girl you have after them will be as pretty or as good in bed as they were. I think I'm going off on a tangent, and I'm afraid to keep typing... I had a point to this... Okay, your liking tickling has to be something specific to you, if you're pursuing girls in a concentrated group that talks to each other on a regular basis. Odds are, they will talk, so it's probably best for you to simply "be the tickler" so that if things happen among several of you, they won't associate your tickling with a fond memory of any one girl in a group. I'm not saying to be loud and proud, but if you're going to pursue women from a target demographic, be prepared for your information to be less classified than you'd like. Also, prepare for stupid questions from potential interests that if answered the wrong way, could ruin your future chances. For example, "So and so told me you tickled her a lot/thought her feet were cute, etc. Are my feet cute? Whose feet do you like better? Who do you think is more ticklish?" Basically, when you're pursuing women in a small demographic of one classroom, you're treading dangerous waters. Be wary.

/ramblefest.
 
so basicly she was a one night stand..

. because she wasn't ticklish? and you wonder that she acts strange to you?! oh yeah, she'll rat you out first chance she gets.
make it a point not to show any interest in any of the other girls.
good luck.

My thoughts exactly!
 
OK. So just started a music course at this college in London and it is absolutely amazing but so hectic. Its now also quite awkward because a girl there knows all about my fetishes.

Basically what happened was, during freshers, i met this lass, got really friendly with her, one night we really hit it off i got her back to my place. Obviously i was dying to tickle her, and she has the cutest little feet ever which were enough to get me horny as hell.

Anyway, normally during sex i like to sneak in some tickles, and in the past, some girls have caught on to the foot/tickle thing and have even encouraged it. Unfortunately this time, she was not ticklish one bit! She had cottoned on though and after sex, she quizzed me about it and i thought fuck it and told her. I surprised myself how much i told her and how it was such a big turn on for me. She found it quite hard to understand, and at times, it seemed like she thought i was making up some bullshit to get rid of her (i think she wanted us to become an item). I was tempted to show her this site but decided against it.

Now there's this really weird tension between us at college. We are all in separate groups, im in a guitar group and she's in a vocal group with a load of fit singers. She acts quite strange around me, im not sure if shes told anyone. I guess im kind of worried that if i show an interest in any other girls, that she might tell them just to fuck me over. I dunno why but im just getting that vibe. Maybe it could be a good thing (they might be into it) maybe not. Just had to get this off my chest.

Cheers guys,

Hey guitarman,

Sorry to hear about your situation. Sounds complicated. I agree with the concensus of the others on this forum. I would have a word with her and tell her exactly how you feeling. I would also mention to her that you would appreciate if she didn't mention it to anyone else. Not in a confrontational way or anything just nicely. Hopefully this will help.

If she does tell people it's not the end of the world mate. Some girls may like that. It may be good for your fetish too as you may get more tickles in 🙂 So you may get some teasing but it will go off- people get bored with things like that after a certain time. You will find that most people who you tell will be cool with it. I've told a few people and they've all found it cute.

Good luck mate
 
Problem - you are afraid of being outed.

Complication - she knows and may out you.

Action - do whatever you were going to do. Treat her like a human being, and if it comes up (or it may be worth bringing up), explain that you're not interested.

Outcome #1 - she understands and you go on with your life as you were.

Outcome #2 - she outs you, either casually or maliciously. Now you don't ever have to live in fear of being outed again, because it's already over with. And one of the other girls who is potentially into tickling or at least not against it knows about you and can act accordingly.


I feel like just acting normal and treating her with respect is pretty much a win-win.
 
if you were to get with the other singers you would out yourself to a point by sneeking in a few tickles when you're skeeping with them. So if she talks and the girls still hook up with you is that a bad thing? If you have no success with the singing group, think of it this way, your in college there are plenty of girls to hook up with outside of this class. If she tells by next week you will be old news and life will go on.
With all that said I hope it works out for you in a matter you see fit.
 
You know what, Guitarman? I think you're putting an overemphasis on the question of whether people will find out from her that you have a tickling fetish. Musicians and other kinds of creative and performing artists are the crowd I hang out with a lot of the time, and I don't really think of them as caring a whole lot about strict sexual conformity. I'm sure one or two of your classmates are gay, and I doubt anybody in the class is worried about it. What I think is involved, though, is that when you have a peer group that's constantly in each other's sight, like at college, in a dorm or an arts community, relationships are harder to form and sustain because there isn't a whole lot of privacy. I think you kissed one bit of privacy goodbye by sleeping with this girl regardless of whether you told her your fetish. Interestingly, you seem uncertain as to whether the awkwardness is because she wants to be with you or because she thinks you're a pervert. Either way, what you should do is move on from the encounter, be friendly with everybody in the class including her, and don't assume that it's going to make a whole lot of difference whether people know about the tickling or not. But I'll also add, the awkwardness you face is the price you frequently pay when you jump into bed on the first encounter, fetish or no fetish (but this last part is just my bias: one-night stands have never made the slightest sense to me).
 
cheers for the advice guys.

Ill may have a chat with her on friday.

.. because she wasn't ticklish? and you wonder that she acts strange to you?! oh yeah, she'll rat you out first chance she gets.
make it a point not to show any interest in any of the other girls.
good luck.

steve

surely though its better to end it there and then instead of leading her on?
 
surely though its better to end it there and then instead of leading her on?

If a girl being ticklish is all you are looking for in a partner you shouldn't be surprised if you are opening yourself up to exposure! Shallow people tend to make enemies quick! 🙂
 
She may have forgotten about it

guitarman, why tip your hand by reminding her when the girl may have forgotten about it? Keep it under your hat if you want this to remain quiet.

If this woman thought enough about it to blab, she probably already did. Unless you've seen anyone looking at you in an odd way, consider the incident and confession you made to her blown over.
 
If a girl being ticklish is all you are looking for in a partner you shouldn't be surprised if you are opening yourself up to exposure! Shallow people tend to make enemies quick! 🙂


A girl being ticklish is not the only thing i look for in a partner at all! And im slightly offended that you've just assumed that. But at the end of the day because this fetish is a big part of me, at this moment in time, I don't think I could see myself being in a relationship with a girl who was not ticklish at all, is that really shallow of me?? Im sure this may be the case for a few people on here, i dont know.
 
guitarman, why tip your hand by reminding her when the girl may have forgotten about it? Keep it under your hat if you want this to remain quiet.

If this woman thought enough about it to blab, she probably already did. Unless you've seen anyone looking at you in an odd way, consider the incident and confession you made to her blown over.

again cheers for all the top advice guys, but em es i think you may be right (hopefully 🙂 )
Either way, thinking about, I dont think it would be that bad if it were to get out. Im going to a Halloween partay tomorrow and they'll be plenty of hot girls so im gunna have some fun 😉
 
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