BBW Women Are Very Ticklish

[TexasTicklin]

I disagree, in my experience the extra fat/skin makes them less ticklish. I love counting ribs and it's kinda difficult to do it to heavy set women.

False.

 

[Nedstacey2]

OK My apologies if I offended anyone. Thats the last thing I want is drama.

@pimpfoot, no offense taken by this party, so no apology necessary here at least. Just like cars.com, I hear you about wanting to avoid drama, and I know from bitter experience that nothing makes us TMF Novices feel more unwelcome than being lambasted over an honestly innocent posting.

Second when I said bigger I meant width/length wise not fat. I like big feet and long toes, I actually hate really skinny feet even if they are pretty

Yes, after replying to you yesterday I began to wonder if maybe I had it wrong. That is, my assumption was always that BBW stood for big beautiful woman/women where big is used in its 'obese' sense and not the less common but still widespread distinct meaning of 'tall'. So in the latter usage, sure, the "bigger," i.e., taller, a person is, the larger her/his foot size will likely be, kind of common-sense biology and anatomy. In this case, then, if your preference is for BBWs because they have "big" feet, then all power to you and knock yourself out [hope I got enough clichés in there].

And kudos to TexasTicklin for making a fine and relevant point:

. . . how do so-called BBW women have bigger feet? I'm not overly huge but definitely plus-sized, and my feet are a size seven.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I know from bitter experience that nothing makes us TMF Novices feel more unwelcome than being lambasted over an honestly innocent posting.

I wasn't trying to make anyone feel unwelcome. Regardless of intentions, the comment was in poor taste. Generalizations are rarely taken well, particularly negative ones. Everyone is perfectly entitled to have and share their opinions, but they need to be prepared for the repercussions of sharing those opinions. No one said, "You suck get out!" We said, "Hey man, not cool." I hardly think that qualifies as being lambasted.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

LOL yeah I thought we were being pretty nice too!

 

[RedPyramidDoll]

Well, I'm pretty sure I'm classified as a BBW, I'm about 5'2, and over 200lbs. I don't think it has anything to do with weight, but I am DEATHLY ticklish. Everywhere.

 

[Nedstacey2]

I wasn't trying to make anyone feel unwelcome . . . . No one said, "You suck get out!" We said, "Hey man, not cool." I hardly think that qualifies as being lambasted.

LOL yeah I thought we were being pretty nice too!

I apologize. I let some of my own very painful experiences here and elsewhere unduly influence my inappropriate word choice for the present situation.

 

[NY ler]

Probably the most ticklish girl I've ever tickled was heavy, about 5'4, 240ish. Her feet were off the chart ticklish, couldn't even touch them. But because she had so many layers, I couldn't enjoy to tickle other parts that I enjoy to tickle on my thin lees, such as digging into and counting ribs, squeezing right above the know cap, digging into the collar bone. Please people, to each it's own, don't crucify me for my preference.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Probably the most ticklish girl I've ever tickled was heavy, about 5'4, 240ish. Her feet were off the chart ticklish, couldn't even touch them. But because she had so many layers, I couldn't enjoy to tickle other parts that I enjoy to tickle on my thin lees, such as digging into and counting ribs, squeezing right above the know cap, digging into the collar bone. Please people, to each it's own, don't crucify me for my preference.

No one ever corrected or judged you for your preference. I corrected your comment that "fat/extra skin make girls less ticklish." You like thin girls, cool. I like tall guys. But I wouldn't say, "Short guys are shitty ticklers. They just don't know what they're doing." It's two separate conversations, one based on biology and one on preference. No one is being judged for their opinions. Just called out on inaccurate statements.

 

[NY ler]

To me, digging into, counting, or poking ribs and/or squeezing knees is tickling. Take two equally ticklish women, one weighing 100 lbs, the other weighing 400. Keep in mind, they're both "equally ticklish".... if I can't do the ribs or the knees thing on the heavier one, doesn't it make her less ticklish? Maybe "less ticklish" isn't the correct set of words, perhaps I should have said: less responsive to tickling.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Because digging is the only way to tickle ribs? I'm not a BBW and
I hate when people dig when they mean to tickle. Nobody is trying
to be difficult here, but do you see how saying someone is not ticklish
simply because they don't respond to digging will cause people to call
you out?

 

[chicago]

I'm a big fan of rough rib tickling / digging. That said, I don't think that is the only means of tickling someone, nor do I think that if a person doesn't respond that they are automatically non ticklish overall lol. I mean, by that logic, you could argue that a bigger person has more surface to tickle, and thus they are more tickly lol

 

[TexasTicklin]

Like I said, I am a curvy woman, and I am not understanding this "can't find the ribs" thing. My ribs can be found just fine, as can my hip bones and other points of interest. I would think that one would have to be just huge to not be able to find their ribs?

Ticklish is ticklish. Must we put a size on that and discourage younger people that think they are alone in their desire to tickle/be tickled? Why must everything in our society have a size on it?

 

[NY ler]

It's a simple matter of personal preference. I've had numerous sessions with heavy women and not being able to dig into ribs and squeeze the knees is a huge no no for me.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

It's a simple matter of personal preference. I've had numerous sessions with heavy women and not being able to dig into ribs and squeeze the knees is a huge no no for me.

Exactly. It's personal preference. That's what we're trying to say. And that's fine. But do
you see how that doesn't make them not ticklish or less responsive, simply because they
don't care for your way of tickling, whether they are a BBW or not?

 

[NY ler]

Not at all. Refer to the example that I gave.... equally ticklish bbw will be less responsive than the thin woman.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Not at all. Refer to the example that I gave.... equally ticklish bbw will be less responsive than the thin woman.

Just because you don't like it and it doesn't work the way you would want it to doesn't mean the woman is less ticklish because she's bigger. I'm insanely ticklish on my ribs, especially in one particular spot, and I've never had anyone have any trouble finding it. Just about exactly this time last week I was tied to my bed going banana sandwich over somebody squeezing around my knees. We totally get that you have a preference, and no one has a problem with that. But your generalization is wrong. Biologically it just doesn't make sense. Tickling happens in your skin. Above muscle, above bone, above fat.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Ugh, I give up trying to explain shit to this dude.

 

[TexasTicklin]

He just seems kinda prejudiced. That's okay.
Do not let the opinions of a couple of people get you down! Ticklish does NOT have a size!

 

[duderino84]

Just because you don't like it and it doesn't work the way you would want it to doesn't mean the woman is less ticklish because she's bigger. I'm insanely ticklish on my ribs, especially in one particular spot, and I've never had anyone have any trouble finding it. Just about exactly this time last week I was tied to my bed going banana sandwich over somebody squeezing around my knees. We totally get that you have a preference, and no one has a problem with that. But your generalization is wrong. Biologically it just doesn't make sense. Tickling happens in your skin. Above muscle, above bone, above fat.

I'm not sure tickling "happens" anywhere .... It just seems to happen.
I think maybe in the case of bbw women, there are more points of the body that subconsciously they try to protect (like the soft spot between the hips and ribs, I recall my ex was crazy sensitive there and she was 5`4 and heavy; I found the spot with raspberrying) more than the average, dare I say balanced woman.

He just seems kinda prejudiced. That's okay.
Do not let the opinions of a couple of people get you down! Ticklish does NOT have a size!

I'm pretty sure "kinda" worked its way of of the equation when he tried to defend digging as a standardized way of tickling when such a technique when in reality it creates a strict divide in people, being the ticklish reaction or the pain reaction. I recommend going with the lobster claw technique (thumb and middle finger squeezing together) as just an easier guage of sensitivity. Scratching, light squeezing, Spider tickling work better. Even with armpits I try to go Spider instead of digging.

Dude, the act of tickling is called tickling because it's approach is one of jokingly intent; if you try to attack a lee`s spots, it might work, but I doubt ticklishness would stick around for long before said Lee would grow tired of it. Next time you have a bigger girl, try a softer approach before going all in.

I don't care if you are prejudiced, honestly, because honestly the term "fat" opens up a multitude of potential issues (as mentioned, it can communicate self esteem issues, which a lot of people I've met have had), but if you want a skinny one, find a skinny one, but don't think a girl is much less sensitive because of her shape. If anything I've found its more of a guarantee a bbw will be ticklish.

EDIT: I'm sure at one point or another I was making little to no sense so I'll try pulling it all together: girls are soft. Some softer than others. So tickle softly, because softies like it soft. Yup, totally clear now.

 

[NY ler]

Let's agree to disagree. God forbid I take a politically incorrect side to this. Last point, if bbw's were the preferred lee's by the majority, we'd certainly see a majority of lees being bbw in clips. However it's absolutely not the case, as I can name a ton of leading tickling companies that never even featured a bbw. I wonder why

 

[duderino84]

a ton of leading tickling companies that never even featured a bbw. I wonder why

You don't say? It couldn't be that it's called PORN, could it? That's fantasy land nonsense. It's on the same level as looking through an ikea catalogue to me. Fabricated ideas of superficial perfection.

Now, just for reality, are you a producer? Or a fetishist? Because on any ground other than the former, if you're single, you can stand to bargain.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Let's agree to disagree. God forbid I take a politically incorrect side to this. Last point, if bbw's were the preferred lee's by the majority, we'd certainly see a majority of lees being bbw in clips. However it's absolutely not the case, as I can name a ton of leading tickling companies that never even featured a bbw. I wonder why

I don't think you even know what point you're trying to make anymore. I don't know how many times it needs to be said that no one gives a flying shit about what kind of women you like or dislike. And being attracted to thin women is certainly not politically incorrect. This isn't about what size lees are most preferred or whether or not your opinions are politically incorrect or not. It's about your statements being factually flawed. This isn't about opinions and preferences. It's about biological facts. But I agree with Amanda, I'm over this. Find a 6th grade science book. That should lay it out for you.

 

[realista_magica]

It's a simple matter of personal preference. I've had numerous sessions with heavy women and not being able to dig into ribs and squeeze the knees is a huge no no for me.

Haha stop having sessions with BBW women then! Nobody is making you do so and you are obviously NOT into it. That's my super humble opinion, no offense.

 

[Thatsecretchord]

This is just another one of those threads where you can tell exactly what it's about from the title so if the topic (in this case big girls) doesn't interest you, why make a comment? That's why there's always so much bloody agro on here!

 

[NY ler]

Why make a comment? Why not make a comment? Should I only make a comment in cases that I agree with the OP? Our society is so afraid to be politically incorrect, it's ridiculous. Let's all jump on the politically correct bandwagon and team up against the sole person who disagrees with the PC. I say again, I like digging into and poking ribs. I find it very unattractive to do it on someone who's very large. This may sound harsh, but it's absolute true.... Her layers of fat protects her ribs from being touched and tickled. That is my point = the fact that her ribs are protected, makes her less reactive to being tickled on her ribs, REGARDLESS OF HOW TICKLISH SHE IS.