Before anything else

[THEGUARDIAN]

SO yeah I am wondering, when you guys go on dates, do you try to see if they are cool with your fetish?

ANother question

HAve you ever been deep in a relationship and found out that your partner does not like your fetish and not willing to even play around with it?
If so how did you handle it?

 

[rhiannon]

when you guys go on dates, do you try to see if they are cool with your fetish?

No. I don't believe sex is a proper conversation topic during early dates.

About the second question, I'm married to the guy and I handle it just fine. 🙂 It's not like I can't live without it.

 

[BMoreTklr]

Depends on which date it is. Usually, I don't bring that up until there's a comfort level with whoever I may be dating. In past relationships, I took great lengths to hide my fetish, however anyone who was aware of foot and/or tickling fetishes would have saw through that facade IMMEDIATELY! My ex apparently was just oblivious. We played 2 or 3 times where she let me tie and tickle her but it was very short, and I never really went for it. Nowadays, whole different ball game.......it hasn't been put to the test but if they weren't able to get into it atleast when we were playing alone, not sure I could be involved in that type of relationship. I have now been to the mountain top........I can't turn back around now

 

[No_Style]

it's not appropriate (like rhiannon said) and would probably scare them away if you discussed it too early. I've only told my fetish to one person, and she's fine with it.

 

[maniactickler]

I always find out ahead of time if their ticklish. that way i dont have to waste time meeting them.

 

[BellybTickler]

I wouldn't recommend it, but it's a first date I wouldn't even be concerned about your fetish and hers at that point. Focus on making a good first impression and as well as paying attention to whether or not she is someone you even would want to be in a relationship to begin with.

 

[TickVix]

Depends on which date it is. Usually, I don't bring that up until there's a comfort level with whoever I may be dating. In past relationships, I took great lengths to hide my fetish, however anyone who was aware of foot and/or tickling fetishes would have saw through that facade IMMEDIATELY! My ex apparently was just oblivious. We played 2 or 3 times where she let me tie and tickle her but it was very short, and I never really went for it. Nowadays, whole different ball game.......it hasn't been put to the test but if they weren't able to get into it atleast when we were playing alone, not sure I could be involved in that type of relationship. I have now been to the mountain top........I can't turn back around now

What is meant by "I have now been to the mountain top......I can't turn back around now"? Just curious

 

[BMoreTklr]

What is meant by "I have now been to the mountain top......I can't turn back around now"? Just curious

It means I've been to the mountain top of tickling as far as what I EVER expected to be able to experience live and in person, and I cannot regress......onward and upward!!!

 

[fireguardian]

After having a pretty bad experience with my "coming out" with my fetish in a vanilla relationship that ended (for more than just the fetish reason though it did have a hand in it) I probably won't look very hard at vanillas again.

 

[Cif]

My feelings are by no means public information but I have told all of my serious ex-girlfriends about it because I proved to them first that there was more to me than my sexuality, and two, it was worth them adapting to for us to be together. Just be sensitive about the subject, and be a great partner before you ask anything of them and a worthwhile human will give you more than the time of day.

Just my opinion.

 

[TickleToy4You]

I wouldn't bring it up on a first date. I don't think i'd mention it on a second or third date but once we started to get to know each other more I would. I wouldn't wanna spring it on the person at last moment. If he/she didn't like it I wouldn't have a problem with it. It's really fun to me, I enjoy it, and I would continue to having tickling sessions but I wouldn't make it change my life style to that extent. Personally, I don't think many guys would have a problem with it, and if it was the tickling they didn't like much, i'm sure a guy wouldn't mind having his girl tied up to his bed and having his way with her haha. But to answer your question, no not on a first date and it wouldn't be a major problem if they didn't like the fetish.

 

[TickVix]

It means I've been to the mountain top of tickling as far as what I EVER expected to be able to experience live and in person, and I cannot regress......onward and upward!!!

AHHH I see 🙂, All makes perfect sense now lol