Being in a relationship and still tickling other people

[Alliekat]

It sounds like your girlfriend its pretty open minded and willing to try new things! I think that is awesome and I hope you can both indulge many of your fantasies and desires. I will just reiterate what others have said about communicating and making sure everyone involved is on board and comfortable with whatever dynamic you arrange.

I always try to make a point of replying in these threads because I have been married for over 20 years to a man who does not share my fetish, though he does his best to indulge my desire to be tickled. We decided long ago that monogamy was an important dynamic in our relationship, and have stuck to it ever since. Of course there are no shortage of cute guys at work or in my neighborhood that I am sure I could convince to tickle me, but there is only one man I want to spend the rest of my life with and only one man I would raise my two kids with. In other words, tickling is awesome, but there is more to life and a relationship. Granted, we both take certain "liberties" outside our relationship, but that is something that is a) between us and b) something we are both cool with.

 

[oxoforgotso]

I appreciate all the contributions to this thread! Just as an update for anyone wondering, she and I are officially boyfriend and girlfriend now. We have discussed my desires and fantasies more. She is open to and excited by all of them. The one she is most open involves her being pleasured by another woman with me watching and participating. As much as i would like it too, i honestly don't know how it could happen. Because she said it couldn't be with someone we know or someone we see again. Kind of like a one night stand.

I will post about it again if there is any major developments plus ill upload another tickling story. Luckily, she is down for bondage and tickling every time we see each other

 

[mb7700]

I was once in a relationship with a woman who hated being tickled, so I broached the subject of doing tickle sessions (but nothing more than that) with another woman. She was fine with that, so I did it. If she had not been okay with it, I would not have.