Better to date a ticklephile or a converter?

[vampirecult]

What do you guys think? all you love advice givers out there. what do you think is better and easier in the long term. to date a ticklephile (either a guy or a girl that already loves tickling right from the get go and start) or trying to convert someone into a tickling fan over time?

 

[ticklkitten]

Well, I am a convert. An example of the fact that if you choose the right person, tickling can become a healthy prominent part of your relationship. I mean, I am just one person but I can't be the only one...

 

[vampirecult]

A example of the fact that if you choose the right person, tickling can become a healthy prominent part of your relationship.

Yeah that's just the thing though. i mean you don't know weather or not the person that your seeing or dating heavy at the time is gonna be into your kink or not. when i was dating my girl friend will EX girl friend now but she seemed to be into tickling (she never admitted it to me really that she was at all or gave any hints) but she seemed to enjoy me tickling her even if she would say stop stop stop in a cute school girl giggle type of laugh and tone.

 

[Majestic]

I am a convert, madly in love with an very established tickler so from my point of view I would have to say it's more rewarding to be in a relationship with an established tickler. I have been in a couple situations where I wanted to tickle someone badly, only to find out they werent ticklish at all or barely and it was a big let down. No matter what I tried, it didnt illicit the response that I had conjured up in my mind. I never tried again.

Majestic

 

[Mimi]

I tried converting my ex-husband, and while he was more than willing to participate, he never developed the true ticklephile frame of mind, so the only time I would get tickling action was when I flat out asked for it or told him I wanted to be. He was more than happy to oblige me, but I wanted someone who didn't need to be asked or told, and just spontaneously initiated that sort of play.

Now I am with a true-blue, full-blooded fellow ticklphile, and the difference is AMAZING. I almost get TOO much action now! I have to constantly be prepared for that surprise attack! But the mutual look of lust, sadistic pleasure, desire, hunger, and arousal we share when we play is just incredible. I could never imagine going back to a non-ticklephile now. Thankfully, Lazarus is perfect in every other way as well, and since we're getting married next Sept, he's stuck with me for the rest of our lives anyway. 😀

Of course, this is only MY experience. There are happy ending covertion stories out there. Each scenario is unique with different results!

Mimi 🙂

 

[chode]

Dude, if you dont act all creepy about it. Or act like its a big deal, converting is easy. Every girl i ever dated loved it after i converted them.

 

[vampirecult]

Dude, if you dont act all creepy about it. Or act like its a big deal, converting is easy. Every girl i ever dated loved it after i converted them.

It was just a general question. i don't have no girl in mind or that i'm seeing at the moment.

 

[BigBrownEyes]

If you're lucky enough to be dating another ticklephile, please count your blessings. It's not so easy to meet others in the day-to-day world who share our unique fascination. Two card-carrying ticklephiles in a relationship, in which they have something else in common, has some mind blowing possibilites.

I'm still not convinced that someone can be converted, unless they already have some ticklephile tendencies. But I certainly hope that I'm proven wrong.

 

[chode]

Dude, it was a general answer to the posed question.

 

[BBWticklee1973]

I think for me I would want a true ticklephile, not one I would have to convert into one. I think they would understand where I'm coming from from the getgo and I wouldn't have to ask for the tickling, playful or otherwise and they would have it on their mind just as much as it's on mind, which is ALL THE DAMN TIME, ROFL. I've shared some things with other ticklephiles and we are just on the same page as far as sexual, playful, day-to-day enjoyment. Just my .02.

 

[toyou444]

I've only dated one girl I would have considered a true tickler. I hated it. Mostly because I was so jealous when she tickled or got tickled by someone else. I'm older now and my wife is a covert. Like Mimi said, she isn't a 100%, but she does try. And when she's in the right mood she can be devestating! Still, I wonder. Would I be better off with the old gf no that I am wiser? I wouldn't trade my wife for anything in the world! We have too many OTHER reasons to be together. The question does tickle the imagination though!

~ toyou

 

[lightninbug]

Always had Converts...

I think It's TIME to look for that True Ticklphile...Sometimes it's as easy as tryin to convince someone to switch from Vanilla To Strawberry icecream...and sometimes it's like pullin teeth. Things don't get easier as you get older, folks.
Res Ipsa Loquitor
BUG
ps I MISS Dr. Thompson😎

 

[TickledToDeath]

Both have possibilities and while those who are converted are fine if not great.....it depends on your patience and the one whom you are attempting to convert. If the would be convertee is everything you are looking for A to Y and "Z" (being into tickling) is the ONLY thing missing...........answer obvious. Would be converteee worth the effort. IF there are issues with the would be convertee that effect the would be relationship regardless of tickling.....best to move on and perhaps seek a seasoned lover of tickling. If tickling is VERY important......a make or break situation in a relationship other than the converter having perhaps an issue or two to deal with with ones'self, best to seek for what one wants and desires where those who already share the passion at hand.

In a lot of cases......love will conquer all and conversions adjustments and compromises will all fall into place nicely.

Ask and (usually) thou shalt recieve. Knock on a door and eventually someone will open it.

TTD

 

[TickleUrTummy]

I think most of us would prefer a tickephile,but it could also be fun to convert somebody. It would be a challenge to change her from being indifferent or hating it to suddenly loving it and fun watching it happen.

 

[Iggy pop]

Given, that there are so few actual female ticklephiles around, it is best to find a convert. It's not as hard as it sounds. Trust me.

 

[Tickler Bart]

My Own Humble Opinion . . .

In my humble opinion, I feel that it is better to date a ticklephile because there is no question about it (Does she or doesn't she?)
If you date a convert, there is ALWAYS the possibility that she (or he) will get tired of it & get bored with it.
With a true ticklephile, she (or he) will always be 'into' it.

Thanx,
Barton