bold or that's to weird?

[jd58]

this one may be more for the ladies hear to answer.
your in a park or somewhere public.you are sitting down and have on sandals or have pulled your feet out of your shoes. your sitting by yourself,just watching people. when this attractive guy walks up and out of the blue.says"nice feet you have. are they ticklish"?
what would be your response to a question like that from a stranger?
how far would you take this conversation? given this guy seems normal in every way and given your own tickling fetish?

 

[Ace Riley]

Uh oh... here it comes... ugh... must...stop it..

...*sigh* I can't...





.......😵

 

[minerva]

very interesting question 😀 - but unrealistic scenario in my opinion - it's never the normal, nice and attractive guys who come over and ask such questions

 

[OnnaOtaku]

very interesting question 😀 - but unrealistic scenario in my opinion - it's never the normal, nice and attractive guys who come over and ask such questions

Very unrealistic. He probably wouldn't be attractive. If he was, he wouldn't have to say that, even if that was what he really was thinking.

My response would be, "thanks"... and I'd walk away on my pretty feet.

 

[Chaneda]

...

If a girl were to say something to that extent to me I would first freak out and then wonder if she were testing me to catch me admitting to being a tickle lover. In any case I would probably get up and leave too...it would be too awkward for me to stand.

- Chaneda

 

[Ace Riley]

If a girl were to say something to that extent to me I would first freak out and then wonder if she were testing me to catch me admitting to being a tickle lover. In any case I would probably get up and leave too...it would be too awkward for me to stand.

- Chaneda

Lies.

 

[Maestro1874]

Weird. Definitely.

 

[Chaneda]

Lies.

My Good Sir, I do not lie. 😉


- Chaneda

 

[sillygrl22]

hmm...yeah it is a bit weird...maybe if i was in a flirty mood i would consider it but idk...kinda sketchy...

 

[Stage Whisper]

I'd be a little uncertain about talking to someone who said that sort of thing out of the blue. One, because people just don't approach me to begin with- I tend to fade into the background. Two, because often those who are so bold and up front about asking such a thing might be a bit too obsessed or have too much of a one-track mind for my liking.

Still, I suppose it depended on the way he said it, or if he was willing to talk about something else. If it turned out he wasn't a freak or something, I'd turn the conversation and ask him if HIS feet were ticklish. Or any part of him, really. I'm not picky. 😀

 

[Ace Riley]

My Good Sir, I do not lie. 😉


- Chaneda

You would walk away from a cute girl who says "Nice feet, are they ticklish?".

I shan't believe you my good Sir. Excuse my rudeness, but I find this to be complete and utter rubbish. I request you take back this statement immediately or else I might just have to laugh at you while extending my index finger in your general direction.

Good day sir.


^_____^

 

[Chaneda]

You would walk away from a cute girl who says "Nice feet, are they ticklish?".

I shan't believe you my good Sir. Excuse my rudeness, but I find this to be complete and utter rubbish. I request you take back this statement immediately or else I might just have to laugh at you while extending my index finger in your general direction.

Good day sir. :hippoke:


^_____^

If I did not know the person at all and the first thing she said to me was "are your feet ticklish?," then yes, I would walk away. I would feel MUCH more comfortable with that question after some small talk beforehand. I need to feel comfortable with that person before that question becomes something I'm willing to answer.

- Chanda

 

[Ace Riley]

I think the question itself would spark tons of small talk if it was directed at me.

My first responce would be "WTF" , and from there it would build.

I don't think I could bring myself from walking away a conversation that even remotely has to do with tickling, especially from a cute girl who just sat down and was daring enough to ask.

^o^ You go ahead and let' em go. More weirdo serial killers for me to enjoy.

 

[slap'n'ticklee]

this one may be more for the ladies hear to answer.
your in a park or somewhere public.you are sitting down and have on sandals or have pulled your feet out of your shoes. your sitting by yourself,just watching people. when this attractive guy walks up and out of the blue.says"nice feet you have. are they ticklish"?
what would be your response to a question like that from a stranger?
how far would you take this conversation? given this guy seems normal in every way and given your own tickling fetish?

As I'm an open, friendly sort of gal I'll chat to anyone (usually if they start the convo first), and they don't have to be attractive for me to talk to them either, I'm not discriminative in that way.

I would probably answer, yeah they are ticklish with a smile and leave it at that and make a quick exit whilst maybe thinking, he's a bit forward to say that and hope he's not a nutter lol.

 

[TheTickleMonster]

well the question was if a guy did that, i'd have to say um, lol i'd be a little weirded out, of course i do get more gay guys interested in my then girls though 😛 lol

but if a cute girl asked me that I'd probably say "I don't know, are yours?" (Then of course if she said yes, I'd ask about the rest of her body since I care more about finding out about her stomach and legs 😛 ) Lol, I don't think I'd be uncomfortable with it. I talk to beautiful girls and stuff all the time and compliment them so it would be okay, it would never happy but it woudl be okay lol..

 

[Deleted member 2452]

wow, times have changed.. for the worse i see

if a good looking lady came up to me sitting there bare footed and asked if my feet were ticklish, (plus said they were attractive) i'd hold up my feet, and say find out for yourself! if she tickled them, after i was through laughing, i'd say thank you!
when i was younger i used to do this kind of thing. no big deal, it was a great conversation starter. many times the girls would offer their feet to be tickle tested 😛oke3: get more than a few dates that way.
what's wrong with todays society/people.

 

[VioletGiggles]

I would freak if a complete stranger came and asked me that. Run, Forrest, run!!

 

[Ace Riley]

if a good looking lady came up to me sitting there bare footed and asked if my feet were ticklish, (plus said they were attractive) i'd hold up my feet, and say find out for yourself! if she tickled them, after i was through laughing, i'd say thank you!
when i was younger i used to do this kind of thing. no big deal, it was a great conversation starter. many times the girls would offer their feet to be tickle tested 😛oke3: get more than a few dates that way.
what's wrong with todays society/people.

TV and the media happened and now everybody thinks they are in a slasher movie.

Could be true. Someone could be looking at you through your window right now.

That guy who makes your coffee at Starbucks might be following you home.

That dude in the park sitting on the bench with a magazine might have a camera on his shoe and is taking panty shot pics of walking female strollers.

Oh noes, they're right behind you! O_O

...but yeah, nobody trusts anyone these days. That's what the internet is for, and the media is making even that look dangerous. The danger is in lack of experience in how to handle oneself in an community. When you were a kid your mom told you not to talk to strangers, made you think before ya talked. Grown-ups on the internet are very much like children, in that they are in a new world and inexperienced in the way it works. We're adults, we think we're ready for anything. Yet, we're not...

So people are overprotective. Especially women. But in the end, as sad as it is, when you look at it... it's infinitely hard to blame them. I really can't. Show some vulnerability sometimes and you're hit with trouble before you even know it.

I lose hope in society daily. Yeah, times have changed.

 

[Myriads]

Simply put, the question crosses the social boundry lines as curently defined in this current time period.

It's a too much too fast question.

While most people hold no special feelings about tickling one way or another, the question involves the revelation of information that shows some personal aspects that involve the sort of touch contact that would tend to only be shared by people of a semi-advanced relationship level. The asking of the question implies a desire/intent to be on that level of interaction with the person. That reads as 'wrong' to most people, as it's a jump in the development of the relationship that has no basis as the asker is a stranger.

The weird feelings come because a person who is a stranger, is asking for information that does not lie in the normal range of that relationship levels expected norms.

Myriads

 

[rajee]

many times the girls would offer their feet to be tickle tested 😛oke3: get more than a few dates that way.

I am envious of those days.

Ladies, what if a guy came up and confidently, politely and friendly asked if he could photograph or videotape your feet/soles?

 

[GQguy]

Alot of times when approaching women I find that what I say really doesn't matter. It's all about how I say it. I think if I said the above statement with good eye contact and a smile it might actually open up a conversation. If my intentions were only to tickle her and I was really self conscious then it would manifest itself in a wierd awkward moment between she an I. I think the right guy with the right amount of confidence can pull it off.
Senerio #1
Ladies, you see Brad Pitt out in the park while you're reading. You're checking him out. He sees you and you both smile at each other. You see Brad coming over making good eye contact and smiling at you. He says "You've got cute feet, are they ticklish?" while maintaining eye contact. I'd say almost 100% of the time the girl will laugh and say "what?" while giggling. Conversation ensues.

Senerio #2
Ladies, you see a guy, not very attractive and a bit akward looking. You go back to reading. All of a sudden you see him approaching you but looking at the ground the entire time. Did he lose something on the ground is your thought. You're laying out on the grass and he's at your feet staring at them. With a quick glance at your eyes he says "you have very pretty feet, are they ticklish?". Barely getting his words out as he asks the question. I'd say almost 100% of the time this girl is going to react by trying to avoid this guy. Wether it be with a "no", or a "get away". Conversation halts.

It's all about style. If it were me ,I'd start with at least a hello and a smile first ;O)

GQguy

 

[Ace Riley]

You are good! Do you analyse that way automatically, or was it reflection based on the question and past data collection?

Myriad's is a master at explaining what should be common sense.

This is no insult, it's a credit to his awareness. I bet he sighs when he sees this sort of thread and is semi-frustrated to having to type it out into words.

Indeed, it's a shame the things he writes sometimes isn't something that just pops up in our heads automatically. It should.

Some people see things more clearly than others, I wish I could have the ability to not dilute what should be common sense with 'opinion'. It gets in the way, thankfully there are people like him to sort things out.

 

[minerva]

It's all about style. If it were me ,I'd start with at least a hello and a smile first ;O)

GQguy

I definitely agree, it's a lot about style, but the way you've presented your scenarios, it's about style AND looks.
What if it was the attractive guy looking to the ground, barely getting his words out and the not so attractive one smiling, keeping eye contact and speaking confidently?

 

[Illtcklu]

this one may be more for the ladies hear to answer.
your in a park or somewhere public.you are sitting down and have on sandals or have pulled your feet out of your shoes. your sitting by yourself,just watching people. when this attractive guy walks up and out of the blue.says"nice feet you have. are they ticklish"?
what would be your response to a question like that from a stranger?
how far would you take this conversation? given this guy seems normal in every way and given your own tickling fetish?

Um....... I honestly would never ask that question........

very interesting question 😀 - but unrealistic scenario in my opinion - it's never the normal, nice and attractive guys who come over and ask such questions

According to Minerva.... I am a nice, normal, attractive guy then.



WOW! I like this thread!

 

[GQguy]

The guy with confidence always beats out the good looking guy without.