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2ticklish4eva

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ok so ...


my bf of 8 months cheated on me last friday at a gig

it was only a drunken kiss


but it has upset me alot

were now broken up

but hes still trying to get back with me

hes now going to a gig with the same mates but at a differnt place

i dont know why i care so much

but im scared he will cheat again

i mean i want to get back with him but i need time

am i being unreasonable?

just for the record i have never cheated and dont plan to

he promised he would not go to a gig for some time unless he is with me

help 🙁
:ermm:
 
I agree....If he cheated on you at one gig, he will do it again for sure...

There is definitely something wrong in the relationship if he can't control his "urges" or if he gets so drunk that his judgement is impaired....

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Move on.

How can you and he be sure he wouldn't cheat again?:ermm:
If I was you, I'd move on.
It may seem hard now but once your completely over him you'll know you've done the right thing.
Don't stay with him to build yourself up for more hardbreak.
I know, you will soon find someone who loves you more than anything who wouldn't risk you for a stupid drunken kiss.
 
There’re a very small percentage of people who plans on cheating on a love one; especially if this was is first and only time. Something as simple as touching someone’s hand when exchanging money may cause you to cheat. No one is prefect in this world; NO ONE, so trying to hold someone to a perfect standard will only make you very unhappy.

You can
a. Leave him an hopes of finding another guy how will not cheat on you
b. Stay with him an hopes he will not cheat on you again

It’s up to you which way you will go; however, remember this.
What ever choice you make pray you do not fall in the same trap he did and have to wait around to see if your guy will drop you for a one time mistake.

If it was a one time mistake.
 
The safest advice would be to move on. You're broken up over it? You're afraid he's going to do it again? Lots of emotion there, lots of worry, and lots of stuff you don't need.

At the same time, it's clear you at least miss him, as you're practically defending him here, or maybe quoting his defense to you:

2ticklish4eva said:
it was only a drunken kiss
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Since he's trying to get back with you, and you miss him and are unsure, odds are, regardless of what we say, you're gonna' go back. Not saying you can't choose differently -- just that experience tells me you probably won't.

And then, either way, you'll learn what you're meant to learn.

Out of curiosity, however, how did you find out about the kiss? That may have some importance.
 
As much as you might be able to trust him again, I can't imagine how to trust a drunk person.

Those kinds of situations happen a lot when people are drinking. Even if the girl came on to him, he should have been able to get out of it, but he didn't.
 
2ticklish4eva said:
ok so ...


my bf of 8 months cheated on me last friday at a gig

it was only a drunken kiss


but it has upset me alot

were now broken up

but hes still trying to get back with me

hes now going to a gig with the same mates but at a differnt place

i dont know why i care so much

but im scared he will cheat again

i mean i want to get back with him but i need time

am i being unreasonable?

just for the record i have never cheated and dont plan to

he promised he would not go to a gig for some time unless he is with me

help 🙁
:ermm:
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Well.. my advice is DUMP THE CHEATING SOB!.. this time it was a drunken kiss.. next time it'll be drunken sex..
 
"hes now going to a gig with the same mates but at a differnt place"
"he promised he would not go to a gig for some time unless he is with me"

Seems like you already know how much you can trust him.

Giggle's right, trusting a drunk person won't work.
 
A drunken kiss... unfortunately 90% of people do this, I see it all the time. One drunken kiss is not cheating, it's blind stupidity on his part. If it happens again, then he is probably the unfaithful sort and, yes, it would probably be time to move on.

However, there is also the posibility of the alcohol combined with mates spuring him on or rather putting the girl onto him. That is something else I have seen often.

Don't be too quick to end something if it has been good so far based on one mistake. But don't get caught in the trap of continually forgiving him if it happens again.

Take care of your emotions first.
 
My advice

Strike him repeatedly about the head with a large stick until his stops moving, and then rifle through his pockets and leave him brainless and penniless.
 
alchemy said:
Strike him repeatedly about the head with a large stick until his stops moving, and then rifle through his pockets and leave him brainless and penniless.
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I think it's established that the fellow is already brainless.
 
How did you find out?

Did he tell you he kissed another girl or did you hear it from someone else?
 
As a guy who's in a relationship with a girl he hates, take it from me: If he cheats on you he doesn't like you. Period, end of story.
 
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