Calling all Lady Ticklers/Ticklees'

[MistressMia]

Any Ladies out there in Tickle Land want to start a thread based primarily on a woman's perspective on tickling?

I can't do this by myself, so I expect and encourage some response to this Ladies!!

As always, I will never exclude the fella's but I really do want to hear from the ladies. Who know's maybe some will de-lurk! So come out, come out wherever you are!!

Are you a tickler/lee? what do you like/dislike? Better yet, what do you wish for? Let's show these guys how creative we can be while still remaining "ladylike". This is my challenge to you females!

 

[njjen3953]

Are you a tickler/lee? what do you like/dislike? Better yet, what do you wish for? Let's show these guys how creative we can be while still remaining "ladylike". This is my challenge to you females!

Mia,
You know you can always count on me. I'll stand by your side anytime.

So, in answer to your questions,
1) I am 100% ticklee(Sorry guys).
2) I like it long, hard and merciless. Restrained or unretrained. Just give me your most sadistic tickling and I'm a happy camper. I get very arroused by this type of torture and hope you do too. I have no problem if you ...um...need to relieve yourself, I only ask that you don't interrupt my torture to do it.
3)What do I wish for? Well, ultimately I would like to be living with my tickler/lover and be at his mercy all the time. I honestly believe I would be totally content to be tickled for at least an hour, several times a day.
My biggest fantasy is to be kidnapped and tickle tortured for many days with very few breaks. One scenerio is that I am mistakenly captured by someone or someones who want to extract infomation from me that I do not have.
I also wish to be the helpless victim of our favorite Mrs. Mia.

I hope this is what you were looking for.

I Love Ya,
Jen

 

[MistressMia]

Not a shadow of a doubt, Jen

I knew I could count on you, it was just a matter of you seeing the post.

I love your fantasy comments! Maybe one day your fantasy will come true...

I'd like some more females to come forward please, I feel pretty silly standing here with only one loyal Lady representing amongst more than 800 registered members.

If you don't feel like answering the questions, then don't. Say whatever you're comfortable saying. Just let us know you're out there! I appreciate the support.

 

[TMF Jeff]

You know, I have to say, I'm really disappointed by the lack of response to this. The online tickling community has always been something of a boys' club, and this board is a real chance to change that.

There are a lot of female members of this board not saying anything here who probably should be.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[TickledToDeath]

😕
Come On Ladies!!!
You should be flooding Mia with responses!
She is a 100% genuine, sincere lady whom I have had the pleasure of meeting at my last Hyenas Gathering and along with her, ladies, you can make a difference and much needed and welcome addition to the community, TMF and the Hyenas Club. She has, now where are YOU????
Here is your chance. Take advantage.

TTD

 

[nontkl]

Maybe there should be a ladies only forum...some women/girls/females might be intimidated by the heavy male presence (understandable, right?). Of course, that would deny the rest of us the voyeuristic thrill and informative benefits of getting a woman's point of view!(lol!). But tough noogies on us!!

Also, if it was a ladies only section how do you check if the member is REALLY a female (which is sometimes a...how should I say it(?)...a SITUATION you encounter online! This doesn't include Mia or Nijen however! They're definitely of the female persuasion!).

Hope I didn't say anything out of line. Maybe no male should even be allowed to post a reply to this very thread!! Maybe there could be ladies night in the chat room.

Hi Mia!

 

[ticklehound]

Callin all ladies!
You have nothin to fear, we cannot tickle you over the Net . . . yet. So cut loose. By the looks of it, some of these ladies may be crazier than us. We need that to balance this club.
Take care

 

[MistressMia]

Pleasantly Surprised...

Hello Fellas,

I must say that I am pleasantly surprised by the amount of support and response to this thread by the males!!

I'm also slightly disappointed by the lack of female response (except of course, by my lady Jen). However, I'm giving it the benefit of a doubt and chalking it up to two things: 1)It's only been posted for a few days; 2)It follows suit with the rest of my horrible week. Note: Excluding a visit a got from a sister Mistress.

Ladies,
If you're out their, feel free to reply to this. I don't think you have to worry about being in a meet market and getting hit on. From my own experience, I can say with confidence that 99% of the male members are gentlemen.

Not getting it's due response...
I'm almost forced to think that the females in the TMF Member Pics are either EXTREMELY shy; haven't seen this post; don't give a damn; or are very convincing transvestites!

I just don't know what to think anymore. I'm very discouraged at this point. I hope to see a shift in response soon.

 

[njjen3953]

I'm almost forced to think that the females in the TMF Member Pics are either EXTREMELY shy; haven't seen this post; don't give a damn; or are very convincing transvestites!

>>Mia, hun. I have to say that most females in the tickling community are wannabees who lurk only. Just look at the Hyenas Gathering turnout. Three willing females out of how many? It is a shame, but then again, more for us.
If any of you women out there see this and want to prove me wrong, I welcome you to do so right here in this thread.

Jen

 

[TickledToDeath]

😕 Mind boggling, isn't it!?

Ladies ladies ladies, there are soooooo many of us guys out here that are willing to tickle the heck out and also BE mercilessly tickled BY YOU!!!
Yet you continue to hide in the dark shadows of lurkdom!

Mistress Mia is standing at the portal beckoning you in. Jen is standing beside her. Both paving the way into tickling and ticklish heaven via TMF as well as helping me with the Hyenas_Club.
Opportunity knocks. Are you home?

TTD

 

[Miss tickle]

Another tickler here

Hi mia,
I am a female tickler/lee also, as a matter of fact I have been trying to reply to your message for a 2 days now but the messages I sent didnt get through, I am just getting use to how things work around here as I am a new member.

What do I like? well I like to be tied down and tickle tortured be lots of people at the same time for hours, I also like to tickle torture people while they have tape on their mouth so that I can torture them by saying things like "what did you say? speak up I cant understand you, oh! more tickling?, okay if you insist" even though they are trying to say the exact opposite.

Me and my friends, who also like tickling have this tickle game that we invented and we like to have a little get togther and have some tickle sessions.

What do I wish for? well just like you mia, I want to dish out all those ladies who are still, it would be good to talk to some more ladies and share games and experiences, or even meet in person for some tickle sessions.

This thread is a good idea to gather all the lady ticklers and ticklees,it would really get this forum going, so you can count me in!

 

[Ayla ny]

Mia, I appreciate what you are doing and because of that I wanted to reply to this thread.

I am married and unable to meet people as freely as some others... but I do like the idea of a woman's perspective on tickling and being tickled being represented. I think we are as varied as the men seem to be in our likes and fantasies.

I tend to want a relationship playful and trusting enough to involve a wide variety of tickling (and am working on that) 🙂. pretty boring compared to many... I so enjoy reading peoples thoughts, fantansies and stories about what they like and sharing mine.

part of the problem with getting lurking women to post may be that it is ok for men to have a kink or two... but we women are supposed to be uninterested in what may or may not excite us. I certainly have never fit into that mold... but have sometimes felt like I am supposed to.

enough rambling lol

Ayla

 

[MistressMia]

Welcome...

to my humble abode here at the TMF.

Miss Tickle and Ayla NY, I'd like to welcome you and thank you personally for responding to my thread. I feel I have more surface to stand on now. Both of your replies are very informative and candid and I do appreciate that. I can anticipate many JUICY THREADS to come!! (no pun intended)

NJJen, I know you have my back! You and I alone can reek havock in this Forum if we so choose, but now we have at least 2 more soldiers. This is getting interesting!

I hope to enlist a few more Ladies! Come out, come out wherever you are!!!

😉

 

[njjen3953]

Mia, I was in the TMF chatroom last night and put out a plea to the ladies in the room to reply to this thread. I hope it works.

jen

 

[CeeCee]

Hi Mia

Hello Mia,
This is also my first time posting on the forum. I'm also kind of new to the community. Been around quietly (and to some, not so quietly) for about a year now.
I am both a tickler and a ticklee. Love every second of it too. Some of the things that I really love ticklee wise are lers who knows how to pay attention to their lees. Lers have to be able to discern many things and sometimes they are so into the fact that they are tickling a body that they don't care whether or not the lee is getting the most out of the scene, or if they are comfortable... things like that. I guess ticklers need to realize that not all lees are the same. That would make things a whole lot easier. And learn to listen too!
I love to have my body explored. I enjoy making my tickler find each and every spot on his own. Its exciting to feel the worried anticipation when he is nearing a spot that I know is going to reduce me to begging and breathless laughter, but it is also good to know that if a spot is not as ticklish, he moves on, keeps going, and does not get discouraged. The coolest thing in the world is when he finds a spot that even I wasn't aware of. Only the lers who pay close attention to their lees can do that.
Sometimes I'm in the mood for endless and ruthless torture, but sometimes I'm in the mood to have my ticklish boundaries teased and discovered. I am also open to learning new things since I am no expert.
Now that I have written a book, what do I wish for? Like Jen, an awesome relationship with a guy who for once loves tickling and to be tickled.
And one of my tickle fantasies is to be bound so I cannot move a thing and blindfolded. I need to be restrained in such a way that my back and my front are exposed at the same time. And then I want guys placed strategically at different parts of my body. I want to know what it feels like to have all my tickle spots stimulated at the same time. I wonder how long I could take it.
Well, hope I answered your questions...
CeeCee

 

[MistressMia]

Mmm, Mmm Good

Just like Campbel Soup

CeeCee,

Wow! That was right up my alley! I almost slid off my chair! Very nice indeed! I, like you, enjoy being both the lee and the ler.

You have a very valid point in saying that it is important for a ler to pay keen attention to the response of the lee.

Having said that, I'd like to take this opportunity to officially welcome you the active "posting" side of the TMF world. You'll find it to be quite different and often times rewarding. It's one of the perks of being an "active member" and not just a "lurker". You'll find that your views will be acknowledged, sometimes addressed and other times even challenged. Whatever the case, it's all done in the relevant and mature nature of fun and passion!

I appreciate you coming out and posting on my thread, CeeCee. Thank you. You should probably think about posting a story...

 

[CeeCee]

Well, I'm not really a good writer, although I like to do it. But I love telling true stories and describing my fantasies. I just posted a short description about one of my earlier experiences with tickling
under MTJpub thread entitled "Eyewitness accounts of tickling!"

Feel free to read it. I hope you enjoy it and maybe you can help me with my writing skills. Oh and please email me and tell me more about this Hyenas Club.

Smile,
CeeCee

 

[Tamz]

Okay, I'm next, or in Mia's words - I'm "delurking."

Being in a semi serious relationship, I have discovered just how much I love dishing out the tickle attacks as well as receiving them. Therefore I guess that makes me a lee as well as a ler. As a lee, I love being heavily restrained for bondage became an initial interest before tickling. I soon realized that there's not much else which tops a combination of the two. Being as ticklish as I am, most parts on me serve as being my "worst spots." However, naturally there are always areas which are more sensitive than others, but I choose not to pinpoint these regions just yet. As for methods, ruthless torture is great, but most times a tickler who stops periodically gives false relief that it may be over, which in turn is more torturous than prolonged non-stop tickling. These breaks usually only last a few seconds or two, but they serve their purpose effectively. As a ler, what's not to love. I enjoy the reactions of my partner more than anything. Seeing a grown man squeel and beg in between thrashing fits somehow appeals to me, painting me mildly sadistic I suppose. 😉

Overall, I only wish the tickling scene had a little more spotlight on it. For me, being tickled past the brink in tight bondage is mind blowing foreplay (amongst other things!) I hope this isn't the last of the thread, because I know there are more females out there who have something to say about this topic..

Take care!

 

[Ayla ny]

Tamz, I too was into bondage first. wonderful how they go together isn't it?! your post summed it up perfectly to me. right down to the being "mildly sadistic". glad you decided to delurk. 🙂

Ayla

 

[Honey]

Hi everyone, thought it was time i made an appearence,

I too have been lurking for quite a while, but now i feel its time to come out 🙂
I love tickling in everysense of the activity, doing it, having it done to me, or merely watching it.
I must confess though, at the moment its all really in my head. I have been watching videos, looking at clips, talking about it and reading stories but am yet to be 'properly' tickled, or do the tickling. By these, i mean being tied + tickled. I have offcourse been tickled many a time, and a few times been pinned and unable to move, but still these occasions last only short periods. From these, however, i know that i am One Hell of a ticklish Gal! Pretty much all-over my body too. My feet, pits and ribs are the most, but i have felt that there are certain other areas that if given enough attention would drive me insane.
What i would like eventually, is to be truly tickled. Completely imobilized and vulnerable, left to simply take the punishment which to me would be torture. I can imagine, this as being complete and utter suicide in a way, but something about the idea really appeals to me. However, i doubt i would be saying that, if i was in the situation. I would love to experience this for several reason. The torture aspect is paramount to this, the fact that i could not make it stop would be a huge turn on. I have literally grown up on watching tickling clips and vids and to experience the feelings and sensations that the tickling models have endured would be an event that i would relish. A video i recently saw was FemFeets, Dungeon of Happiness, the bondage in that was extreme and allowed for unbelievably intense tickling, thats the kind of tickling i want.
I think a number of positions and 'ties' would be effective - i don't know if there's any that leave all 'tickle-spots' vulnerable to attack, but there are many that come close. A favourite, when watching is - 'tummy-lie' - the upturned soles and apparent increase in sensations attract me to this position.

Anyway, i've gon on a bit, sorry people, least i have come-out.
Thanxs for listening, if anyone wants to chat i am on
Yahoo messager - My ID is Honeytic

Bye, Honey XxX

 

[Darkknight]

I know that the tickling community has got to be 80 to 90 percent of males, so I appreciate Mia starting this thread.

It's nice to hear the female side of this interest.
Very cool. 🙂

Peace always,
DK

 

[TickledToDeath]

Honey,Cee Cee, Ayla, Tamz and all the ladies...

...who posted to Mias' thread. On behalf of the entire tickling Community as well as the TMF and the Hyenas Club. I wish to personally welcome you out of the Lurk and into the ticklishness and tickling!

To those who have yet to "experience" the ultimate in tickling and or being tickled, I wish to personally invite you to join the Hyenas Club and come to one of if not the next gathering!
Mia, jen and jaime were there and will hopefully if not most likely will be there again!
IF you don't believe me that the Hyenas Club is a group of the best of the best warm sincere and trustworthy group of people, just ask either if not all of them.

Those who want more info and the join up URL can e-mail me anytime at [email protected]
OR visit the Hyenas Club at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Hyenas_Club

You can also visit my website where there is a banner link that will take you to the Club.
http://community.webtv.net/TickledToDeath/TickleTales

Again, welcome and kitchi kitchi kooooooo!



Ticklishly,

TTD
Owner/Founder/Moderator/CEO
Hyenas_Club

Ps. Mia, thanks for all your help and your kind words about myself and the Hyenas as well as opening the door for the female tickler/lees!

😉

 

[Capt. Spalding]

I just find a skirt and heels comfortable, all right?

Mia and friends,
Any effort to broaden the active membership,discussion,and artistic contributions on the Forum is good sense--not to mention good fun--
and easily earns my huzzahs. I'd like to see more diversity across
gender and sexual persuasion lines: straight, gay, bi-, men, women--whatever the permutation.
The Forum simply would be rooted more firmly in cyberspace--and be a
lot more interesting place to visit each day--if it's open to the most
inclusive consideration of matters ticklish.
As to why the Forum is so obviously dominated by the boys and leaves
most women merely lurking, a cursory look at the posts says it all.
They're heavily weighted towards hetero guys' tickling fantasies,
laced with a generous flavor of the disempowerment of women, when
they're not outright misogynistic.Don't think I exempt myself in this regard. My writing clearly marks me as guilty as anyone on the Forum.
So it's absurd to claim I'm opposed to such fantasies. I just want
a fuller range of human experience represented here.I fully understand
why a woman would hesitate to join in after she's seen the narrow range of
the material here.
Having said that, I add my voice to the others: Women, take the plunge; grasp the quill; join in. You may fear being stampeded by
a lot of raging male hormones, but bear in mind that some of the
most articulate Forum members are female. The more of you there are,
the day when this Forum ceases to be a mere boys' club arrives all the
sooner.
Of course--and here's my usual fly-in-the-ointment, burr-under-the-saddle, muddy-pawprints-on-that-newly-waxed-kitchen-floor--from my
vantage point, there's no way for me to tell who a member really is.
How many of us create wholly fabulous and fictitious persona in our
'Net identities? How can you be sure someone is as s/he claims?
Why, I might be an Alice or a Nancy, and Mia might be a Tom or a Dick.
Well, with voice and video chats, that would seem to be a lot harder
to pull off (although I can sport a wicked falsetto and amateur theatre can teach plenty about makeup). You just don't always know--
and isn't that a kick?

 

[MistressMia]

Nice!

Capt'n,
I'm so pleased to hear from you. I haven't seen you post for ages!
I appreciate your support in this. And you're right. It is a kick to not know for sure. However, even though I'm looking for females in the Forum, I also want female representation. This is to say that if a male chooses to dawn a female screen-name, I don't mind as long as he can convincingly represent a female perspective. Confusing? Never mind...

Darkknight,
Thank you for your encouragement and support.

TTD,
What can I say, you're a doll.

And last but not least...😀
Tamz, Ayla, Honey, and EQ,
Welcome!
I truly enjoy reading your candid descriptions of your likes and fantasies. I've noticed that most women that replied to this post are into being tied and tickled. It's a nice combination indeed!

I can definitely relate to you all on that. I know that sounds funny coming from a Professional Domina. But before I was a Dom, I was very submissive. Although I never truly had a master, all my lovers would swear that they were into B&D (Bondage and Discipline)but they would turn out to just be all talk and no action. So I got tired of waiting and got into the Dom side of the Top/bottom relationship. I found this was also a huge turn-on for me because I like control and ALWAYS strive to get it.

While in between relationships, I decided to try working at a Dungeon to see if I liked it. It turns out that I love it. I'm very much into the psychological aspect of Domination and Fantasy Roleplay. In college I took a course in Human Sexuality among many other Psych courses (although it wasn't my major) which gave me a glimpse into the theoretical and psychological background of fetishes. While at the Dungeon, I see men go from being socially acceptable, to their most "shameful" state. I know their most deepest darkest desires and help them realize them to a certain capacity. I take pride in being a part of their self-expression and growth in that way. What makes me different from most Doms (unfortunately) is that I genuinely care. I'm not critical and I don't pass judgement and my focus is completely on them during the session. So, I said all of that to explain why I said that I could relate to the submissive tickling. I hope I did not confuse you.

Now back on track: I'm sure most of us like other things besides tickling, however we will keep this thread based on tickling and it's relevant pairings. (Although I could probably host a lecture on it, we won't be discussing "strap-on" training in this thread or forum). That's an all-together different thread in another forum! 😱

Thank you ladies for all your input so far. The emergense of more lady tickler/lees is crucial to it's growth and establishment. Females are territorial by nature (in my own humble oppinion) so let's claim some of this territory ladies!!

To all, be well.

 

[RosieCreek]

Another lurker comes out

Hello everyone,

I developed the tickling fetish very early in life like most of you, probably, but it was my most deeply guarded secret for almost 35 years. It wasn't until I saw my first tickling message on a Prodigy bulletin board a few years ago that I was able to come to terms with my own desires and begin my exploration. I remember how I couldn't eat or sleep for a good week after this discovery of online tickling, and how it really opened my life.
Anyway, the years went by and believe it or not, I met the love of my life in a tickle chat room 4 years ago this April. I had always thought of myself as a ticklee, and all my growing up fantasies were mainly the usual, being bound and tickled senseless, but after meeting my partner I have come to enjoy being the tickler just as much. I love playing games with a lot of teasing and a variety of tickling, from those torturous, slow caresses over ticklish spots to full out, frantic fingers flying, tickling till you're breathless, sweating and out of your mind with it all. One thing I fantasize about is being tickled by an expert female with long nails and a light touch. Or perhaps I could be the subject in a school for students learning how to become expert ticklers. Yeah, that's it! I would be tied down, totally helpless while this expert female with the long nails would first demonstrate what a real tickler could accomplish, then one by one the students would practice what they had just seen, but also try some of their own techniques. Of course, they'd all have to practice until they got it right. Perhaps for the final, they could practice in groups.

Well anyway, one thing I do wonder is if anyone else felt like they had to hide their own desires because of a feeling of shame or embarassment. I'm also curious as to the age range in these forums, and what do the guys think about women of a certain age as ticklish subjects.

Thanks for listening,
RosieCreek