Hi, luvs,
I'd like to briefly weigh in on the topicality concern raised by Nessie and Camel. This is not meant as an attack on anyone; these are just my observations about this forum in general.
One of the wonderful things about TT is the camaraderie and rapport that we have here, which extends off the boards as well. One reason for this is TT's established tradition of allowing threads to wander as they go. We get to play around, to learn about each other, to be silly, to comfort, to support, and to care about one another -- we couldn't do this if every thread had to stay on one topic only.
Another beautiful thing about TT is that this forum is truly self-policing. The members back each other up when necessary, usually before the mods have a chance to get involved. In cases where I saw difficulties, I also noticed that other members had responded before I had the chance to jump in. We take care of each other here, more effectively than I would have thought possible.
While "community moderation" (as it is called) does not work at most other forums, it DOES work here. This community is special, much closer-knit than any other forum of this size.
As they saying goes, "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." I hope that we can all agree NOT to "fix" Tickle Theater, because it works beautifully as it is 🙂