Can someone help me

[KlicDaTick97]

Hey im new to this whole tickling fetish thing, I want to know if this is normal cuz I cant help it. I go to Cal State Long Beach, and I cant remember when tickling became a turn on for me. Im kind of nervous posting this cuz to tell the truth im a little embarrassed of this fetish and i have never admitted that tickling turns me on to nobody and this actually feels good to finally get this off my chest. Any way i wanted to know if someone could please give me advice on whether or not i should admit to my girlfriend that getting tickled turns me on. I noticed that each time she tickles me i get turned on, I remeber last year in high school at my prom my ex- girlfriend tickled me and it was embarrassing cuz i got really turned on by it. What should I do tell her straight up or not, Im scared that she will think Im weird and I really like her a lot, I dont want to lose her. It really sucks cuz im kinda super ticklish and i always tell people im not ticklish just so we could change the subject. My older sister used to tickle me when i was younger and it might sound nasty but i couldn't help it but laugh and than that would lead me to being turned on. I now find myself in the same situation with my girlfriend i need help to know what i should do please please, someone give me good advice.

 

[Rorschach Blues]

This is a really common problem.

Firstly, there is nothing wrong with you for being into tickling. It's fun, clean and there are far more embarrassing things to get aroused by.

Secondly, you'd be surprised how receptive girls are to the idea of trying new things, especially if you've been going out for a while. It depends on how honest you are with each other, but if you've been going out for more than a month (and have have had some form of sex) then there's nothing strange about talking about 'kinks'.

Trust me when I say, I've been through it, I think everyone here has, but you have to ask yourself, would you prefer to live a lie, or have an open and honest relationship with this girl? If she's the kind of girl who gets scared off by the idea of someone being turned on by tickled, she's probably not right for you, and if not, then you may just have the time of your life with her.

I hope this was helpful. Best of luck,

RB

 

[dvnc]

Rorschach Blues has it straight, man.

You're experiencing what every male 'lee experiences (and many female 'lees get it as well).

Part of being here, and part of meeting socially with us in real life, is to show yourself that there's a BUNCH of us.

Clue her that when she tickles you, it arouses you. Tell her that it ain't a bad thing, either.

If she don't take to it, you DO need to find another woman, 'cause this interest doesn't just go away. I've met members here in their 50s and 60s. One gent, back in the 90s, was 60 when he showed to his first gathering, shamed 'cause he snuck out, many miles away, from his wife, 'cause he wanted to play JUST ONCE before he left this good life. Never saw him again. He offlined shortly after.

Don't be him. Don't wait until you're near retirin' to acknowledge something that is simple and easily shared.

Too, you have an advantage - you're a 'lee. It's WAY tougher for a 'ler. Women will do to you far faster than accept tickling, in several cases. Doing something that she finds will turn you on will, generally, turn her on.

Oh, sidenote - once you do show this to her, it's for her only, unless she's kinked by nature. This ain't a bad thing, necessarily. It just means playing in groups or at clubs likely won't work. It's something you talk about with her, and accept from her perspective.