CuteJill143
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I met my guy on an internet dating site. (A vanilla one). The first time we started talking through text we got into a conversation about foot massages and he started saying that they tickle and he said how ticklish he was was and even gave away some spots without me having to ask. In the back of my mind, I knew he sounded promising. I teased back saying that was the worst thing he could have told me and left it at that. There was no need to tell him right away before we had even had our first date. I later found out that he practically had everything else in common too.
The first time we were cuddling/wrestling on his bed and I went to tickle his sides and he told me not to do that because it turned him on too much and being tickled made him want to rip my clothes off. I knew that if I told him that I loved tickling too I would have a positive reaction. I had never been happier to tell a guy whom I was dating how much I enjoyed it too. I had no doubt in my mind whatsoever.
My boyfriend said that him being tickled always turned him on but he never knew it could be explored as a fetish until he met me and I talked about it to him. He has never experienced tickling in the ways that I described to him and he was intrigued. At first he was a bit shy about it and didn't mention it for a while after I admitted to him that it turns me on too. He eventually came around on his own when he brought it up to me on his own one night while we were watching TV and said that that he wanted to explore the tickling more. I knew he was sincere and not just trying to humor me. He told me that we needed feathers and restraints and a blindfold 😀. He did some research on tickling to learn what to do. After the first time I restrained him with belts and tickled him he was addicted, he then ordered under the bed restraints to try which haven't came yet. At first I was afraid that he was strictly a LEE but he really does love tickling me too. Lately hes been pinning me down and tickling me and it drives him crazy when he gets that control, teases me and hears me laugh and sees my squirm.
He jokingly says that because of me he now has "a major tickle problem" and he thinks he likes it more than I do now if that's even possible. He is so addicted to me tickling him and him tickling me, its incredible.
Was this potential deep down inside of him that I coincidentally activated or unleashed or just simply "got him into it" or was this with him all along the way it has been with me? Is it possible for somebody to learn to like tickling from their partner and then all of a sudden develop a full blown fetish after trying it? or is a fetish "genetic" or innate (Something people are both with?)
I felt that with me, my fetish for tickling is innate. With my boyfriend I am not too sure but all I know is that this is great that I have someone like him.
Either way does not matter to me since my partner is officially into it! woo hoo!!
The first time we were cuddling/wrestling on his bed and I went to tickle his sides and he told me not to do that because it turned him on too much and being tickled made him want to rip my clothes off. I knew that if I told him that I loved tickling too I would have a positive reaction. I had never been happier to tell a guy whom I was dating how much I enjoyed it too. I had no doubt in my mind whatsoever.
My boyfriend said that him being tickled always turned him on but he never knew it could be explored as a fetish until he met me and I talked about it to him. He has never experienced tickling in the ways that I described to him and he was intrigued. At first he was a bit shy about it and didn't mention it for a while after I admitted to him that it turns me on too. He eventually came around on his own when he brought it up to me on his own one night while we were watching TV and said that that he wanted to explore the tickling more. I knew he was sincere and not just trying to humor me. He told me that we needed feathers and restraints and a blindfold 😀. He did some research on tickling to learn what to do. After the first time I restrained him with belts and tickled him he was addicted, he then ordered under the bed restraints to try which haven't came yet. At first I was afraid that he was strictly a LEE but he really does love tickling me too. Lately hes been pinning me down and tickling me and it drives him crazy when he gets that control, teases me and hears me laugh and sees my squirm.
He jokingly says that because of me he now has "a major tickle problem" and he thinks he likes it more than I do now if that's even possible. He is so addicted to me tickling him and him tickling me, its incredible.
Was this potential deep down inside of him that I coincidentally activated or unleashed or just simply "got him into it" or was this with him all along the way it has been with me? Is it possible for somebody to learn to like tickling from their partner and then all of a sudden develop a full blown fetish after trying it? or is a fetish "genetic" or innate (Something people are both with?)
I felt that with me, my fetish for tickling is innate. With my boyfriend I am not too sure but all I know is that this is great that I have someone like him.
Either way does not matter to me since my partner is officially into it! woo hoo!!