Can you like tickling TOO much?

[BikiniGirl]

I have a question for you experienced members here. Do you think it's ok if tickling is not only a part of your sexual make-up, but the "main ingredient", for lack of a better explanation?

For a while now, I've only really been interested in sex if there was some kind of bondage involved (usually with lil 'ol me on the receiving end, but I do switch occasionally), but lately it seems that I need to have tickling involved or it's just not the same. There's something about the feel of losing yourself in the sensations while you can't do anything about it that has become more important than I thought it would. Is this something I should reign in a bit, or do you think I should just go with it and stop being a worry-wart?

Not that I'd change that much about me, I'm pretty happy, but I wonder if this can affect things later on down the road.

- J

 

[AffectionateDan]

Is this something I should reign in a bit, or do you think I should just go with it and stop being a worry-wart?

I think you just answered your own question, J. 😀

And, if this is all pretty new to you, of course you're going to go a little bit nuts over it, until the novelty wears off. But tickling and sex are both intimate acts, that I'm sure everyone here can agree, compliment each other like steak and a baked potato. Sure, you can have one, or the other, but when you can have them both, it's just yummier, dontcha think? 🙄 I'm sure you're fine, just like (most of) the rest of us... 😛

 

[the_Baron]

i'm the same way, and have been for a long time. its screwed me up totally!😛

 

[Morning Angel]

Whatever floats your boat

Just do what makes you happy. I think a lot of us here would jump at the chance to incorporate tickling into every sexual experience we have.

 

[crydun]

I have a question for you experienced members here. Do you think it's ok if tickling is not only a part of your sexual make-up, but the "main ingredient", for lack of a better explanation?

For a while now, I've only really been interested in sex if there was some kind of bondage involved (usually with lil 'ol me on the receiving end, but I do switch occasionally), but lately it seems that I need to have tickling involved or it's just not the same. There's something about the feel of losing yourself in the sensations while you can't do anything about it that has become more important than I thought it would. Is this something I should reign in a bit, or do you think I should just go with it and stop being a worry-wart?

Not that I'd change that much about me, I'm pretty happy, but I wonder if this can affect things later on down the road.

- J

you are what I like to call the "insatiable" stage. It will wear off slightly but unfortunately or fortunately, depending on one's perspective, it's part of who we are. Do you get tickled often. That can help satiate things temporarily. Good luck!

 

[Tallon_Ord]

Hopefully, a newbie opinion can be of use. I think that people that become addicted to a substance or behavior will see things like work, school, relationships, or other day to day activities become seriously effected. A person with a sexual addiction could loose his family, job, and see the addiction jepordize many other important areas of his or her life.

That being said, if you can't see you're bondage/tickling desires intruding into other areas of your life, then I don't think you should worry about it. Many people that have a "fetish" of one sort or another function perfectly well in society. And don't see my usage of the term fetish as a bad thing either. It's simply something that you need in your sex life to make it what you want it to be.

 

[leafstk]

Re: Whatever floats your boat

Just do what makes you happy. I think a lot of us here would jump at the chance to incorporate tickling into every sexual experience we have.

I know I would! 😉

 

[chickles_:)]

Hey BikiniGirl!

I think everyone has pretty much covered anything i might want to say so i won't bore you with repetition. The most important thing in sex is to enjoy it and share the joy mutually with your partner. And i think i hear you saying that you have this.

I also get the sense that tickling isn't so huge that you have lost your life in it - except for those moments when you're in it of course. 😀 But you get what i mean.

The only thing i'd add, which comes from my own experience, is this. Much as i love the tickling in my relationship, i also try to be open to new experiences. Like, say i hear about something else or see something in cosmo or what have you, i'll normally give it a try. Or if he says he likes something or wants to try something different then i'll make a point of honestly trying it and enjoying it for itself without just doing it till i can get back to the tickling. Does that make sense? 🙂
I hope this helps. Either way, BikiniGirl, i'm sure you will have fun whatever the case. 🙂

Many blessings,
Chickles_🙂

 

[Deleted member 2452]

just to let you know, you're not alone

if it's too much, then i am happily in the same boat!
sex is tickling is life. might not be for all, but i'm happy with the way things are.

steve

 

[TickledToDeath]

The ONLY way liking tickling TOO MUCH would be negative would be if you never or hardly ever had anyone to tickle or be tickled by otherwise, you pretty much answered your own question.
Tickling is a part of you........relish in it. Accept it. Go with it and as often as possible.😉 😀


TTD

 

[Darkknight]

I like it too much. Ticklins rushes through my soul. But as TtD stated, it sucks so bad when you have no one to tickle.

As a tickler I can get just as lost from the ticklee going nuts with the tickling sensations. It's too hot. 🙂

DK

 

[mgctouch]

Speaking from personal experience, a nice long session of playful, erotic, reatrained tickling with some playful ticke torture mixed in maked for an incredible extended foreplay which definately enhances the moment. Tickling is definately a good compliment to making love.

 

[BigJim]

Personally I prize tickling more than sex. Sex is something that doesn't take a huge amount of effort to get. (Well, shallow and unromantic sex is anyway.) A really good tickling session on the other hand, isn't. I wouldn't pay an escort girl for sex, but I'd pay to let me tickle her.

Don't worry about your inclinations. they aren't harming anyone else and they're not affecting your life because they're not obsessive to the point of you not being able to concentrate on "normal" things. Just get as much of it as you can and enjoy it. 🙂

 

[kis123]

Speaking from personal experience, a nice long session of playful, erotic, reatrained tickling with some playful ticke torture mixed in maked for an incredible extended foreplay which definately enhances the moment. Tickling is definately a good compliment to making love.

In a word........WOW! Maybe you're new to the board, but definitely not new to the experience. You've certainly made my day!😛

 

[mgctouch]

Kes123 wrote:
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In a word........WOW! Maybe you're new to the board, but definitely not new to the experience. You've certainly made my day!

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Kes, you are correct on both counts. I am new to the board and I have had limited but excellent experiences. It is always harder for a guy to find a ticklish lady who enjoys tickling than it is for a ticklish lady to find a tickler. This is the reason that my experienced are "limited".

 

[chrisheaven]

I like it enough .but never too much

 

[Dave2112]

I think you've gotten to a point where your sexuality has started to refine itself. I wouldn't lose any sleep over what it is that knocks your socks off. If you're happy, stay happy.

You say you've already been into bondage to some level, so it sounds like you've merely built upon an already-established personality trait. There are perhaps other things you may still find out about yourself years from now, so don't sweat it. Your sex life should be about enjoyment and fulfillment...if tickling and bondage does that, then that's you. See? Simple. 😀