Chat Noir: Chatter

[morgandavis]

Chat Noir: Banned from Chat? (not noir movies)

It'd be nice to get a reason for why I was banned, since you wouldn't explain to anybody else, and in the words of him, you know who you are.

 

[Myriads]

Extended harrassment of other users. An issue that you have been spoken to about before. As those earlier warnings failed to make an impression, sadly we have had to move on to this step.

Access will be restored in one week.

You were also informed of the banning before it happend. I IMed you in the room you myself. After I sent the message, I waited two minutes, got no resonse and removed you.

I find it sad that on a site that caters to a fetish that most of the world sees as odd and weird, that our members think it's funny and good sport to insult the various different likes that others here might have. I thought we grew out of stuff like that in high school.

Myriads

 

[morgandavis]

For clarification I was not harassing Mitchell that was his little delusion and setup scheme and there are (better) witnesses ...!

 

[Myriads]

Indeed, the witnesses were very helpful. The screenshots of the chatroom that they took confirmed his side of the incident.

We are very pleased that we have thoughtful users that take thier time to provide proof to fall back on in such situations. Your efforts are appreciated people. It makes dealing with problems such as this one so much simpler. No he said he said. Just nice proof to look at.

Morgan, If you feel that people are setting out to 'entrap' you to get you removed from a fetish site, then it's time to step back and get some new perspective. Your current situation is a result of your actions and your actions alone.

Perhaps you did not mean to harrass. But as I have said in the past, people do not 'get' your sense of humor, and it often comes off as hurtful and offensive. Perhaps this was one such case. But regardless, it went too far this time.

Take the week off, relax and return. As long as you respect your fellow members problems will not happen.

Myriads

 

[morgandavis]

can i see these screenshots myself?

but i'll take a week off, allright.

death to smoochy

oh yeah, and seeing as how i already know mitchell was a witness, i can guess the two others

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Death to smoochy, and you know who the other two are...well, I don't know. Sounds like some smart lawyer out there would be able to construe that as terroristic threats. But, it can't be, because I know you're above that, right, Morgan?

 

[Mitchell]

I just want to post one thing here.
Delusions? No, you wish. First you enagage in behavior against forum rules, and then attempt to cover it up by saying Iam lying. I put you on ignore, so I myself didnt see what you were saying, FYI. It was reported by others because you were upsetting them. I have you on both my chat ignore and pm ignore list, as I choose not to involve myself in your type of chat.
A piece of advice.: TMF is a free place for anyone to talk about whatever they want. I do not judge and bother you, or tell you who to talk to, or what to talk about. If you dont like what I talk about, place me on ignore, as I do with you, and as is encouraged by users who dont get along. Whatever I talk about or ask others isnt your business, as long as I dont harass or talk about you, which I dont, because that isnt how I operate.
After you do come back, I plan to stay out of your way, and I hope you plan to do the same with me. We both have the right to be here, and since we apparently cant get along, it is just easiest for ourselves and the mods to place each other on ignore and chat with others. I think that would be the simplest solution.

Knox, thank you for defending me, my friend. It is appreciated. This whole thing is sad. I do hope that when he does come back we can just iggy each other, and this whole mess can be done with.

Mitch

 

[Knox The Hatter]

I guess you're 'Smoochy', huh? Where in Dick Cheney's name did they come up with that one?

 

[morgandavis]

Likewise I encourage you to practice what you preach if you don't like what I say, even though there are witnesses who know I did nothing until someone brought me into it

 

[Mitchell]

As for these "witnesses", I can only think of one. The other individual involved in this whole mess. From where I saw, most of the other people saw the incident for what it was.
I do have you on ignore, but FYI, if you are upsetting the whole room by saying things like "Mitch is nuts, or has a crazy fetish, dont talk to him", That is both mine, and everyone's business, because it is not true. Each individual, be they male or female, should be able to decide for themselves whether to talk to me or not, and not have to hear from someone who has it in for me, or has alterior motives. If someone came into the room, and talked to you, girl or guy, I wouldnt pc them and say "Morgan is crazy or a jerk, and dont talk to him, because I dont get along with him" That would be against forum rules, and wrong for you. Each person on here who you talk to needs to experience you for themselves, and make their own decisions.
I think that my suggestion works. We ignore each other, and move forward. The bantering is getting us nowhere. An unpleasant thing happened last night, and after next week, we should be able to be members of the same chat and forum, while respecting each others rights to talk to others, and not say bad things about one another, allowing all new people, and people not involved in this, to judge us individually for ourselves.

Mitch

 

[morgandavis]

This is going to just get this off my shoulders, because integrity has always been the first policy, and if you read Tkl-Duo's state of address she pointed out that we are frankly getting paranoid over the possible insincere environment with fake females et cetera

So here is the honesty

Yeah, I think you're nuts, and that's no secret that I do think that

But personally you are irrelevant to "My Internet"(tm) and I could not care less except how it resulted in this and I have better things to do than to wreck other peoples' "Internet"(tm) lives

So keep me out of whatever is between you and that Sole person because it's already caused me enough blasphemy as it stands

And also Myriads said there are two other people, however Biscuit is my primary witness

Detectives are on the case! but in the meantime Psycho, I see what you mean, I'm losing my tempo and temper over dubious nonsense

 

[Psycho]

Wow Morgan your making all the same mistakes I did. Take my expert advice, and stop losing your temper. I myself was banned from the chat room one year ago and can never go back because of my own actions, and now I wish I had been smarter and just got the chip off my shoulder and had fun. (wow, I just coined a phrase from 4paws, oh the irony)

LOL you know your getting older when you start giving "youngsters" the don't make my mistakes speach.🙄 lol

p.s.(ycho):no offense intended by the word younster. Hell for all I know you could be older then me.

Peace

Psycho

 

[Psycho]

"For clarification I was not harassing Mitchell that was his little delusion and setup scheme and there are (better) witnesses ...!"-Morgan

Wow he even sounds like me. lol

Psycho

 

[Mitchell]

I didnt bring you into this. You got yourself into the problem with your continued correcting of people's typos, and acting holier than now in the chat room. Life is imperfect, and so are you, Morgan, you are no one's judge, so stop acting like one.
I frankly dont care what you think of me. I think you are of less than stellar character also, but I care not. Whatever happened to you last night was not only because of this incident, but a buildup of many things over a period of time. You upset others, not only me, and thus this occured.
As for what happened with Sole, that is not of issue here, so I will not discuss such in this thread, only respond to your posts, which to me are errorenous.
I think you would do much better if you attempted to consider yourself a member of this community, and attempted to blend in, and accept yourself, and others, for what they are. We are all imperfect, including me. The difference between us is that I do not spend my time correcting others or attacking those who do not attack me directly. I respond when attacked. I know that if this situation had happened to me, my reaction would be: "gee, why was I banned for a week, and what did I do wrong to cause this, and how can I attempt to act differently when I do come back, so as to have others think more highly of me." It is not just: "Crazy Mitchell" who feels this way about you, Morgan, but many I have spoken to whose names I will not reveal.
It is the mark of humans to error, and I find that life can work out for the best if we reflect on these mistakes, learn from them, and move on. I know you probably wont listen to a word I'm saying, because you probably dont care, but for yourself,and for the good of this community, if something like this happens, were it me, I would step back and reevaluate. If you truly believe that you have the right to pull others down and correct them in the chat, and pass judgement on issues that are none of your business, and insult others to the point of a ban, then feel free to carry on as you wish, and I feel very sorry for you. Iam one who believes in behavior modification if Iam upsetting others, but if you feel as you do, then carry on as you wish, I will ignore you, and we will see how things play out in the end.

Mitch

 

[ticklkitten]

Hey kids! If you have an argument... pretend this is a bar and take it outside! I'm sure there is just a huge misunderstanding everywhere. Swallow your pride and don't let it affect the rest of us "pretty please"????

And psycho... I may be a youngster but I am WAY not afraid to make fun of your spelling. In fact, I love you offbeat personality. 🙂

 

[venray]

Well spoken Kitten....😉

 

[ticklkitten]

Thanks venray! you just made my day!

 

[venray]

and you beat me to the punch......😉

I was going to say that this bickering over something that happened in chat should be a private matter...

a question was asked and answered by Myriads and the subject should have been dropped at that point and not paraded around in public making all involved look like school kids calling each other out...

Ray

 

[AquaFeline]

incredibly off topic

I wandered in because I saw the word "noir" and was thinking about the old movies.... Oh well.

 

[morgandavis]

Yeah, I apologize for the publicity because normally it's not within me to bother being histrionic like this

But on the lighter(?) side of things, Chat Noir was of course a cute double reference I felt like using; if you know what it's a reference to, you win a moldy cookie

 

[ticklkitten]

no prob Morgandavis... chat noir is a black cat. (I'm a kitten, I should know) After years of french I know that but it doesn't explain this thread. IMO... just let it go. Nothing worth getting bitter over... if I have learned anything in this lifetime holding a grudge makes no sense. Jump back in when you can.... feel the love from the people who share something from you. I wish I could get into the chat room but computer retard me can't download java to her comp. Regardless.... let it go. Join your friends... HELL, you already have something in COMMON!!!! I love it!

 

[Knox The Hatter]

This is going to just get this off my shoulders, because integrity has always been the first policy, and if you read Tkl-Duo's state of address she pointed out that we are frankly getting paranoid over the possible insincere environment with fake females et cetera

So here is the honesty

Yeah, I think you're nuts, and that's no secret that I do think that

But personally you are irrelevant to "My Internet"(tm) and I could not care less except how it resulted in this and I have better things to do than to wreck other peoples' "Internet"(tm) lives

So keep me out of whatever is between you and that Sole person because it's already caused me enough blasphemy as it stands

And also Myriads said there are two other people, however Biscuit is my primary witness

Detectives are on the case! but in the meantime Psycho, I see what you mean, I'm losing my tempo and temper over dubious nonsense

This is, without a doubt, the funniest post I have ever seen on this site, in the twenty three months that I've been coming in here. I've saved it for posterity.

 

[morgandavis]

Thanks, Knox, coming from a political activist like yourself, that means a lot to me

 

[Psycho]

And psycho... I may be a youngster but I am WAY not afraid to make fun of your spelling. In fact, I love you offbeat personality. 🙂

lol Im only 23, and whats wrong with my speling? (yes I did it on purpose) Kitten you should have been here when I first graced this site with my presence. 🙄 My name used to be spelled wrong. Does anyone remember PsYcO.

Psycho

 

[ticklkitten]

And that my friend is one of the reasons I love you. That, and the fact that I have a hard time figuring out if you are yanking my chain or not... lol. 23?? Really?