coming out with your tickle fetish

[LoOmniverse1]

hey all im a 23 m tickler and have been embarrassed about it for years. So nobody in my life knows about it. I'm tired of hiding it and I just wanna accept it and have the people close to me accept it to.....does anyone whose public with there tickle fetish have any advice for me?

 

[chilled_bones]

hey all im a 23 m tickler and have been embarrassed about it for years. So nobody in my life knows about it. I'm tired of hiding it and I just wanna accept it and have the people close to me accept it to.....does anyone whose public with there tickle fetish have any advice for me?

Probably not the right way to look at things, no offense. What we're into is weird, trying to force people to accept your fetish will just make you look bad.

My advice: don't bother telling anyone who isn't a serious girlfriend, since they're really the only ones who need to know. Since they should value your feelings, they're also more likely to accept your fetish than anyone else.

 

[Soildertk]

Well said Bro Well said

 

[sweetpiggy221]

The two guys do have a point, but it just depends on how open minded your family and/or friends are to certain things. I told a few of my friends that I'm into tickling and bondage and they find it very cute plus wanted to try it themselves 😀 I never received a negative response when I came out and told people because its who I am and if they don't like then screw them.

 

[ress123]

unfortunately not everyone is open minded and this is one of those things that can screw up relationships with others. Like it was said before best to keep it secret unless its with someone your serious with.:sleep1:

 

[LoOmniverse1]

thx guys ill take this advice with great consideration

 

[chicag0]

I'm sort of open about it, sort of not. I don't feel the need to tell family and friends because it's pointless. I wouldn't want my family or friends giving me details like that about their life unless it was really bothering them and they wanted help understanding it or whatever.

I tell the people I date though. Usually within a couple weeks of seeing them if I think things might work out. That way, if their response isn't positive, I can just move on to the next one. I try to avoid the word 'fetish' if at all possible since vanilla people seem to associate 'fetish' with mental issues and I try to keep the conversation lighthearted. Haven't had any trouble yet. 🙂