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CyberSex: What's in it for Me?!

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Ok, here goes my first thread on the TMF.:cheer:

I'm very new to the forum, and although I really appreciate all the welcomes and private messages, it's all a bit overwhelming at times and can't seem to keep up with all the requests for pictures and the demands for something called CyberSex!

Now, I've never heard of this until now, but I can take a stab at it.
I'm supposed to tell you a fantasy or act out a scene with you, while you furiously beat your little buddy into submission like a rented mule (or worse), right?! :shock2::shock2:

It seems kinda creepy and I don't really want to be a part of that with a total freaking stranger.:xlime:

It also begs the question: "What's in it for me?":shrug:

With all these requests, I'm wondering to myself, "Is this what I'm supposed to be doing here? Is it what everyone does?"

Any intelligent responses are appreciated.

And guys...really....is this how you would treat a woman if you met her in person?!
 
beach bunny said:
And guys...really....is this how you would treat a woman if you met her in person?!
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You mean I'm not supposed to introduce myself with my pants down?

Anyway, presumably the idea is that you're enjoying it too, and beating whatever you want to beat in tandem with your e-lover. I analogize it to reading a tickling story, just in a "choose your own adventure" sense.

Thar be creepers for sure. If you don't like, just ignore! You won't alienate yourself, and nobody will blame you. Well, nobody of consequence.
 
No, those people are creepy and it's best to just ignore them.
 
Welcome to the forums, and congrats on starting your first thread!

The dread cyber sex. Well, the idea behind it is mutual masturbation. You both say sexy things that you will do (or "are doing", as it's often in present tense) to each other and stroke yourselves to orgasm. Obviously it can be bent to any particular kink. Some people (male and female) love it. Typically males, but there's females who dig it too. It's sorta like reading an erotic story, only it's being written live with interaction. I suppose people who get off to stories like it more than visual or audio types. So, what's in it for you, in theory anyway, is the same thing that's in it for the other party. Hot chat creating an interactive story that you can mutually masturbate to.

That's the theory.

If it's creepy, don't do it. Nothing wrong with saying no to something that feels skeevy to you. And no, it's not what everyone does. Some do, some don't. Some people live for it, some people just get a mood for it once in a while. Some people never go near it.

Of course not. Unless you don't mind being brutally shot down and/or slapped. But on the internet, there is this anonymity that emboldens both the initiator and the the person being approached. People will try things online they would never dream of trying in real life. At least not with the same social pattern of "Hey, you're hot, wanna have sex (cyber)?". But it can and does work online if you cast a line out often enough. Just like selling things door to door. Knock on enough doors, and eventually you'll sell something. Ask enough women (or men in some cases), and you're bound to find one who likes the idea eventually.

I dunno if that was intelligent enough, but it's the impression I get.

Enjoy your stay!

Christopher
 
beach bunny said:
And guys...really....is this how you would treat a woman if you met her in person?!
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What makes you think they'd ever have the courage to meet a woman in person?

Anyway, have some REAL cybersex!!!

CyberMaster: Hello, sub_lime. What do you look like?

sub_lime: I am wearing a red silk blouse, a miniskirt and high
heels. I work out every day, I'm toned and perfect. My measurements are
36-24-36. What do you look like?

CyberMaster: I'm 5' 3" and about 250 pounds. I wear glasses and I have
on a pair of blue sweat pants I just bought from Wal-mart. I'm also
wearing a T-shirt with a few spots of barbecue sauce on it from
dinner...it smells funny. Ohh and I have one of those stick things. A riding
crop, I think.

sub_lime: I'm feeling very submissive. I want you. Would you like to screw me?

CyberMaster: OK

sub_lime: We're in my bedroom. There's soft music playing on the
stereo and candles on my dresser and night table. I'm looking up
into your eyes, smiling. I get on my knees for you. My hand works its
way down to your crotch and begins to fondle your huge, swelling bulge.

CyberMaster: I'm gulping, I'm beginning to sweat. I dropped my stick er..crop.

sub_lime: I'm pulling up your shirt and kissing your chest.

CyberMaster: Now I'm unbuttoning your blouse. My hands are trembling.

sub_lime: I'm moaning softly.

CyberMaster: I'm taking hold of your blouse and sliding it off slowly.

sub_lime: I'm throwing my head back in pleasure. The cool silk
slides off my warm skin. I'm rubbing your bulge faster, pulling and
rubbing.

CyberMaster: My hand suddenly jerks spastically and accidentally rips a
hole in your blouse. I'm sorry. I'm looking for that stick thing.

sub_lime: That's OK, it wasn't really too expensive. And your "crop"
is right here.

CyberMaster: I'll pay for the blouse. I'm taking back my crop stick.

sub_lime: Don't worry about it. I'm wearing a lacy black bra. My
soft breasts are rising and falling, as I breathe harder and harder.

CyberMaster: I'm fumbling with the clasp on your bra. I think it's
stuck. Do you have any scissors?

sub_lime: I take your hand and kiss it softly. I'm reaching back,
undoing the clasp. The bra slides off my body. The air caresses my
breast. My nipples are erect for you.

CyberMaster: How do you unhook them so easily? I'm picking up the bra and inspecting the clasp. I dropped that thing again.

sub_lime: I'm arching my back. Oh baby. I just want to feel your
tongue all over me.

CyberMaster: I'm dropping the bra. Now I'm licking your, you know,
breasts. They're neat! I should have brought some handcuffs.

sub_lime: I'm running my fingers through your hair. Now I'm
nibbling your ear.

CyberMaster: I suddenly sneeze. Your breasts are covered with spit and
phlegm.

sub_lime: What?

CyberMaster: I'm so sorry; really I am.

sub_lime: I'm wiping your phlegm off my breasts with the remains of
my blouse.

CyberMaster: I'm taking the sopping wet blouse from you. I drop it on the floor with a plop. I look down. I found my crop!

sub_lime: OK. I'm pulling your sweat pants down and rubbing your
hard tool. Are you sure you are really a dom?

CyberMaster: Yeeee! I'm screaming like a woman. Your hands are cold!
I think so. Look at my nickname.

sub_lime: I'm pulling up my miniskirt. Take off my knickers.

CyberMaster: I'm pulling off your knickers. My tongue is going all over,
in and out nibbling on you...umm... wait a minute.

sub_lime: What's the matter?

CyberMaster: I've got a pubic hair caught in my throat. I'm choking.

sub_lime: Are you OK?

CyberMaster: I'm having a coughing fit. I'm turning all red. I lost my crop again.

sub_lime: Can I help?

CyberMaster: I'm running to the kitchen, choking wildly. I'm fumbling
through the cabinets, looking for a cup. Where do you keep your
cups?

sub_lime: In the cabinet to the right of the sink.

CyberMaster: I'm drinking a cup of water. There, that's better.

sub_lime: Come back to me, lover. I'm really feeling submissive.

CyberMaster: I'm washing the cup now.

sub_lime: I'm on the bed aching for you. And I found your crop and the handcuffs.

CyberMaster: I'm drying the cup. Now I'm putting it back in the cabinet. And now I'm walking back to the bedroom. Wait, it's dark, I'm lost. Where's the bedroom? What handcuffs?

sub_lime: Last door on the left at the end of the hall.

CyberMaster: I found it. What handcuffs?

sub_lime: I'm tugging off your trousers. I'm moaning. I want you so
badly. Those handcuffs you wished you had...I found them.

CyberMaster: Me too but I didn't bring handcuffs, only a stick.

sub_lime: Your Y-fronts are off. I kiss you passionately - our naked
bodies pressing against each other. Forget the damned handcuffs then.

CyberMaster: Your face is pushing my glasses into my nose. It hurts. I'm
hitting you with my crop to get you off me.

Sweetheart Why don't you take off your glasses? Oooh, I like that! Hit me
again and use the handcuffs.

CyberMaster: Well, OK, but I can't see very well without my specs. I place them
on the night table next to the handcuffs. Hey, so that's where they were!

sub_lime: I'm bending over the bed. Give it to me, baby! Let me feel that crop.

CyberMaster: Hang on, I have to pee. I'm fumbling my way blindly across the room
and toward the bathroom. I tripped over the crop and dropped the handcuffs.

sub_lime: Hurry back, lover.

CyberMaster: I find the bathroom and it's dark. I'm feeling around for
the toilet. I lift the lid.

sub_lime: I'm waiting eagerly for your return.

CyberMaster: I'm done going. I'm feeling around for the flush handle,
but I can't find it. Uh-oh!

sub_lime: What's the matter now?

CyberMaster: I've realized that I've peed into your laundry hamper.
Sorry again. I'm walking back to the bedroom now, blindly feeling my way.

sub_lime: Mmm, yes. Come on.

CyberMaster: Ouch!

sub_lime: Now what?

CyberMaster: I found the crop, but I think my toe is broken.

CyberMaster: OK, now I'm going to put my...you know ...thing...in
your...you know...woman's thing.

sub_lime: Yes! Do it, baby! Do it!

CyberMaster: I'm touching your smooth butt. It feels so nice. I kiss
your neck. Umm, I'm having a little trouble here.

sub_lime: I'm moving my ass back and forth, moaning. I can't stand
it another second! Slide in! Screw me now!

CyberMaster: I'm flaccid.

sub_lime: What?

CyberMaster: I'm limp. I can't sustain an erection.

sub_lime: I'm standing up and turning around; an incredulous look
on my face.

CyberMaster: I'm shrugging with a sad look on my face, my wiener's all
floppy. I'm going to get my glasses and see what's wrong.

sub_lime: No, never mind. I'm getting dressed. I'm putting on my
underwear. Now I'm putting on my wet nasty blouse.

CyberMaster: No wait! Now I'm squinting, trying to find the night table.
I'm feeling along the dresser, knocking over cans of hair spray,
picture frames and your candles.

sub_lime: I'm buttoning my blouse. Now I'm putting on my shoes.

CyberMaster: I've found my glasses. I'm putting them on. My God! One
of your candles fell on the curtain. The curtain is on fire! I'm
pointing at it, a shocked look on my face. I'm beating it with my crop.

sub_lime: Go to hell. I'm logging off, you loser! <logged off >

CyberMaster: Now the carpet is on fire! Oh noooo!
 
Hi beach bunny, :hello:

First, welcome to the forum. This is a great topic.

You are under no obligation to provide anyone with pictures of yourself no matter who requests them. When someone makes you feel uncomfortable, say so.

Eventually, you might find someone you click with and want to role play on line with. If that happens, go for it if the time is right. I have in the past once or twice.

Guys who are pushy and ask you to do things in a pm just because you are female are usually people to avoid. With that being said, there are some really great people here as well. 😀 😀
 
Libertine said:
sub_lime: I'm moving my ass back and forth, moaning. I can't stand
it another second! Slide in! Screw me now!

CyberMaster: I'm flaccid.

sub_lime: What?

CyberMaster: I'm limp. I can't sustain an erection.
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Damn you, you just made me LOL in real life. Now I look like a fool.:pieface:
 
welcome! I know how you feel! I got attacked with messages too, but you can choose to not show yourself, or do anything that anyone requests.

ahahaha libertine!
 
My advice to keep creepiness to a minimum: change your nick and your sig pic! 🙂 Both just scream "ALL CREEPS PM ME", seriously! 🙂
 
Cyber, like pretty much anything else, is all about personal tastes. Some like it, some don't. Personally, i find it can be a great medium for some rather enjoyable role plays, especially the type where effort is put into it. I've have some simply amazing experiences through messengers with some incredibly imaginative and skilled people over the years. It's all about what your looking for, really.
 
rhiannon said:
My advice to keep creepiness to a minimum: change your nick and your sig pic! 🙂 Both just scream "ALL CREEPS PM ME", seriously! 🙂
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Rhiannon is totally right - this place can be fun but there are a lot of yokels on here who will pm you with totally inappropriate messages, use filthy language and imagery, creep you out and perhaps even scare you off, all hiding behind some ridiculous name on this forum. The tickling fetish, be it a hobby or sexual, can be fun and interesting if you stick to intelligent people, but you can just ignore the idiots outside of that group, the ones who will email anyone female with their filthy ideas and desires.
 
I`m sorry you`re going through this, beach bunny. These sticky fingered guys most likely have never been with a woman....well unless you count inflatable ones.:ermm:
 
Hahahaha I haven't "cybered" or "role played" in a while. It's always better to do it for real rather than typing it out. Yes, stat away from the creepers and don't let anyone force you to do something you don't wanna do. Cybering can be a good way for practicing stuff I guess...or discussing what the other person likes and dislikes but thats about it.
 
I don't do cybersex. I do cyberler and I do it exactly like I do in real life. no nudity, no grossness, just me tickling a male lee. and it has actually helped me hone my ler skills over the years. I "think of it" in chat and "act it out" in real time to see if it will work.
 
Cybersex... preferred method of reproduction for virgins living in their mom's basement... oh wait... then why is there so many if they're not actually reproducing.... that is quite the conundrum.
 
beach bunny,

That's essentially it –- cyber sex is text-based simulation of sexual interaction using a chat room. If you find yourself asking the question "what's in it for me?", then you should probably just let solicitors know you're not interested. (People don't treat each other like that in person, but cyber sex <I>is</I> a typical use for an online chat room by both genders, and in that way its customs differ -- acceptably, I think -- from those of in-person encounters.)

There's nothing you're "supposed" to be doing except enjoying yourself. If you're looking for conversation, friendship, discussion, having questions answered, play, or anything in particular (or avoiding anything in particular), your greatest tool is verbal clarity. If that doesn't work, the chat rooms are equipped with a fully-functional "block" button.
 
I could never get into cybersex...or even cyber tickling. I always felt stupid when i tried it,lol.
 
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