Dating as a tickle lover

[ticklehound]

How I see it is that partners get turned on when the other person is turned on.

Exactly! That first set into my head when I saw "The Tickler's Wife" video from tickleabuse... those who might remember, she said in the beginning of the video that her husband gets turned on by tickling and that it turns her on that it turns him on!

If a woman ever said that about me, I'd wife that girl!

 

[ISUmark]

Exactly! That first set into my head when I saw "The Tickler's Wife" video from tickleabuse... those who might remember, she said in the beginning of the video that her husband gets turned on by tickling and that it turns her on that it turns him on!

If a woman ever said that about me, I'd wife that girl!

This happened to me. My ex wife wasnt into tickling at all, but after seeing how much I enjoyed tickling her and how much it turned me on, it started turning her on. It got to the point to where she would beg to be tickled during sex. Pretty amazing.

 

[shaolindog]

Tickling is the same thing as sex to me. My experience has always been girls who don't have a ticklish spot on there body or those that completely hate being tickled. I don't know how so many guys post on here about converting there girlfriends. But according to a poster in another thread I have bad karma. I must've really f'd up in another life.

 

[roninnawashi]

I have gone both ways. I am into more than tickling, but tickling is my primary fetish. What I have found is that I have to be careful who I date because if I end up dating someone who isn't ticklish, hates being tickled or just plain isn't open to anything I am into, I can tolerate it for a little while. After a few months of tolerating it I find that my mind starts to stray and since I am not the kind of guy that cheats, I ultimately end the relationship. There is a happy medium between "living the lifestyle" and being completely unfulfilled. I would prefer to stay in that happy medium.

 

[voided9]

I need tickling in order to be aroused. Whether I'm giving or receiving, I HAVE to have it in order to even be slightly aroused. So I have always dated guys who were either ticklish themselves, enjoyed tickling me, or both, minus one guy [which ended horribly anyways]. If you're going to be in a serious relationship, there needs to be sexual attraction - so obviously if someone hates tickling then he and I are not compatible. Luckily my husband is a switch like me, which works out perfectly!

 

[dashboard]

My ex-fiance is the only girl I've been with to know about my tickle fetish, and while she didn't share the fetish, she let me indulge in it because she knew it made me happy and that it turned me on.

These days I'm usually too shy and embarrassed to ask girls that I'm dating if they're ticklish or not and they tend to not stick around long enough for me to get up the guts to ask them. That said, a girl with non-ticklish feet would probably be a deal breaker for me. I don't care so much if she shares the same fetish that I do, but as long she's ticklish and let's me tickle her on a semi-regular basis, I think I could be a happy man.

 

[jc10113]

I wouldn't limit myself to women solely with a tickle fetish, but I do enjoy my partners be more on the kinky side. Lucky for me I currently date a pro dom and she loves to switch for me.

 

[fitzh2o]

Usually in my case a woman knows as soon as the topic of sex comes up, I usually talk about it in a keen and playful manner, and not like I'm dropping some big bomb on them. Every relationship I've had has been long term, and with vanilla people whom I've turned to the dark side so to speak. I think that's attributed to honesty. Really comes down to not giving a fuck and being comfortable enough with your fetish to talk about it as you would any other sexual topic. And really it's better for you to know right away whether or not that person is open to it.

 

[ticklishgal5]

Just outta curiosity, does anyone think that having a partner into tickling might eventually become boring? It's great that you find someone, but do you ever think that it might be too much sometimes? Once you have a fetish partner, and having tickling be so convenient, do you think it might get tiresome at times?

 

[ticklehound]

Just outta curiosity, does anyone think that having a partner into tickling might eventually become boring? It's great that you find someone, but do you ever think that it might be too much sometimes? Once you have a fetish partner, and having tickling be so convenient, do you think it might get tiresome at times?

... I honestly cannot imagine that it would ever get boring! THen again, this is from a guy who's never tied & tickled nor been on the receiving end. (although even non-bondage tickling is super hot to me! )

That said, I'm sure it can get a tad hackneyed... but, you could say that about most things... Hell, if sex didn't get boring, you wouldn't have the kinky-ness we have today, right??

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