decide when

[shastatickle]

When do you tell your partner about your tickling fetish? How can you tell if they're ready or if they'll be freaked out by it?

 

[batch1]

You just have to feel it out, if you even want to tell them. Sometimes fetishes are best kept in the fantasy world as they have a tendancy to take away from the psychological intimacy two people in love must feel for each other.

But, if you feel it is important for your partner to know, I'd say give it about a month. Feel out the relationship and the person as a whole. You'll know when to do it, if you decide to.

 

[gilmourwaters]

my partners knew b4 we officially became a "couple"

 

[Camel26]

I had been sleeping with my partner for about a month when I said to her, "If there's ever anything you want to do that REALLY turns you on...fetishes, positions, whatever...I'm open to almost anything as long as it makes you happy..." And she said that she didn't have any fetishes...but she'd tell me if she thought of something...and that she'd do the same for me...and then asked me what turned me on...and I couldn't say it...so she guessed...and she already had a feeling because of the fact that whenever we had been playful with one another, and a ticklefight broke out, we had really amazing sex afterward...she got the hint. Your partner might have an idea already...but really, ease into it...tell her when you're ready...and don't be afraid/ashamed. There is nothing wrong with what we like. Good luck babe! Keep us posted on how it goes!!! We'll be rooting for you!!! 😀

 

[TickledToDeath]

The sooner you reveal yourself and be open and honest, the better. Be who you wanna be. Be who you are and what you are. No reason to do or be otherwise. If you are asked to be something/someone you are not...........your answer should be rather obvious.

 

[nothin1]

Breaching that subject with my wife was tough as nails for me. My sitch was similar to Camel's, in that she was willing to try anything (and she'd also sort of gotten the hint from two years of tickle fights), but it was still a real hurdle to actually admit it outloud, because she's the first and only person I've ever told. My mouth was dry, my heart was cruisin' along at a cool 180 mph, and I'm pretty sure I stuttered through the whole thing, but I told her. And it was the smartest move I've made in our 3 year relationship, because she's totally willing (and off-the-charts ticklish.) Now we have an account with BushDVD.com and we rent tickling videos for me and spanking videos for her and everyone's happy. I suggest that you just go for it--sounds easier than it really is, I know. Good luck.