Decided to say hello for the first time, and ask for a bit of advice...

[JustAnotherGirl]

Hi everyone!

I've been a long time lurker here, for about a few years, so I figured it was about time I say hello!! I've gotta say, from what I've seen, everyone seems pretty nice and accepting. So I feel pretty comfortable posting here. 🙂 As for a bit about me: I'm a student at a university in Pennsylvania (still a little shy to have the guts to say exactly where haha). I'm kind of a geek, and I love art, procrastinating, my friends, baking, and my fiance.

And of course, I have a tickle fetish. But the only major problem with that piece of information about me (which is my deepest darkest secret that only my fiance knows) is that I'm not ticklish!!!! Not a bit, nowhere. It's quite sad actually, and half the reason I decided to finally create an account. I've read plenty of threads about people who love tickling encountering regular people who aren't ticklish, but none about people who have the fetish, but aren't ticklish. It's quite a predicament. So that's where you guys come in... I would love, more than anything in the whole WORLD, to be ticklish. My fiance tries, god bless him haha, but I have never once genuinely cracked a smile from it. Am I the only one out there who loves tickling, but just isn't ticklish??? And if not, does anyone have any advice on how to cope? Reading stories and watching videos only gets you so far... I just wish I knew what it felt like...

Much love,

JustAnotherGirl

 

[Captain Satan]

Ah, the tragedy of loving something that you just can't have. I'm sorry about your unfortunate position madam, but I assure you that you are not the only one! I've spoken to one other girl here who shares the same calamity as you 🙁

None the less, welcome to the TMF 😀 I'm sure someone here can help you out! You're in the right place! 😀

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, JustAnotherGirl, and congratulations on making your first post. 😀 This is a wonderful place, have fun here.

I'm sorry that I don't know a cure for non-ticklishness. 🙁

 

[JustAnotherGirl]

Maybe with how fast the scientific world is advancing, someone, someday, will come up with something to increase ticklishness 😛 although I kind of doubt that's high on the scientific community's to-do list! Anyway, thank you both for the warm welcome 🙂

JustAnotherGirl

 

[pfromptown]

First of all, welcome!

Second of all, what a bugger of a dilemma! All I could suggest is using something electric (A toothbrush is the classic device, but if you don't feel too weird about it "Bullet" dildos are even better), I have found those to produce ticklish sensations on people who previously thought themselves un-ticklish. If that doesn't work, I'm not really sure what you could do, save for trying to enjoy tickling him more. I originally thought myself strictly a 'Ler but have been surprised at how much I've enjoyed being an occasional 'Lee since I "came out" to my girlfriend. Hope this helps.

 

[TheTickleMonster]

Welcome to the forum..

One of the most annoying things is to encounter a female that isn't ticklish. Probably more annoying is to find a girl that isn't ticklish but really wants to be, because that just makes me want to tickle her more and help her.

I'm sorry you have to deal with not being ticklish. There are people on this site who have a tickle fetish but aren't ticklish. However, most of them are, like me, lers and don't really care that they aren't ticklish but there are some that wish they were ticklish.

 

[paracarl44]

HELLO PENNSYLVANIA GIRL.

There are people on this forum who are not ticklish. If you have visited the various sections of this forum, you may gain some knowledge of a ticklish spot on your body that you weren't aware of. Keep visiting here, and I hope to hear from you again.

 

[mabus]

Many say wearing pantyhose makes you more ticklish.

I have seen this effect in real life, and DAMN did it make a difference! (They were sheer toe, very thin, soft, so the full effect was felt - I've seen thicker stockings have LESS of a tickling effect.)

But if you're not ticklish at all, it may not work. At least they'll look great!

There is another guy on here who is not ticklish, and I'm sure others. Damn, that is a problem. (In my case...Im never tickled, so it's a non-issue, so at least you have someone who DOES accept you and want to tickle you!) Then there are some who HATE being tickled.....so it sucks you aren't ticklish, but it's great that you have a wonderful fiancee!

There are many more stories of people with unaccepting spouses and boyfriend/girlfriends, and those make you appreciate having someone who DOES accept you.

 

[ticklehound]

Welcome.

I'm not being glib, but I'm a little confused. I never thought about not being ticklish & loving to be tickled. I guess, for me, I was 100% tickler, so I never thought about being ticklish myself. Now, after finding out I was more ticklish that I thought, I'm about 50/50%. If I wasn't ticklish, I'd imagine I'd continue on as an avid tickler & never be the wiser. I guess I always thought that the love of being tickled & ticklishness went hand-in-hand.

Let me ask you, do you like TO tickle?? Have you tickled your man? If so, how did you feel about it? If not, why not?

As for your orig post, what tickle tools have you tried? Have you used lotion or oil?

All the best.

 

[nice.1]

Welcome!

I know exactly how it feels, well more or less. I'm like you sadly not ticklish at all but the only difference may be is that I'm predominately a tickler but have always wanted to be ticklish so my victims can get revenge. I've always wanted to be tickle tortured by the hands of a beautiful women, I think it would be such a turn on for someone who I previously tickle tortured and who is weaker the me to get. revenge and dominate me. I also think it would be easier to bring the subject up of tickling if I was ticklish as I could tickle her and she r could tickle me back but if I constantly tickled the girl I liked and she never could get revenge it is more un fair and if I was ticklish we could have tickle fights and I could turn her into a ler but with me not being ticklish that could never happen. It is terrible and the only thing u can really do is focus on being a ler and hope Yoruba fiancé allows u to tickle them as much as you want.

Hope this helps!

 

[powerslideX]

Hi JustAnotherGirl!! I am a fellow Pennsylvanian!!!!!! I am also not in the least bit ticklish. It really doesnt bother me because my fetish is from the perspective of a ler, but at the same time I understand how this could suck. I have a situation that could be kind of similar. I've always wanted to pin-stripe hot rods for a living but I have a condition called Essential Tremor, which makes my hands shake. It isn't like an erratic shake, but a fast frequency small shake that I have 24-7. Over the years though, i have found some ways around it though... 2 beers makes most of the shakes go away! I understand it isn't the same thing, and im not telling you to get drunk 😛, what im getting at is try things... Keep trying.... Get your fiance to try different things with you. Different techniques/objects used/body parts... You'll probably not end up howling in laughter, but you might get some of that sensation you so desire. At worst, it doesn't work but you get to share some private moments with your fiance... Be honest with him and tell him what you are trying to do.. If you still don't get any results, try hypnosis. There are testimonies on here of it working... Or, try tickling!!! you may not be the one getting tickled, but being involved in the act may bring you some satisfaction. Hope that gives you a few ideas... As for me....?? Maybe ill start a new trend of jagged line pin striping!!!!??? Ya think?? lol Anyway, best of luck to ya! Your friendship is always welcome =)