did tickling ruin anyone else's life?

[NonConTickler]

Yikes, man I wish you the best in your endeavors. I have no idea whether your serious the whole way through or kidding in parts. Either way I wish you the best.

Thanks,
K

Well as anyone on here who is the least bit familiar with me will tell you, yes I am completely serious. And thank you.

 

[Radiohead 7140]

I don't think I have any good advice to offer, but some words of encouragement. You say you're "pushing 25" as though you are now an old, fully sexually evolved person. You're not. Man I would love to be 25 again (and I'm only 28). I can tell you this; my infatuation with tickling is much less intense than it was 10 years ago, and slightly less intense than it was 3 years ago. That's not to say I find it any less arousing, just that it no longer dominates my toughts as it relates to having sex (during the times in my life when there is a fairly regular sex life - currently single). While the inclusion of tickling is definitely preferred, I can still enjoy a nice trip to pound-town without any. Although, I think I probably do start thinking about it during sex when I am "close", so..

All this being said, I do feel it's ruined my porn life. I have never really watched traditional porn, probably never will, and feel like I have missed out on a major rite of passage and part of a person's life. I'm half kiddnig here, which does however imply that I'm half serious.

 

[scorpionldr]

Yeah pretty much this. There are times where its difficult to compromise or have a positive sexual experience when tickling (and in my case also a foot fetish) limits what can be done to excite both parties. But i believe in fate and finding 'the one' and thats what keeps me going 🙂

I think a girl would probably rather being tackled and having a raspberry blown on her feet rather than just the whole "GET IT IN!! GET IT IN!!!" routine. I mean........its a dick thats going to end up in a vag, lets face it, on its own, its just not that exciting.

 

[FFT32]

Guys Seriously,

You don't "treat" or "counsel" a fetish away. Especially one as deeply rooted as the OP has expressed. You get treatment and counseling to learn how to live with it and make it a part of your life and sex life that works for you. He has expressed help from our community and I believe for the most part, there have been some awesome responses here.

OP, with some good advice and solid determination, you can fit your love of tickling into your everyday life. Some days you may get by with just having thoughts about tickling. Some days you may take up a tickling mag or video clip or spend time here in the Forum. Other days you may have a date and that's when you recall what you have read here and find a game plan that works for you and your specific partner buddy.

Trial and error kid. You love tickling, period. Just keep your resolve, stay in control, be patient and observant and you will see. It will work out for you.

Peace

 

[ArchNemesis]

As a guy with very strong foot and tickling fetishes, I'm very much into 2 activities that the average woman walking down the street derives little or no pleasure from. In and of themselves anyway. I think most "vanilla" women could learn to appreciate them as foreplay, as long as it led to something else. That's not me. So my sexual interests involve activities where there's a 95% chance I'd be the only one getting any real enjoyment out of them. And I gotta tell you...I'm pretty okay with that LOL

I'm a stinker, what can I say? 🙂