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Difficulties with first tickle session

sw633

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Hey all, im having problems with committing to an actual tickle session. I've done a number of posts to try and meet some people, and fairs fair i've met some awsome people online, but for some reason when we finally get around to arranging an actual session i always chicken out 🙁 . Personally i dont know why they seem decent people, is it because im scared of meeting them in real life? Or fear of the unknown? If anyone can help me finally go through with a tcikle session it would be a great help 🙂
 
If u would be able to bring a person along but that would get weird lol
 
My first session was tough. nervous as hell. just gotta suck it up and go for it. it gets easier after you pop your cherry.
 
Everybody's first session is kinda scary. My first bondage session was with someone I was already friends with, and I was still super nervous. I wouldn't have been able to do it with someone I didn't know extremely well. Maybe get to know some people without the intention of having a session right away. Then if and when you decide to, it might be easier to know you're getting ready to play with a friend, not just someone who happens to have the same kink as you.

Good luck!
 
Nobody is born experts. Don't be afraid 🙂 Use the time to explore how things "work". Communication and fun! Thats two words I think you should focus on 🙂

Good luck!
 
Nobody is born experts. Don't be afraid 🙂 Use the time to explore how things "work". Communication and fun! Thats two words I think you should focus on 🙂

Good luck!

Cavum hit the nail on the head.

Good luck in the future bud.
 
Nervousness is natural whether you're the ler or the lee. Eventually, you're love for tickling will trump that nervousness, but in order to help speed up the process, maybe you should meet with the other individual participating just to meet in person and build a report (not sure if this is the correct spelling but eff it), with them in person. It tends to be easier to take the plunge when you at least feel comfortable with the other individual involved in person. My first official lee, was someone I had known for about 6 years and had become good friends with over the years. I felt nervous, somewhat creepy as this was the first time I'd attempted to tie anyone up, but at the same time filled with excitement. First time is always the toughest I think with everything, but to echo others who've already posted, it definitely gets easier and less nerve racking after the first 1 or 2 under your belt.
 
Meet in a public place...a bar/pub is fine and then just hang there and chat for a bit, not necessarily about tickling. just anything, weather, sports, the amazing sandals they are wearing..
You will loosen up but you must make the first step and meet.
The best thing is, no matter what happens you will have gained experience which will allow you to build from that...
Hope does not launch rockets but lots of tests do!
 
What are you concerned about in general? Is it a safety/trust issue? Not being sure it'll be all that fun or maybe even feel strange? Being afraid of being 'outted' somehow?
 
What are you concerned about in general? Is it a safety/trust issue? Not being sure it'll be all that fun or maybe even feel strange? Being afraid of being 'outted' somehow?

I think its the strange environment but mainly meeting someone new i guess.
 
Don't do anything with anybody you don't really know that well.

Communicate, meet in public, get to know them, have fun. It's a lot easier than people would make you think.
 
I'd have my SS# tattooed on my spleen, just in case!

Warning:Craigslist is "next of kin" spelled backwards!! Meet the people/person for a meet and greet meal first. Meet without any pressure to do any tickling, just to start to get to know them. You do not have to have "tickle knowledge" of someone within minutes of a first physical meeting. If there are munches/gatherings in your area try those to meet people in a group setting. You may also want to meet people online with similar interests other than tickling and then slowly move into tickling. Good luck to you!
 
I agree with GT. Meeting for drinks or a meal really takes the pressure off.

Of course, I am always nervous. And I know there are several others who have that "roller coaster" feeling in their tummies when they are meeting people for the first time.

Bite the bullet.... BUT only when you are ready. 🙂
 
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