disapointments.

[wishfoot88]

have you ever had a negative tickling experience?
like someone tickled you but they did it wrong and it didn't tickle. or if you held someone down, began to tickle them and you got no response?

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Oh yeah! More often than I like to recall. So many people out there think that the only way to tickle is to dig in hard. For me, that just hurts. So, unless I am tickled with the lightest of touches, it doesn't tickle at all and flat out sucks! lol

 

[milagros317]

On one unpleasant occasion, I had my ribs bruised by a novice Dominatrix at the Hidden Chamber (where Mistress Zara used to work) who joined our session. 🙁 It took a week for the deep bruises to heal.

 

[wishfoot88]

Oh yeah! More often than I like to recall. So many people out there think that the only way to tickle is to dig in hard. For me, that just hurts. So, unless I am tickled with the lightest of touches, it doesn't tickle at all and flat out sucks! lol

On one unpleasant occasion, I had my ribs bruised by a novice Dominatrix at the Hidden Chamber (where Mistress Zara used to work) who joined our session. 🙁 It took a week for the deep bruises to heal.

i know what you mean. my mates think that i have ticklish sides, so they always dig in. when i jump they think it is because i am ticklish. truth is, it really fucking hurts!!
they don't believe me! so they keep doing it!

 

[-Hari-]

Yeah, my first few sessions, due to my nervousness went very badly, lost nearly all my sensitivity and felt very uncomfortable. I was glad when they ended. Not fun at all.

Hari

 

[tklee88]

I have to agree with Ann. The hard tickling just hurts, it's not tickly. I have had a few ler's who were like that, and it sucks!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I have to agree with Ann. The hard tickling just hurts, it's not tickly. I have had a few ler's who were like that, and it sucks!

I'm totally the opposite from Ann and Katie. Light tickles itch me and drive me crazy in a bad way. I like the rougher tougher tickles

 

[Elphaba]

Gotta admit, one of the biggest disappointments for me is when you get yourself all nervous and excited for a great session, you know the one who spend ages planning and discussing so you both have that anticipation feeling... BUT then at the last minute something goes wrong and it doesn't happen and you end up spending the night on the sofa both upset and thinking about what your missing.
As to the tickling technique, light tickling is brilliant to start me off and I immediately is in hysterics... But the hard tickling makes me scream and is true torture - so its never a disappointment for me that way. guess I'm just lucky that way ()=)

 

[PlayfulCarbonara]

Oh yea, definitely had quite a few. Its one of the joys of tickling people often- you're gonna get an equal if not greater number of negative responses than positive. One girl left herself perfectly open- laying there on her back, hands way over her head, shirt lifting up just a bit... I had to go in for the kill... and got nothing. She just looked at me, said "sorry, not ticklish". "Not... not at all?" "nope." "anywhere? 0_o -tries under arms-" "nada."

However, tickling someone and having them be not ticklish can sometimes be MUCH better than tickling someone who turns out to be hyper ticklish. Hyper ticklish is a tickler's worst nightmare. Tickled a girl one time who literally hit the ground trying to get away. In fact, I only started tickling her; her reaction was so severe my hands got caught in the fray while I tried to remove them (almost instantaneously) which only tickled her more. She ended up injuring herself and me in the process, and was royally PISSED. That didn't go well. lol.

There's a nice in between ticklishness that I love. Super ticklish to the point that they laugh loud enough to wake up neighbors, but not so ticklish that they cant stand even having you scratch their back without squirming away. 😛

 

[baldadonis]

Yeah, I've had a few bad sessions that were bad either because (1) I wasn't yet comfortable enough with that person or (2) they dug in too hard, which is not necessary on me to get a reaction.