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Do Family Members Know?

Tickler Bart

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This question has been swimming around in my little noggin for a while now & I thought I would bring it up here . . .
Some of my family members know about my foot & tickle fetish, but it is NEVER discussed or mentioned in front of the OTHER members that do NOT know. We sometimes talk about someone that my brother may have seen with great feet or something like that, but we never actually sat down & discussed the nature of the beast.
Does anyone in YOUR families know?
 
🙂
yes. my entire family (and even extended family) know about my fetish, and the websites and video clips. so i suppose i have it easy as far as not having to stay in the closet. but i fully understand why some people have to stay in the closet.
 
Not Mine!

No family member knows of my tickling fetish, or any of my other "kinks." However, I discuss little of my personal life with my family. I do have a couple of friends who know.

tbbw
 
Some of my family members, and some of my friends know...enough.

🙂

By "enough," I mean that my closest friends know that I'm into tickling; closest family members know that I have an "alternative" lifestyle that doesn't involve pain. 😀

BTW, there's not a thing wrong with alternative lifestyles that DO involve pain; that's just not my thing, nor will it ever be so. We each have to do what works for us, yes? 😉
 
All of my friends know, from my own willing admittance to my fetishes. I never had any intention of telling my family (when I was making arrangements to attend the first Super Bowl Gathering in NY, they did not yet know, and my Mother thought I was going to some big sex party/orgy). However, my Dad somehow found the TMF, and found me here. So they confronted me about it. I am very fortunate in the sense that my parents are EXTREMELY open minded, and I can very easily and openly discuss matters of a sexual nature with them (especially my Mother). However, I was uncomfortable with them knowing about my tickling fetish. They were, as expected, very cool about it, and said I should not be ashamed at all. That tickling is a completely natural and normal fetish, and it's a hell of a lot better than some of the other fetishes out there I 'could' be into.

I'm still not comfortable discussing my tickling fetish with them. They asked a bit about the SBG gathering when I got home, and when I explained a bit about what goes on (the bondage and tickling) my Dad said "That sounds like TORTURE to me!" My reply? "Well, YEAH, Dad, that's kind of the whole point!"

We live in a duplex, and Lazarus and I rent the upstairs apartment, my parents rent the downstairs apartment. So when Lazarus and I have one of our frequent sessions, my Mother can hear my hystercial laughing in the living room downstairs (our bedroom is right above their living room). Sometimes when it happens, she'll give me a knowing look and comment on how she heard us "horsing around". Or, on other occassions (like earlier this afternoon after we were playing) she'll call up here and ask "Are you two done tickling now?"

Part of me still wishes they did not know. But the bigger part of me is grateful for the fact I don't have to explain myself, or explain all those weird noises they hear up here. 😉

Mimi
 
NO ONE knows! Not family or friends. I'm too scared to come out😕 🙁 :wow:
 
Me either, NO ONE KNOWS! NO ONE....except my boyfriend (forgot about him, lol) But no one knows...this has been my big 13-year secret!

~clair
 
Mimi...that sounds like my dad. I told him a few years ago that we needed to talk, that I had a couple of sexual fetishes I wanted to ask his opinion on. He seemed quite upset when hanging up the phone (which worried me); but when we met and I told him my fetishes were tickling and women with beautiful feet, dad was soooooooh relieved...

He was like..."thank goodness son....when you said fetishes, I was thinking it was something really weird" 😀 😀 😀 😀
 
i am sitting in the tickle closet. i wonder if i'll come out. most of the family knows i like bondage - but have no idea that i'd tickle the tied up lady.

my life is a sham.

a huckster

a charletain.
 
I have never told anyone, the only two people I have ever met face to face who knew only knew because I met them in this chatroom....In my opinion, no one else needs to know. Personally, I don't want to know about my friends'or family's little "kinks" , and they don't need to know about mine. 🙂
The closest anyone has come to finding out was my my best female friend was over helping me move furniture around, and she saw some "ties" I had forgotten to take off the headboard. She just looked at me and said "Jen, you are one kinky bitch." And we just left it at that 😀
I told one of my boyfriends once that I " didn't mind" being tickled, that it could be fun. Thats as far as I ever discussed the subject with anyone.
 
My mom and my two best friends know I have a tickle fetish and come to TMF. The only reason I told my mom is because of an incident which I'm sure the mods remember in the old old room before this new room. (At least Myriads probably does) One time in the old old room, in Sept 2002 when I first joined and there were trolls, I started talking to this girl, and forgot to ask age. Before I knew what happened, a "Cop" came on and said I had violated sex laws of talking to a minor, and claimed the girl was under 18, and I was in trouble for violating sexual predator laws of minors. I freaked and told my mom about TMF and what had happened. When I came back to room, Myraids told me that the "cop" was actually a troll and that others had been victimized. Since then, my mom knows I come here, but I really dont discuss it. All I say is Iam going to the "chatroom" and she apparently knows what I mean. Her reaction was cool about my being into TMF, because Iam 34 and she respects my rights, but I never would have told her had the troll thing not happened. Oh, well, it doesnt really matter, Iam an adult and a free person and she doesnt try to tell me what to do.

Mitch
 
Re: Not Mine!

Same here!

ticklishbbw said:
No family member knows of my tickling fetish, or any of my other "kinks." However, I discuss little of my personal life with my family. I do have a couple of friends who know.

tbbw
 
My Dad found out when I printed off a story about tickling. He didn't piece it together to fast because he thought it was about sex. Oh-well. He eventually saw a large amount of pics and clips on the computer and that's how he knows. He thinks somethings wrong with me.

Really the first person I ever told was my best friend. Well he's not much of a friend. You see he's really sexually imature. I think he's sexest too. Everytime a woman has some kind of emotion he laughs. Pisses me off. Anyways when I told him about my fetish, he bugged the hell out of me. "How's your tickling?" He would ask. Finally I told him off one day.

I told my Mom, and she doesn't think anythings wrong with it. I don't know if she totaly supports it, but she understands.

My brother knows, he has a "breast" fetish himself. So he doesn't care, I think he might have a small tickling fetish, but he wouldn't admit to it. He respects my privacy and I respect his so I won't bug him about it.

Sometimes me and my brother talk about my fetish. But not to the extreme.
 
My wife and that is IT!!!! I don't plan on discussing it with anybody else. I really don't want anybody else to know about TMF. This is something my wife and I share exclusively. I'm an adult and I don't have to tell anybody about anything if I don't want to.
 
So far none of my family or friends know and I'd like to keep it that way. If worse comes to worse and I'm discovered I can always impiiment emergency plan S.E.P.P.U.K.U.
 
gekoman said:
My Dad found out when I printed off a story about tickling. He didn't piece it together to fast because he thought it was about sex. Oh-well. He eventually saw a large amount of pics and clips on the computer and that's how he knows. He thinks somethings wrong with me.

LOL....that's the advantage of me being a weather and storm nut. I once chased a major hurricane (Frederic in 1979) and got my car trashed in the process; I've chased tornadoes in Mississippi and Georgia (and sometimes they chased me 😀 ; and my ultimate fantasy in life is fly onboard the NOAA Hurricane Hunter reconnisance aircraft someday through the eye of a monster hurricane....so my dad knew I was totally warped a long ago 😀 😀 😀

Telling dad I want to tie up and tickle my girlfriend's feet is nothing compared to telling him I just spent $600 dollars on a new wireless home weather station (when my $190 cabled wx station is operating fine), or drove all the way to Mobile Bay just to experience the eyewall of a 130 mph hurricane 😀 😀
 
Flatfoot, vis-a-vis your wife: "Houston, we have a problem". If she's doing that, then there's gonna be some major problems down the line, if they aren't there already.

I know, my wife knows. Besides all of you, no one else does. Especially my parents. My father, who used to take eighteen year old college girls to the storage room of his office for a bracing afternoon blowjob, has had what to say of deviant behavior that disgusts him. My mother? I haven't had a good intimate conversation with her in eighteen years. I don't want them to know. It's my business, not theirs. My best friend doesn't know...but then, what's funny is that we never needed to discuss sex in any way anyhow. We never needed to "male bond" on that level anyway.

My best friend's got something going on, what I don't know, but he has this fixation on foot fetishists, a real intolerance. Now, I KNOW a foot guy when I see one, and he's not it. I think, though, he might have something else going on. He doth protesteth too much. If I did find out, though, he might feel genuinely violated. I'm hoping that it stays a secret. I'm not that interested in knowing, anyway.

Koochee Koo, you sound like a very interesting, engaging guy. We need more people like you here...
 
I agree w/Knox--hey since you mentioned it, I guess it's not off topic--Perry, how realistic was "Twister"? I know we loved watching it but here in Cali, all you have to fear natural diaster-wise is earthquakes...
XOXO


XOXO
KoocheeKoo said:
Thanks Knox! 🙂
 
steph said:
I agree w/Knox--hey since you mentioned it, I guess it's not off topic--Perry, how realistic was "Twister"? I know we loved watching it but here in Cali, all you have to fear natural diaster-wise is earthquakes...
XOXO


Twister was a very entertaining movie with awesome special effects, totally thrilling; and I've always been a fan of both Bill Paxton and Helen Hunt......but honestly, the movie was a joke (as pertaining to reality, especially storm chasing). Tornadoes don't normally move that slowly (in the movie it seemed the tornado took 10 minutes to pass). I was in a tornado in 1974 that badly damaged our home here in Georgia....it hit and was over in less than 40 seconds. It only took a few seconds to destroy what it later took weeks to rebuild. The average severe tornado in the southeast U.S. moves at a forward speed of 50 mph or more....why they are so very dangerous, especially at night. If the tornadoes in "Twister" had behaved as in nature, a lot of those folks at that obliterated drive in movie would have perished 🙁

Also, no storm chaser in his or her right mind would ever take chances like "Jo" and "Bill" did.....not unless they had a death wish (I try to stay at least two miles from the tornado, and to the south or southeast of the tornado -- or wall cloud, what the tornado drops from --at a right angle of the direction the twister is moving, which is usually toward the northeast in Georgia and Alabama).

I do see a striking similarity between myself and Helen Hunt's character (Jo) in that movie. When you are in a tornado and survive, either one of two things happens afterwords:

1) you become totally terrorized of thunderstorms and tornadoes, to the point it paralyzes you with fear. I've seen Becky cry during tornado watches.....stepsis Maria leaves home and goes to a relatives home when severe storms approach...somehow she feels safer around others. My mom was the same way. One reason Becky enjoys living in the Pacific Northwest -- she doesn't have to deal with tornadoes and the fear they cause her...as she did here, or when she lived in Mississippi.

2) OR it makes you defiant....you want to learn everything you can about the spinning monster, know what it is, why it occurs; and how to survive and help others survive.....that's what I did. That tornado when I was 12 is why I'm a Skywarn spotter today; why I've chased tornadoes, and why every time a tornado watch is issued for this area, I feel an adrenalin rush similar to a skydiver. It's another opportunity for me to challenge the monster....look it in the eye and let it know I'm not afraid, and it's never going to frighten me again. 🙂
 
i would not tell no one in case people think there something wrong with me but my mun and brother may no cos i let them use my pc and the tfm is on my favs list
 
Great topic!

A few of my female (non-gf) friends know and all of my ex-girlfriends know.

My 24 year old niece knows. "Nuff said about that last comment! 🙂


Max :firedevil
 
Family? No way. Well...maybe my younger cousin knows indirectly but she's one of us anyway (I tickled her alot when I was younger for years).

Ex-girlfriends but they never asked me anything about it, they just let me tickle them with no questions.

Friends? Only one over 12 years ago, cuz he saw me buy my first tickle magazine. It was the first concrete tickling item I ever saw in my life. I didn't care and bought it in from of him!

When I find Batgirl or Supergal, they will know before I ever get serious with them.

DK
 
Flatfoot, my ex-husband did something really close to what your wife did. he told my sister. I was floored, flabbergasted, dumbfounded and in a complete panic. the cool thing is, my sister thought he was a total jerk for betraying my trust like that and never brought it up again.

oh, and to answer the original question, the only family members who know are my ex-husband and my sister. 🙂 I don't really see any reason for anyone who doesn't need to know... to know.
 
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