Babbles,
Seriously. The "victims" in the stocks are probably not traumatized by their "tickling experience". You have seen the clips. Have you seen a clip where the woman is screaming bloody murder to be realeased, or is the woman going along with the fun?
You are assuming the worse when you see these clips. My goodness, as predicted, you saw the worse in my OWN personal scenario. You replied to me saying that unless I know she likes tickling, what I did IS sexual harrassment. According to who? My co-worker/FRIEND (key word) were having our normal playful conversation back and forth. I tickled her foot. I tickled her foot without telling her or knowing if she likes to be tickled or not. You know why I did it without any fear? BECAUSE SHE IS MY FRIEND and we have known each other for well over a decade. I was not concerned she would scream sexual harrassment.
It was a playful interaction between us and guess what? You may want to sit down for this. SHE DIDN'T MIND. She didn't blurt out to me "tickle me please! I love it when it happens!!!". No, she laughed and playfully smacked my hand away. Then..........wait for it................. we actually continued our conversation without any animosity, or someone feeling violated. When we were finished, she hugged me and said she will talk to me later. In other words, she considered my tickling attempt a playful gesture between FRIENDS. I didn't ask for permission. Hell, I didn't even know if she was ticklish. These things happen.
Babbles, you and another certain poster, continue to berate anyone who even remotely does something "non-consensual". You assume the worse about it. It is a whole different story if someone said "I attacked a random stranger, tied her up, stripped her naked, had my tickling way with her, then I'm selling the clips", then YES, I can understand the outrage. But the topic is about do the women know they will be tickled by being placed in the stocks.
I really hate to break this to you, but do you realize "vanilla" people can actually view tickling as a playful interaction, and NOT a sexual interaction. I have tickled my niece, and guess what, it wasn't a sexual interaction. Did I ask my niece if I could tickle her? NOPE. I just pounced on her and tickled her. Was she traumatized and told my sister that "evil uncle" tickled her without her consent? NO. She still loves her uncle and continues to interact with me in a very positive manner. To her, it was "what uncles do".
Learn how to distinguish between what is an "evil non-consensual" interaction vs a "normal non-consensual" interaction. Maybe you and another particular poster won't get so bent out of shape so often when the term "non-consensual" pops up.
Seriously. The "victims" in the stocks are probably not traumatized by their "tickling experience". You have seen the clips. Have you seen a clip where the woman is screaming bloody murder to be realeased, or is the woman going along with the fun?
You are assuming the worse when you see these clips. My goodness, as predicted, you saw the worse in my OWN personal scenario. You replied to me saying that unless I know she likes tickling, what I did IS sexual harrassment. According to who? My co-worker/FRIEND (key word) were having our normal playful conversation back and forth. I tickled her foot. I tickled her foot without telling her or knowing if she likes to be tickled or not. You know why I did it without any fear? BECAUSE SHE IS MY FRIEND and we have known each other for well over a decade. I was not concerned she would scream sexual harrassment.
It was a playful interaction between us and guess what? You may want to sit down for this. SHE DIDN'T MIND. She didn't blurt out to me "tickle me please! I love it when it happens!!!". No, she laughed and playfully smacked my hand away. Then..........wait for it................. we actually continued our conversation without any animosity, or someone feeling violated. When we were finished, she hugged me and said she will talk to me later. In other words, she considered my tickling attempt a playful gesture between FRIENDS. I didn't ask for permission. Hell, I didn't even know if she was ticklish. These things happen.
Babbles, you and another certain poster, continue to berate anyone who even remotely does something "non-consensual". You assume the worse about it. It is a whole different story if someone said "I attacked a random stranger, tied her up, stripped her naked, had my tickling way with her, then I'm selling the clips", then YES, I can understand the outrage. But the topic is about do the women know they will be tickled by being placed in the stocks.
I really hate to break this to you, but do you realize "vanilla" people can actually view tickling as a playful interaction, and NOT a sexual interaction. I have tickled my niece, and guess what, it wasn't a sexual interaction. Did I ask my niece if I could tickle her? NOPE. I just pounced on her and tickled her. Was she traumatized and told my sister that "evil uncle" tickled her without her consent? NO. She still loves her uncle and continues to interact with me in a very positive manner. To her, it was "what uncles do".
Learn how to distinguish between what is an "evil non-consensual" interaction vs a "normal non-consensual" interaction. Maybe you and another particular poster won't get so bent out of shape so often when the term "non-consensual" pops up.