Do ladies prefer soft tickles? (My experiences)

[miaisticklish2]

Soft Tickles

Yes, soft tickling is wonderful! It really tickles my toes when a feather is placed in between them...

 

[ilovethickbbws]

Even being a male I must say, that I prefer soft tickle myself. My experience is, that females prefer that too. But how about other males? Do they really like rough tickling?

I'm a male who hasn't yet had the opportunity to tickle a woman, but I hope I do in the not too distant future 🙂 I would ask the lee her preferences before tickling her, thus insuring her getting maximum enjoyment from the experience.
If I'm the one getting tickled, I would love it all. Rough & aggressive, light & sensual, and anything & everything in between. If I'm tickled in a rough agressive way, the result will be hysterical laughter no matter where I'm being tickled. That's also true for certain spots on me, even if tickled softly. But I do have certain areas that if tickled softly will result in my getting goose-bumps and feeling very intense pleasure all over.

 

[isabeau]

thanks jaba for that terrific story. i love that. do q tips tickle lots? you sound like the perfect ler to me jaba thanks again

isabeau

 

[jaba]

chocolate

Yes, soft tickling is wonderful! It really tickles my toes when a feather is placed in between them...

Try putting chocolate on your toes and letting your tickler nibble and lick them......my lady friends LOVE this, and I take all the time in the world to finish (smile).

Trust me it's delicious!

 

[JPie1]

I have always preferred soft teasing tickling, always.

 

[AffectionateDan]

Jaba, you're a freakin' GENIUS, man!

 

[jaba]

Nope, I'm no genius (smile)

Jaba, you're a freakin' GENIUS, man!

Although I sure am blessed and fortunate to have lady friends who are ticklish and love to be tickled.

It doesn't take a genius to tickle these ticklish ladies......it just takes a tickle technique that they seem to love!

 

[makeUsquirm]

Both as a 'ler and a 'lee, I like the soft to medium stuff much better. I'll take a steady stream of giggles over hysterical screaming anyday!

 

[jaba]

all laughter, no screaming

Both as a 'ler and a 'lee, I like the soft to medium stuff much better. I'll take a steady stream of giggles over hysterical screaming anyday!

I don't like to cause screaming and yelling while I tickle. I tickle to hear a sweet uncontrolled laugh.....

I like to find and tickle the right spot, and I know it's the right spot because she cannot keep that laugh from me no matter how hard she tries (she tries sometimes, but if I keep my slow tickle stroke on that spot, soon the laughter overwelms her......then she is really in for a long good tickle time because once she starts laughing, she can't stop until I stop my tickles......so much fun!

 

[kis123]

The softer touch works best for me as the ler (who enjoys tickling lees senseless) and as the occasional switch. Switching makes it an even more fun experience.

My objective is not to "break" the lee-my objective is to show the lee a good time. If the lee wants an intense tortorous experience, they would be best served by going to another ler. I'm more into playing and having fun than to torture and breaking the will of another. As the lee, I'm into the softer touch. I have a medical condition and cannot tolerate any rough play.

I played a little at a recent gathering in Dallas as both ler and lee. It was my first time as a lee and it was great. The gentlemen were gentle-men. They used a soft touch and no restraints. No bruises and no pain later-that's what I'm talking about!

The softer touch makes it more tolerable to take the tickling. If you dig in or tickle too vigorously, you either potentially hurt the lee or wear them out. Besides, it's tough for me as the ler to tickle like that.

Besides fingernails work very well along with the tips of the fingers. Extremely effective on that ticklish flesh. Maybe apply a little pressure just to get that little ticklish squeal followed by fits of giggles and throws of laughter. Now that's what I call a good time!

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

If you want me to fall asleep, then soft tickles is the way to go. I find that soft tickles are very relaxing and give me goosebumps (at least in about 90% of most ticklish areas...there are a couple of places where light touches will elicit a very ticklish response.) However, I don't want to be left with bruises either. I like the rough and tumble horseplay, but I don't want to feel the aftermath of the tickle fight the next day. I think that I'm a in-between kind of girl. Not too soft, not too hard....just right! I guess that makes me the Goldilocks of the tickling world.

Maggie

 

[BellaRisa]

Soft is fun, for awhile, and sensual as all heck...

but it's basically the appetizer To be honest, continue the soft tickling for too long and I just become bored and a little irritated, like "enough already geez is this a Calstar video?" That technique is perfect for soles and underarms and a few other yummy places, but in general the main course for me has more to do with the firm kneading and strumming of various vulnerable, quivery muscular areas, not 'rough' or 'hard' by any means but not softly either. That goes for me as 'ler as well as 'lee by the way, gimmee a ticklish strong torso to squeeze and chew (yeah I said it) and I'm a happy, evil lil' gal

Bella

 

[peter]

i want to torture girls !! 🙂

 

[Horatio]

It depends..

I usually have to give them a couple testicles first.

(Does that ever get old? 😉 )

 

[narin]

This thread has been done and done again but I can't sleep so I'm answering anyways

It really depends where, and for how long! For example: my feet are pretty durable, and after the soft tickles begin to lose their effect I love the feel of hard-scrabbling fingers/nails/brush/whatev. On my tummy, it HAS to be soft tickles, because pushing or squeezing hard just bloddy hurts (I may be atypical in that respect, no idea). My ribs and hips take a very special touch... the soft tickles stop being effective usually, after a little while, but it's so easy to hurt me in those spots. 🙁 I'm a really skinny girl, and any sort of hurt just takes the fun right out of the whole tickle. But running fingers over the protruding spots with a bit of moisturizer to make things smooth, or a very careful monitoring of pressure during squeezing... rawr

I can give you my experiences with my bf as well... he's about the same as me actually, except his underarms are ridiculously sensitive to a little firm tickle pressure, but hardly at all to soft tickles.