do most ppl here find it weird for a girl to be an extreme ler?

[natscott6282]

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

 

[Toesheldback]

Not weird it all. Maybe rare? Which is why you are getting a bunch of DMs. I think it’s neat.

 

[Jezebel Lee]

It’s most definitely not weird, but at the same time it’s definitely rare. I actually started off as 100% ler (in theory) way before engaging with the community, then I got curious about leeing and started having IRL sessions as a switch.

Annoyingly, I spent years getting swarmed by male lees who kept pestering me to tickle them. Seems like most women on the scene are either 100% lee or lee-leaning switches, at least in the U.K.

I much prefer getting tickled now so I decided to stop lerring in 2020, but still got pestered by male lees. That’s one of the reasons why I started charging for sessions, because a lot of times I felt like a kink-dispenser whenever I had to ler in the past.

TL;DR: You’re not weird! 😊

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I find it weird there's so few of them.

 

[robmic]

natscott6282, are you by any chance an older sister to a (at least once upon a time) bratty little brother?​

 

[Morning Scifi]

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

It's not weird, although I've probably known more female lees than lers.

 

[aberdeen]

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

This is one of those areas that our tickle fixation seems to bring out---The incredible amount of misconceptions and expectations from people involved in the fixation who simply ARE NOT YOU! They project onto YOU what THEY want to experience or happen! I am glad that you feel so self secure in your own personality that you have your personal standards and won't back down on them (ie refusing to RP, refusing to go along with demands of others). Everyone needs to have strong sense of self esteem and self worth, in all areas of their lives, including our fixations and private behaviors! I am glad you set a great example of this to everyone!
But again as an experienced man who holds women in the highest regard, I do feel sorry for you and others who have to put up with such uncivilized behavior from posters/messagers who simply don't have the proper upbringing or mindset to engage with the opposite sex!

 

[aberdeen]

What is "weird"? You have an interest, and you participate in it. You don't suffer those who automatically demand that you do or say things to please their own personal version of this interest.

I'd say it's far more weird that complete asshole strangers bombard you with demands and judgements based on the fact that you are open to a side of this interest that is perhaps less common or typical than what those same random asshole strangers have set into their narrow, simple minds as what should be "normal".

Then again, I'm an asexual autistic who likes to tickle but despises the sound of laughter, participating in a sexual fetish forum. Perhaps I should not offer my opinions about what classifies as "weird" until it's decided which of us is the pot and which is the kettle.

Very nice reply, sir! Yes it is amazing how others try to decide what is normal for someone else (usually based on what they want to see/experience in their own lives)!

 

[natscott6282]

It’s most definitely not weird, but at the same time it’s definitely rare. I actually started off as 100% ler (in theory) way before engaging with the community, then I got curious about leeing and started having IRL sessions as a switch.

Annoyingly, I spent years getting swarmed by male lees who kept pestering me to tickle them. Seems like most women on the scene are either 100% lee or lee-leaning switches, at least in the U.K.

I much prefer getting tickled now so I decided to stop lerring in 2020, but still got pestered by male lees. That’s one of the reasons why I started charging for sessions, because a lot of times I felt like a kink-dispenser whenever I had to ler in the past.

TL;DR: You’re not weird! 😊

what were u into as a ler?

 

[natscott6282]

natscott6282, are you by any chance an older sister to a (at least once upon a time) bratty little brother?​

hahaha yessss, why??

 

[bluey1]

Looking at a lot of tickling videos I don't find it weird for a girl to be an extreme "ler. A lot of the best and most ruthless ticklers in tickling videos are girls. There are a lot of ticklish guys and good male ticklers as well. But I think girls are more ticklish, but also better ticklers.

 

[natscott6282]

Looking at a lot of tickling videos I don't find it weird for a girl to be an extreme "ler. A lot of the best and most ruthless ticklers in tickling videos are girls. There are a lot of ticklish guys and good male ticklers as well. But I think girls are more ticklish, but also better ticklers.

imho boys were always quite a bit more ticklish then girls

 

[magic fingers]

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

No, it's not weird at all. Rare, maybe, but not weird. I wish there were more female lers

 

[Mitchell]

Some women absolutely hate to be tickled, and to be "An Extreme Ler" keeps them from being in a vulnerable position of being tickled.

I say, whatever makes a person comfortable, as long as they are not hurting anyone else, is fine
"

 

[Takahane]

It's all about control -- holding it, keeping it, surrendering it, transferring it.

Some women absolutely hate to be tickled, and to be "An Extreme Ler" keeps them from being in a vulnerable position of being tickled.

There are two main controls that a 'ler is concerned about losing -- control over the situation, and control over one's own emotions and reactions.

Being bound and helpless removes the control of the situation. Being subjected to tickling and the loss of control of your own psyche removes self-control.

Is it any wonder that being put into a situation of being bound, helpless and subject to another's torture, can induce feelings of terror and panic in a 'ler?

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

I encourage girls/women to be the LER My feet need to be tickled like right now

 

[Jezebel Lee]

what were u into as a ler?

I’m hetero-romantic so I was only really interested in tickling guys I had crushes on. I have zero interest in tickling women or random guys I have no attraction to, but I was okay with tickling guys during sessions because I kind of felt like I “had” to or it wouldn’t be fair on the other person. Anyway, I’m much more of an upper body person and love the extreme reactions.

 

[robmic]

hahaha yessss, why??

Well, I'm betting he got tickled a lot then! 😛

 

[natscott6282]

I’m hetero-romantic so I was only really interested in tickling guys I had crushes on. I have zero interest in tickling women or random guys I have no attraction to, but I was okay with tickling guys during sessions because I kind of felt like I “had” to or it wouldn’t be fair on the other person. Anyway, I’m much more of an upper body person and love the extreme reactions.

upper body is normally where the most ticklish hotspots are!!

 

[natscott6282]

Well, I'm betting he got tickled a lot then! 😛

when we were younger ye wayyy past his limits but so was I and it was excruciating ngl

 

[Morning Scifi]

Then again, I'm an asexual autistic who likes to tickle but despises the sound of laughter, participating in a sexual fetish forum. Perhaps I should not offer my opinions about what classifies as "weird" until it's decided which of us is the pot and which is the kettle.

That's fascinating. I'm assuming you prefer the "silent laughter" lees, eh?

 

[Wade]

cause I get loadsa DMs from ppl saying they are shocked I’m a ler and trying to force me to rp with them and tell them what I would do (and I dont rp or act like a slave to guys demanding I do it)

but anyway, I always thought it was normal to be a ler as a female 😂

I've mostly been tickled by women, and based on that limited data set I'd have to say: a girl who's a relentless ler is not anomalous at all.

 

[BlueLine7045]

I prefer to ler, but I enjoy switching mostly. I do enjoy the scenario of a strong female dom switching and being on the receiving end, or a mostly ler female becoming the lee for a change. I find it sexy and exhilarating.

Not that I really do sessions anymore having a wife now anyway, but idk if I would ever really want to have a session with an all-ler female or mostly ler. If I didn't get to do some tickling myself, it wouldn't be as fun.

I don't mind an all-lee female, but again, it can be fun switching and being on the receiving end as well. Switch is def hands down the best in my opinion, at least the best of both worlds.

 

[moose]

Honestly i know about 3 women that are ler or switch most of the women i know are lees

 

[TicklishOldMan]

A ffemale ler? Not wierd at all! I'd embrace it (My wife doesn't like tickling) - where do I sign up to be a potential 'lee?