do most ppl here find it weird for a girl to be an extreme ler?

[Lee Lerish]

u want me to make a note somewhere to contact you specifically if for some reason in the future I somehow change and suddenly wanna do bondage on someone and that someone is a guy I don’t even know who commented on one of my posts?

I'll make a note of that...and we already know each other too! 😉🤣

 

[GigglyGothGrrl]

I don't think it should be considered "weird" or "unusual" at all that a woman desires to be a 'ler and only a 'ler. When I was younger I used to think that way, but meditating on it and going through some serious self reflection I found that way of thinking was conditioned into me by a theocratic system designed to put people in labels. That "women were supposed to be obedient and submissive" and "men were supposed to be in control and dominate" and anything that falls outside of that is "unusual, weird, and abnormal"

It's BS. Propaganda designed to make us feel ashamed for being human. One of my favorite psycho-analysts Carl Jung posited an theory of the Anima/Animus, that within everyone's mind there exists a feminine aspect (the Anima) and a masculine aspect (the Animus), and that a great deal of mental issues are caused by living in a society that encourages the development of one through the repression of the other. When both are in harmony, a person then discovers who they truly are and can begin to live an authentic life.

I don't think you're weird at all. You're confident in who you are and you are living in authenticity. Who cares what anyone else thinks, if it's who you are then you're right and the rest of the world can be wrong. You're awesome for being you!

 

[natscott6282]

I don't think it should be considered "weird" or "unusual" at all that a woman desires to be a 'ler and only a 'ler. When I was younger…

It's BS. Propaganda designed to make us feel ashamed for being human. One of my favorite psycho-analysts Carl Jung posited…

oh wowwww that sooo makes sense and makes you think! I just looked up Carl Jung and I never hear of him but he’s just as famous or more than Freud! makes me realize how much more theres to learn about the psychology of it and I thought I already knew loads (although mainly the psychology of the male attitude towards their own ticklishness )

thankyou loads @GigglyGothGrrl x

 

[GigglyGothGrrl]

oh wowwww that sooo makes sense and makes you think! I just looked up Carl Jung and I never hear of him but he’s just as famous or more than Freud! makes me realize how much more theres to learn about the psychology of it and I thought I already knew loads (although mainly the psychology of the male attitude towards their own ticklishness )

thankyou loads @GigglyGothGrrl x

No problem! (^-^) I love studying different facets of reality, and psychology is especially interesting because it's the way the mind interprets reality. Jung was a colleague of Freud, but I think Jung was in the beginning of his career when Freud was already well established. I'm happy I was able to give you a new interest!