Do You Enjoy The Sensation Or Is It Something Else?

[megaticklish]

Something that I've been thinking about...

Do fellow ticklees actually enjoy the sensation of tickling in itself, or is it other things about being tickled, or both that you enjoy?

This is what I seem to get out of being tickled:

So I'm chiefly a ler', but over the last few years I've also developed intense interest in being a lee' as well. For as long as I can remember I always what I have always loved (and still love) about tickling a woman is exposing that vulnerability. You can literally reduce someone to uncontrollable hysterics by just stroking their foot, a squeeze of the knee, a poke and so on. This concept has always excited me wildly even though personally I was previously petrified of being tickled. PETRIFIED. If someone tickled me, especially in front of women I always felt embarrassed and emasculated as I've posted about previously. Unless we're talking about a light, sensual sort of tickle, the sensation was always agonizing for me because I'm absurdly ticklish on every inch of my body.

For me, it's not the sensation in itself, because when isolated, it's rather uncomfortable, painful even for long periods of time. My conclusion is that what "gets" me about it is being dominated by a lady in an almost "silly" way. When you think about it, it's hard to look dignified when a woman has you on the floor, in a fit of squirmy giggles, while also being subjected to heft dose of "tickle talk." As a straight male the thought of being tickle tortured by a man, honestly freaks me out. I don't even like to think about it, but if it's a woman, no matter how merciless the whole concept is appealing if this makes any sense. Anybody else like it for this reason?

 

[Goatboy]

I like it because when I am being tickled, everything else goes away. My brain stops thinking of all my problems and all that exists in the world is the laughter. It allows me to destress and just cut loose and laugh.

 

[milagros317]

I do enjoy the sensation but, even more than that, I enjoy giving up all control to a female ler.

 

[a7hgsir4h3jk]

I find the sensation of being tickled very uncomfortable; I have absolutely no idea why I crave it.

Hmm... I do like the "cutesy" feeling though.

 

[matt62]

I relate to everything that you have said, megaticklish, pretty much word for word. I could have written that post - except that I think I may be even more of a coward than you about getting tickled myself. I'm a long way from daring to explore that.

 

[arachnid95]

I utterly love the sensation. Having someone tickle my feet is easily the most exhilarating tactile sensation I've ever felt, torturous though it is. But there's also the embarrassment factor for me--having someone expose my ticklish weakness, forcing me to let out my goofy-ass laugh for all the world to hear while I blush scarlet and try to melt into the earth in embarrassment... Again, torturous, but exhilarating! I couldn't even begin to explain why I love it... XD

 

[CapturedDoll]

I LOVE the sensation. There's so many different levels into the skin the deeper you go.... and so many different sensations... I'm addicted to everything about ticking!

 

[tickletherapist]

Tickling is so much fun 🙂

 

[jluv]

Personally when I'm being tickled I like both the sensation of being tickled while trying to pretend its not happening. Although it is fun when she is sitting on top my waist digging into my pits and I'm trying to buck her off me.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I like the sensation, loss of control, and being dominated.

 

[kevin_kidnapped]

I enjoy the sensation even though I cringe, lol!! Don't ask me why, it's just one of those things. The feeling of being helplessly reduced to a giggling pile of goo at the hands of someone else is what makes being tickled so fun for me, as well as being a turn on. I get so caught up in it that its hard for me to determine if I've been tickled for 10 minutes or 60 minutes! Time just seems to stand still as I'm in so much hysterical laughter that I can't think straight. In fact many times I can't even think at all!! Tickling can be a love / hate relationship for me, but when it's all over it definetly reverts back to love again. Kind of like that roller coaster ride scaring the crap out of you, but when it's over you go back to stand in line to ride it again! There are so many different sensations of tickling that as a lee I'm constantly guessing as to what might come next....light spidery feather tickles, a deeper wiggling tickle, poking tickles, squeeze and grab tickling, etc. Most of the time I'm usually wrong as to what is coming next which makes it even that much more intense and exciting albeit unbearable if I don't try to convince myself otherwise. That becomes an internal mind game in itself for me. But when it's all over and I'm gasping to catch my breath, I always have a smile on my face no matter how much my ler has put me in my place as a lee!!

 

[Wade]

I can't stand it -- on a visceral level, when I'm being tickled every instinct in my body is frantic to get away and make it stop. But that's precisely what I enjoy about it -- the helplessness and the idea that someone else wants to inflict this playful torture on me.

 

[the tickle wizard]

Yeah I agree with wade, the helplessness is a Biggy. mixed with the sensation itself as well though.

 

[CharleneLee]

For me it is the sensation but also other things as well. Like someone mentioned above, I love the feeling of giving up control, the ability to have your mind shut down from the normal dady to day stuff that goes on and you think about and of coarse it is also very very erotic for me as well. I also love when I am tied up or locked in stocks, the feeling of being helpless adds so much to it that I am instantly soaked while I am being tied or locked up. I guess it is a mixture of everything combined but if I have to pick 1 thing that I love the most, it would be the combined feeling of giving up control and helpless together. 🙂

 

[kcantankerous]

Hello,

As a tickler, the idea of domination is a turn off for me. However, I do like the idea of making a woman laugh. That is why I am pretty much a no restraints guy. If it gets too intense she can easily pull away. My desire is for the ones who can get so ticklish that they pull away, but then allow you to keep tickling them. An example is when you may be tickling their feet, and they pull back; only to replace their foot once they recompose.

A a lee, I think it is the sensation. I am not very ticklish, and have to force myself to kind of be ticklish. A woman tickling me is extremely arousing to me. Whereas being the tickler could be purely for fun. I like the idea of a woman feeling empowered.

Thanks,

K

 

[Bradhadair]

As a lee, I both love and hate tickling. I can't get asy or stop it unless I break and safe word. It's a sexy quest to come out without calling. The sensation is sexy, tingly, electric. Amazing. Often a Ler will get a good spot and I'll be shocked by how much it tickles. I'm always shicked by how turned on I get. I love bondage, love the helplesness. The teasing and begging.

 

[Sensualswitch10]

I love all things tickling. It's definitely the sensation for me, although it can get unbearable at times. After I'm done leeing, I have an endorphin rush that's hard to beat and lasts quite a while. I usually can't wipe the goofy grin off my face, not that I'd want to anyway. One of my favorite ways to wake up is to get a good tickling while still in bed. Way better than Starbucks! I never really consider myself to be a submissive when I'm getting tickled or really a dom when I'm doing the tickling. The whole power exchange it a non issue for me. It's all about the tickling.