True love is rare. That is why it's so greatly sought-after and prized.
There's nothing wrong with lust (horniness and all of the activities attendant thereto), or with other levels of love, provided that you are honest with your partner(s) and with yourself.
As for cybertickling, that's just like posting in the story section here, except more intimate. Nuttin' wrong with it, I just prefer actual fingers, etc. upon skin.