Do You Find The Tickling You Need ?

[DannyMc]

I've been wondering lately why some of us can always find somebody to share the tickling experience with and some of us go weeks , months or even years without it .......... Is it were not getting out enough , not looking in the right places , not coming across the people that share the same fetish . When I was younger It seemed I had a lot more chances for it . It also seems to me that the certain people I'm around made the difference as well ............ Do any of you have something to share , either being able to find it regularly or having to much time pass in between your tickling adventures ................

 

[Bugman]

Way to much time between myself. 🙁 And your're right Danny,it was much easier when i was younger.

 

[lespieds]

Any kind of touch -
Some people you see will playfully touch each other all the time.
Some people are not, unless they are gonna get intimate.

I guess it has to do with whether a person is "touchy feely" or not. I think most people are not touchy feely.
I know I am not.

But being married, if I really need tickled or want to do it, it is close at hand.

 

[steph]

I always say my real life mimics my cyber life. I've always been so, so lucky. Choosing the very best of friends has been one of my life's true blessings.
XOXO

 

[OnnaOtaku]

Yes.

 

[ViperGTS]

Yes.

 

[Strider]

Generally, yeah. Especially since I got inducted into the SoCal community last year.

 

[ChosenofMystra]

Not as much as I would like it to be.

 

[maniactickler]

Thats a huge no for me.

 

[Tamia78]

No for me too. Most of mine is location, location, location. *sigh* I really need to move!

 

[Redmage]

I think there are two keys to finding others who share this interest. Well, two and a half perhaps.

Numero Uno: Get out and meet people. Go to singles events. Join clubs for people who share your non-kink interests. Get involved in community events. Mingle. The more people you meet and talk with, the better they chance that one of them will swing the same way you do.

Second, try to interact with other kinky people whenever possible. Get involved with your local kink community, whether tickle-oriented or not. Basically, if you want to meet kinky people then you have to hang out where the kinky people are.

Finally, don't be shy about your interests. It's not dinner table conversation for the first date (well, OK, sometimes it is), but find a chance to let people know whenever it's appropriate.

I've had kinky partners all my life. They aren't that hard to find if you're just a little diligent.

 

[TKLVR18]

Not at the moment, no. I've come out to one of my best friends, only problem is she lives like, four states away 🙁 Good news for me, though, is everybody's favorite SOAP freak, Senshi, is coming to visit me in Februrary. I bet I'll be getting some then... 🙄 😊

 

[milagros317]

Yes, but for pay with a pro Domme.

 

[badreligion]

i know the feeling , i am hardly ever tickled

quite honestly im more of a loner dont have many friends *long story short they wernt true friends* im not very good when it comes to girls either so

all i really do is , workout , study , work , eat and sleep

ive grown used to it but there are some days wher ei wish i had somebody but w/e

 

[chicago]

I've been wondering lately why some of us can always find somebody to share the tickling experience with and some of us go weeks , months or even years without it .......... Is it were not getting out enough , not looking in the right places , not coming across the people that share the same fetish . When I was younger It seemed I had a lot more chances for it . It also seems to me that the certain people I'm around made the difference as well ............ Do any of you have something to share , either being able to find it regularly or having to much time pass in between your tickling adventures ................

Finding this site made me realize I'm really not that weird in that I like to be tickled. I'm probably much weirder for entirely other reasons. And of all the things to be into, it could be a lot worse. So it all depends on if I'm dating or not. If I am, I'm getting tickled. If I'm single, I'm not.

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

seems like lately it has been more frequent!

 

[Speedbump]

If I was, I wouldn't be hanging around here anymore.

 

[huskys]

No for me too. Most of mine is location, location, location. *sigh* I really need to move!

Tell me about it!!! 🙁

 

[rajee]

I'm just a media watcher

I wish I had a lucky "ticklee" someone. I'm just a media tickling watcher.

 

[Knox The Hatter]

What I've discovered throughout the course of my life is that patience is truly a virtue. They weren't kidding with that one.

 

[Capnmad]

I think there are two keys to finding others who share this interest. Well, two and a half perhaps.

Numero Uno: Get out and meet people. Go to singles events. Join clubs for people who share your non-kink interests. Get involved in community events. Mingle. The more people you meet and talk with, the better they chance that one of them will swing the same way you do.

Second, try to interact with other kinky people whenever possible. Get involved with your local kink community, whether tickle-oriented or not. Basically, if you want to meet kinky people then you have to hang out where the kinky people are.

Finally, don't be shy about your interests. It's not dinner table conversation for the first date (well, OK, sometimes it is), but find a chance to let people know whenever it's appropriate.

I like Redmage's answers here. Get out, meet folks, both vanilla and... ...waitaminnit -- we've been calling everyone else "vanilla" all this time... what the Hell are we, "Rocky Road"? 😕 ...no matter. GET OUT AND MEET PEOPLE is the key! Some of you all are shy (I know I am at times -- or at least I'm quiet initially), others may not have the best social skills or feel isolated or whatever -- the only way around this is PRACTICE. Find people (in the real world), talk, get some coffee, have some lunch, date, blahblahblah, yaddayaddayadda... and then tickle as the "weather" permits... Some folks'll be into it, some not, and they all may be wonderful people. Keep the ones you like, trade the ones you don't. It's just life and making friends... The important things are that you make time for it, and really put effort into it... The tickling you want or "need" will come to you eventually. 🙂

Egads, enough rambling... Where's my coffee?

 

[Luv2Tickle69]

I've been wondering lately why some of us can always find somebody to share the tickling experience with and some of us go weeks , months or even years without it .......... Is it were not getting out enough , not looking in the right places , not coming across the people that share the same fetish . When I was younger It seemed I had a lot more chances for it . It also seems to me that the certain people I'm around made the difference as well ............ Do any of you have something to share , either being able to find it regularly or having to much time pass in between your tickling adventures ................

Well...being married now, I don't find it too difficult whatsoever to have my tickle moods satiated (as a 'lee OR 'ler)....but even back when I was younger, I had the great fortune of knowing a good number of female friends of mine (all of whom I was quite close with) who were great sports about being tickled, or would tickle me. I guess what helped a lot there was that most of these female friends of mine were a very playful sort.....even one or two that weren't quite as kittenish found a positive value in having their feet tickled. I consider myself lucky for having known (and developed that kind of trust with) the right people.

 

[badreligion]

I like Redmage's answers here. Get out, meet folks, both vanilla and... ...waitaminnit -- we've been calling everyone else "vanilla" all this time... what the Hell are we, "Rocky Road"? 😕 ...no matter. GET OUT AND MEET PEOPLE is the key! Some of you all are shy (I know I am at times -- or at least I'm quiet initially), others may not have the best social skills or feel isolated or whatever -- the only way around this is PRACTICE. Find people (in the real world), talk, get some coffee, have some lunch, date, blahblahblah, yaddayaddayadda... and then tickle as the "weather" permits... Some folks'll be into it, some not, and they all may be wonderful people. Keep the ones you like, trade the ones you don't. It's just life and making friends... The important things are that you make time for it, and really put effort into it... The tickling you want or "need" will come to you eventually. 🙂

Egads, enough rambling... Where's my coffee?

yea thats my problem , i have a VERY hard time meeting girls , im very shy and honestly i havent had the best luck with gfs in the past

i literally have no confidence idk how to fix it

 

[Peace_sign]

yea thats my problem , i have a VERY hard time meeting girls , im very shy and honestly i havent had the best luck with gfs in the past

i literally have no confidence idk how to fix it

self-help classes are an option.

most people need help with something in their life, so it wont be like ur weird or anything.

 

[Soda Bobinski]

No for me too. Most of mine is location, location, location. *sigh* I really need to move!

Yeah! You can come live near me ... Western NY would be HAPPY to have ya!!!