Do you hate your fetish?

[Tomskee]

Do I hate my fetish? Hell to the naw! I hate that it is sometimes seen as odd or creepy. Seeing a pretty woman get tickled and laugh her head off...I could never hate that.

 

[bellytklr1973]

i am proud of my fetisch. i had such feelings too at the start but i started really young so i didnt even knew what bondage was at that moment

 

[Ferbtones]

do i hate my fetish?

not at all. actually im proud of it. i know what i like and im not ashamed to say i love tickling :]

 

[Antonn]

Hang in there,

Sometimes this passion of mine makes me crazy too.

I try to put my feelings down on paper or a word document to serve as an outlet.It really works.

 

[tequila!]

It's not like it's THAT uncommon. At least (hopefully) you're not into any of these

 

[Sleepy Jean]

Excuse me, but if bondage is a perversion then I should be locked up with MacMurphy, Harding, Billy Bibbitt and the Big Chief and be getting shock treatment. I LOVE BONDAGE and I'm not ashamed to say so (to you).

But in truth, I did hate my fetish when I was a teenager because I was absolutely certain I was the only person in the world who had it. What a dirty, disturbed little girl to want to be tied up naked and tickle-tortured to hysteria? But when I met my future husband and came clean to him and he told me he thought my desires weren't so weird, all became well. The fact I have been bound and tickle-tortured thousands of times in our 32 years as a couple makes me think I'm a very lucky gal.

 

[braniacmaniac11]

guys, this is just awesome. I had no idea i would get 30 posts in one day! thx 4 the wizdom.

 

[2ticklish2say]

you know I used to feel that way too but then I figured, there are a lot more freakish fetishes out there and this is kind of a cute/innocent one to other people it seems like. I don't know just don't beat yourself up over this.

 

[Tckleme]

you know I used to feel that way too but then I figured, there are a lot more freakish fetishes out there and this is kind of a cute/innocent one to other people it seems like. I don't know just don't beat yourself up over this.

Well, then you have to explain what do you mean when you say "more freakish" fetishes. I think many people is quite freakier than ...for example, an ass fetish or something like that. It always depends on the viewer´s personal opinion.

 

[Feathery]

Sometimes I wonder how much more I could have accomplished if I didn't focus so much on my tickling fetish/obsession. But thanks largely to the internet, I am in a place where I have become very comfortable and relaxed about it

 

[jj82277]

Absolutely I hate my fetish. If I could, I'd wish it away in a matter of seconds, shoot it, burn it, behead it, salt the earth so it could never grow again.

Do I feel guilty? No, I haven't made any choices so I have nothing to feel guilty about. I don't think I'm sick either. My fantasies are, because they extend into some dark, sexual, "life sentence" style desires. But I can't be sick unless I act. Any kind of thought control, even guilting yourself over thoughts and fantasies, is stupid. Feel guilty or sick for what you do, not what you feel.

That said, returning to my earlier fetish hating statements, I hate my fetish because it's a fucking complication. Whenever I get involved with a girl it becomes an issue... should I tell her, when should I tell her, can I trust her... etc etc, not to mention sex in general is simply LESS enjoyable without catering to my fetish, which in the instance of the odd one-night stand, isn't an option.

So yeah, I'd prefer to be normal. Not because I have some kind of ideological reverence for the norm and the mainstream, but simply for the uncomplicated, easier life it would be.

Love who you are my foot. Some things about us would be better if they were different.

Realism.

Love it.

Bam.

I highlighted certain portions that I think have special bearing reaching far beyond the limits of this thread.

It is my humble opinion that tickle fetish in its simplest form cannot act as a complication to a relationship (by simplest I mean devoid of certain inherent logical negative externalities like kidnapping celebrities, incestuous relationships, etc.) because it is just a part of your sexuality. Conversely, to me it illuminates, beyond the shadow of a doubt, partners that you are and are not compatible with. The goal of all relationships should be to find a suitable compatible long-term partner. There is inherently a list that we are aware of or unaware of things we absolutely must have, and things we absolutely cannot stand. Infringing upon any one of these key areas of compatibility renders any mate (no matter how hot you think she is) nonviable in the long-term for a sustainable healthy relationship and any short term gratification just fuel to the fire of long-term emotional disappointment in the eventual dissolution of the relationship-God help an unfortunate child.

It takes most people years of self-discovery, maturing, growing, experience, and introspection just to realize what their list is in its totality. I thank the Lord that he has given me a physical manifestation of some of my deepest relational and passionate desires in the form of a tangible interest that can be used to determine the compatibility of a mate in lock step with all the other facets of my personality. It is the dream of most that people would wear little signs around their neck that give them a glimpse into the potential compatibility of a prospective mate. We are not there yet, but this is one of many very big subconscious signs, and it is to be embraced not shunned. The more and more I listen to people, read stories, read posts, and LISTEN I understand that this is just a subtle manifestation of the ducks (the totality of our personhoods) legs churning underneath seemingly calm ticklish waters. To ignore the subtle currents is to inherently invite our peril.

JJ.

 

[Scouse]

At times like this, its best to remind yourself that SOME people in this crazy world of ours got turned on by 2girls1cup. Probably not too many, but definitely a fair few.

Deep down, everyones a bit of a weirdo 🙂

 

[-Hari-]

heres a massive positive side to this fetish, at the ripe old age of 22 😀 ive been in 3 long term realtionships, each of these girls(especially my current one) has loved the fact that its so damn easy to please me, abit of foot tease or a light tickle and no matter what im doing they have my FULL attention, we all win, she gets whatever it was she wanted 😉 and i get massivly turned on very quickely, i cannot see this as a disadvantage, i truely cant, this fetish is awesome, if it wasnt there i may not be the guy i am today, which is someone who takes care and attention and a fully open minded attitude towards my relationships, and im like this because i was paronoid and shy about the way i am so i made that extra effort. whcih now just come automatically, the whole thing is so much fun in so many ways, i could never hate it.

 

[Artoo]

I honestly can't see it as a massive disadvantage, to be honest. It being that easy for me to be turned on - also I find that a fair few people find that any alternative to vanilla sex is quite...alluring?

Maybe it's just the people I hang out with, lol.

 

[-Hari-]

I honestly can't see it as a massive disadvantage, to be honest. It being that easy for me to be turned on - also I find that a fair few people find that any alternative to vanilla sex is quite...alluring?

Maybe it's just the people I hang out with, lol.

i find "normal" sex really boring, to the point i just dont want to finish it, i couldnt hold a sexual relationship with someone that wasnt up for trying new things and having abit of a play. straight sex i just find abit un-imaginitive

 

[ticklebrowse26]

enjoy it, man

Tickling is awesome.
Tickling is fun.
Tickling is hot.

What other fetish involves actually invoking the emotion of happiness and laughter through physical sensation?

Not only should you embrace this fetish, but consider yourself lucky for being able to enjoy something this fun.

Be confident about it. Don't just tell a girl "Well... I have this thing that I kind of like... and it's really really weird..." Instead say to her, "Oh tickling is just awesome. I love tickling. It's fun and..." etc.

Hey man, you can't change who you are. Life gave you lemons... so make lemon merengue pie.

 

[BlondeWitch]

There are times when I hate it too, because it can get very lonely. If you are shy about talking to others about it, it can be difficult to find someone to "scratch the itch". I can talk about it here with other ticklephiles, but in person I avoid using the T word at all costs. At least until I have divulged my interest to someone special.

Please don't take that to mean there is anything wrong with it. You are more likely to become obsessed in an unhealthy way if you make it "forbidden fruit" for yourself. Just accept it and enjoy it in a consentual manner, and it won't take over your life.