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Do you remember when oral sex was deviant?

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I think I have a funny story to tell, but I have a date so I will tell it another time.


But I'm 50 years old.

And for my parents and grandparents...oral sex was abnormal, deviant sexual behavior. And they were serious. I happened to be present when some of my female elders talked about it. Several times. And they were like "why would anyone agree to do that???" Hilarious. One time they all looked at me like I was supposed to explain it. (They assumed that I was into oral sex because I was young and also married to a white girl). But even white elders were not into it. You might as well be Gay...which was also taboo back in the day. You might as well be into bestiality.

LOL. I'm exaggerating, but only a little bit.

My parents are gone now. But I am sure that they would think things like a forum about any kind of fetish was inappropriate and wrong. Tickling??? Yep. Same thing.

But I am amused in this moment. Because oral sex is kind of taken for granted these days. Yet, I remember when it was not.
 
Here in New York State, until a 1980 court case, The People of New York State vs. Onofre, all oral and anal sex was a criminal offense, in fact a felony, even when performed by a married couple.

Obviously there were not many prosecutions under this law, but it was still on the books.
 
I'm trying to remember what I had for dinner last night and what sex was.
 
I'm 41, and I have to say no. Maybe it's a Canadian thing, but I don't remember a time when it was referred to in that way.
 
I'm n Georgia,and I think we still have a similar law on the books. Guess no one in the Legislature (of any State) wants to be the one to bring it up and show how deviant they are.
 
It's not my favorite act to preform but I still do it when asked to and I don't think it's weird. I'm only 24 so it's always been normal for as long as people my age have been sexually active
 
+DontAskJusTickle & Sodahead, if you think giving oral to your partner is gross then you are probably with the wrong partner. It is one of the most selfless sex acts you can do or have done for you. I love doing it and receiving equally. 69 is my favourit position.
 
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SlaverTickler said:
+DontAskJusTickle & Sodahead, if you thing giving oral to your partner is gross then you are probably with the wrong partner. It is one of the most selfless sex acts you can do or have done for you. I love doing it and receiving equally. 69 is my favourit position.
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I didn't call it gross
 
I called it gross because I find it to be so. It's my opinion no matter who is involved. It has nothing to do with altruism. It has to do with putting one's mouth where another person pees. One might as well kiss an unflushed toilet.
 
Well.

The general rule is you have to be clean. Wash yourself. LOL. And your partner should too.

It can absolutely be gross...mutually gross. But if you wash and freshen up...it shouldn't be gross.

Beyond that...both folks/partners can actually make it sort of attractive. There are all kinds of soaps and perfumes and oils and scents...that are actually kind of fun.
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I got lucky. When I was young, some of my best friends were girls. So much so that in high school...I would be hanging out with the girls when they talked about boys. We were increasingly sexually active. They would start talking...and forget that I was a boy. So I got to hear what they thought was nasty and how nasty boys were. But they would laugh when I cleared my throat. And then I could ask them what they did and what they would want a boy/man to do. And they told me. Shoot. I even have a couple of stories where they would "practice" on me or give me instructions. Whew. Teenaged heaven.

And it worked out for me. I won't tell all the stories. But I have a hygeine routine...and I take extra steps if I think there is an opportunity for sex. One of the best things that happens for me...when I am getting intimate is when a lady says "wow, you smell good". And then the surprise when I also smell good in my private parts. Many a lady have takeng good time to tell me how they appreciate that. And...the don't mind oral explorations...if they feel that I am clean. (another thing I like to do is take a shower together before sex....that way everyone knows where each other stands).

If you have not experienced what I am about to say...please consider it. Quite a few women take care of themselves and really try to be clean and fresh. In my mind...you should not encounter an unpleasant odor or taste with oral sex. Don't get me wrong...some scents are just human and natural. You don't really need a perfumed experience. And now...to gross you out (sorry) yeah...folks pee and poop out of their naughty bits. It's natural.

Let me do a tickling gross thing. Not really related to an oral thing.

But sometimes the tickling gets so good, right...that a lady might pass some gas or even pee. LOL. Gross? I don't know...I won't argue. Natural? Yes. I kind of like it when a lady loses a little control. "Gross" is part of relationship. Being human. But we can control it. Wash ourselves. Right?

Besides that...for men and women...the pleasure of oral sex is pretty much worth pursuing. Not at the expense of cleanliness.
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When my son was very young...like 8 years old...I gave him a mantra. You have these things to be responsible for and that is all. Be nice. Do your schoolwork. Do your homework. And wash your ass.

LOL. I don't get into the sex thing with kids...don't ask, don't tell. My son knows what he needs to know about education and being safe. Whatever. But my point is...I kind of remember and know. You gotta be clean. And fresh. Especially as a man or young man. If you think you want a lady to put her mouth on you. Ha. And the reverse is also true. When I was in college...I had a few females take off their panties in my room...and stank up the whole room! Oh hell no. Put your clothes back on. We are not about to be together tonight. Maybe not ever. And I am sure that the ladies have more and better stories...because dudes are nasty.

I have sex with my penis. But when I am about to have sex...I probably have not peed in a minute. And if I did...I pretty much know how to clean myself...right?

Whatever. I don't need to convince folks. Do what you do. I even understand. Some folks are even attracted to pee. That's not me. But my point is, that I understand if folks don't want to put their mouth on places where people pee or poop. LOL. I get it.

I'm just saying that I remember when it was like taboo or deviant. It's not that way now. Today...especially for folks my age and younger...it is sort of expected. Even though clearly...we have a few young folks here who are not into that at all.

But for men...if you want your dick sucked...you better eat pussy. And you better be good at it too. And you have to wash yourself.

Ha. This is cracking me up.
 
I will say it again.

I have had some ladies who actually like to perform oral sex, but who generally don't because men tend to be nasty.

I have benefitted from that. Because I try to be clean, washed and smelling good. Everywhere. Y'all will be mad because I'm even kind of manipulative and perverse with it. (Sorry). I will spray some cologne on my underwear. But I don't spray it on my private parts. Most cologne has a bitter taste. LOL. I use baby powder, baby oil and baby lotion on my private parts. I feel guilty. Something is probably not right about that. Yet the ladies have liked that in my experience. Not because they are into baby products...but because they recognize the clean. They have even talked to be about that afterwards...or if they know me longer...they talk about it.

Like some of you have said...the oral thing can be a nasty thing. But it doesn't have to be.

Oh...but let me trip you out. Even with "pee", private parts are not the nastiest part of the human body. Actually...the mouth is. So if you are french kissing your partner, but don't want to have oral sex...that is hilarious to me. Because putting your tounge all up in another person's mouth...exposes you to a lot more stuff than private parts.

IJS.
 
My mom did not do oral sex with my father. And ewww, how would I even know? But it came up during the Monica Lewinski issue. And she and her group of female friends were talking about it in my presence (on purpose). They wanted me to explain it to them. Ha. Ha. Ha. Uh....no.

And unfortunately...I think my dad honored my mom's perspective. But he was a big time biomedical scientist, cute, power and influence...and I think he got that done on the side. I don't feel good about it. But IJS.

In my parent's day...oral sex was taboo. Deviant. Almost like a fetish. Like my mom and her friends said: "Why would anyone do that???"

Well. If folks don't know...it is hard to explain. Men think that women are mainly or only satisfied by the so-called laying the pipe down. But shit...some men don't have that much pipe. And even those who do...that's just not the only way that women experience sexual pleasure.

Same for us. I love the regular stuff. But I really also enjoy a woman having her mouth on me. Whew...especially if she knows what she is doing. Baby, Baby, please.

I have a couple of true stories where I almost died from oral sex. I went down on a couple of women...and they came so hard and so long...with my head trapped between their legs...that I could not breathe. I was trying to tap out...but they were long gone. Sheeeeiiiiiitt. But that was great. I lived. And listen...what they did to me afterwards...is indescribable. You want to be happy? Make your lady happy.
 
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