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Do you think trust

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DianaBanana88

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Is the most important thing to consider before letting someone cuff you down or tie you up? Or is there somethin else we should keep in mind as well? Im sure there is but what do you think is like the most important of all?
 
It is as important as any aspect of the relationship!

When allowing your dominant partner to restrain you, that means you trust her or him to respect your limits and keep you safe. I forget the title but years ago I read a book about a couple where the dominant husband betrayed his submissive wife's safety, tying her up and leaving her alone in the house while he went off to work or someplace. A fire broke out and she perished.

Granted, you could take zero chances in life, taking no risks and then the chadelier falls on your head anyway. But I digress.

Yes! You have to trust the person to whom you make yourself vulnerable. But do you know you can before allowing her or him to cuff you down?
 
Ive met up with people from online before and let them restraain and tickle me. No bad experiences yet. Thank god
 
I am still amazed by the willingness of a person who isn't even really a 'lee agreeing to not only let me restrain her, but for her to let me do it on camera.:happyhop:
I was told by Ivy, from our Haley & Ivy series that I have zero creep factor. Maybe that helps.😈
 
Trust is indeed the most important thing to keep in mind. Total helplessness can end with serious injuries or worse if the person is not trustworthy.
 
Trust? It's definitely in the top ten.

What I find more important than trust is character. Trust can and often is betrayed. Good character tends to shine through any situation.

Another critical component is communication. If there's good communication about what's going to happen, and the participants are of good character, then trust will manifest as a by-product.
 
Yeah, a lady with a ginormous trust fund can make me drink Coke and pee Pepsi.........😉 The ones that still smell faintly like chloroform seem to have tickling rebound issues........ Of course trust is key from both a safety and maximum enjoyment issue, and especially so in switching roles later. *****Hannibal, I said "chianti", why don't you stop???????*******
 
I would hope the person trusts the other before meeting up. Nothin wrong with meeting someone for fun just be safe about it and make sure you trust them somewhat at least
 
DianaBanana88 said:
I would hope the person trusts the other before meeting up. Nothin wrong with meeting someone for fun just be safe about it and make sure you trust them somewhat at least
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This!
You don't wanna end up in a situation where the Dom/Lee person abuse the situation and don't respect what you say/don't want! Then it's not play anymore...then it's assult!
 
Yes for trust.... but I've played with people whom I've never met before. And... well.... I'd be lying if I said that it was mainly complete trust in the people I was playing with. How much can you trust people if you really don't know them.

Sometimes you have to just be intelligent, have discernment, be able to read people- Maybe it is the personality of the people that I connect with. OR knowing that my hostess/host is keeping an eye out and making sure everyone is playing safe. Sometimes knowing your environment and picking the right place to play works.

There are a lot of factors for me. The most important now is whether or not the hubby feels comfortable with who I am playing with.

(Didn't proofread or edit, so if I sound a lil scattered... sorry 🙂 )
 
Cavum said:
This!
You don't wanna end up in a situation where the Dom/Lee person abuse the situation and don't respect what you say/don't want! Then it's not play anymore...then it's assult!
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That would be horrible. It would be assault and just flat out bad. Im sure you go into something like this and expect it to be safe and secure ya dont want anything bad or serious to happen. Safety first lol and trust!:bubble2:
 
Trust & Chemistry. I can't trust anyone I don't have any chemistry with, nor do I have chemistry with everyone I trust. I'd prefer both to be present in terms of having a session.
 
Trust is extremely important for me if I'm going to be restrained. Without it, it won't happen.
 
If you're letting someone "cuff you down or tie you up" & you don't trust that person , then what. The hell. Are you doing?
 
Trust is the core element when sharing a bondage session for tickling or whatever else sparks your flame........
 
Definitely gotta trust a person tying you up. Getting raped, tortured, and/or killed isn't really most peoples' idea of a good time, so yeah, you should probably know the person well and be sure they know what they're doing so you don't break a wrist or something.
 
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