Do you treat people differently if you find out they are not ticklish?

[OBleedingMe]

If she's not ticklish or not willing to be tickled, the interest in a female I am eyeing as a sexual partner drops to zero. If she's unwilling to participate in light bondage/tickling, chances are she'll be even more resistent to BDSM. There's no point in wasting/time energy on a female if I'm not going to be sexually satisfied.

 

[chicago]

On the flip side, as a 'lee, I would find it very hard to have a relationship with someone that wasn't willing to at least explore tickling a bit. It's an important part of me that I need to share with whoever I'm dating. Unless they agreed to let me play with others, which, if they can't bring themselves to try out tickling, probably wouldn't agree to that either.

As far as guy friends, while tickling is fun, I don't talk about this kinda thing with my platonic friends, so it doesn't matter.

 

[DimpleToes]

it does not matter to me... I dont talk of this tickling with my friends... I look at how you treat me.. thatis how I treat you... I have a ton of freinds and tickling or not does not matter to me in a realtionship.. Freinds are there for you to have fun.. hang out and do nothing ,,, be there during hard times.. and you the same for them... tickling is a bonus.
I have made several close freinds here in TMF and meet several in person.. so you never know what your freinds are into... with the wide variety of occupations in here.. it does suprise me,

I am me.. love me or like me those are your options..

HUGSSSS/Lisa

 

[kered]

Blimey, here I am again agreeing with you, second time tonight lol

It shows that you are not only lovely but extremely intellegent.

I see what you mean Viper. Never took you for a person who would throw away even a casual friendship so don't think that. You've proven that you can be friends with anyone. The proof to me is when you went out of your way helping me solve a few little compouter problems. Hey, I still owe you a few drinks for that too!

 

[badreligion]

Truthfully i do a bit but i dont just flat out stop talking to them or what not because truthfully to judge a person based only on the fact that they arnt ticklish is pretty shallow. I judge a girl on a number of t hings being ticklish while is one of the things i judge them on its very low on the list . Bassically i wont just up and ignore her and assume shes a bad person.

 

[KrazieDog]

But most people have friends that they are VERY close to - the kind of friend that you could pin down and tickle or otherwise be very close with (usually of the opposite sex of course) and it wouldn't seem wierd. If I find out that someone is not ticklish or is one of those people, I won't try to make her one of those super close friends.

You know Vip, I don't think Drew was trying to be a dick to you. He's answering the situation. If we're talking strictly as a friend then if that simple a thing could make the difference, are they really THAT super close even if they are? You are choosing to make an emotional investment in a person as a friend, based solely on a physical want of yours. Seems kind of a one sided to me and I personally wouldn't want that kind of person as a friend, so it would be cool of they wanted to shy away.

In a potential relationship partner, then I see where you are coming from. If it's that important to you then yea, I can see how you'd distance yourself from them as not to lead them on.

I'm not judging you Vip, just answering the question from my POV bud.

 

[Brock Samson]

Nah, it's against my nature to do something like that. Friends, real friends and not just aquaintances, are something that a lot of people take for granted, and often times, whether intentional or accidental, they pass up on a golden opportunity to make a true friend. 😎Besides, I'm too cool for all that negativity!😎

 

[bftk2005]

I lose some physical intrest because tickling is the biggest part of my sexual turn on.

 

[Asdfg9]

If they aren't Ticklish

Honestly I'm turned off a girl if I find out shes not ticklish. That sounds really selfish, but it's true.

 

[ZenTickling]

I agree with the last few posters.. I am still attracted to girls who aren't ticklish, but being that it's such a big part of my life, I doubt any serious relationship would develop.