Do you use a tickle safeword?

[thedavecorp1]

Safewords? Not exactly

I use a safeword BUT I give very clear instructions that the tickler is not to stop for at least five minutes after the safeword. I set a maximum time and I'm often pleased when the girl exceeds it and never concerned. She knows never to stop unless I'm out of breath or cramping up.

 

[brad1701]

Yes, absolutely. One never knows, after all.

 

[Wade1]

I use a carefully constructed safeword which is

stopstopleasestopcmonquititNOFAIRcanttakeitpleasenoSTOPIT.

Which my ticklers--which are sometimes romantic partners but are just as often friends or colleagues, and none of whom know what a safeword is, gleefully ignore.

 

[PlutoBum]

yes!!! i dunno how i'd survive without one!!!!!!!!

 

[riker13]

I think it's probably best to have a safeword that pauses but does not stop everything. You can have a set time and pause the timer then resume it. If there is trust then the person can stop if there's an injury of some sort but otherwise there should be no way to get out if it.

 

[_QQQ]

I don't use a safe word, but then again I have yet to be taken to the point where I can no longer form coherent sentences. So if there is a problem I simply tell my ler, that is if I'm not to stubborn to. But I will say something if I need water, catch my breath, etc.
And remember a ler is not some all-knowing-all-seeing tickle monster, but a human. And a lee may/ will/ or has experianced discomfort that the ler will be unaware of, unless the lee mentions it.

 

[JimUltimo]

Safe word would imply planned tickling. People just end up tickling me and I end up tapping out.

 

[tarantus]

I voted no but I would be OK with using one if the lee wanted to use one

 

[darkwolf1]

I don't like to use a safeword, no matter which end i'm on. the rule is that if the person is laughing so hard they start coughing, it's time to stop.

if i'm the ler, i also give breaks regularly to the lee's if they look like they need them.

 

[Ticklish Old Man]

*smirking "I dunno...if I had a SAFE dropped on me, I wouldn't be able to say any WORDS either!" smirks smartassed*

 

[tkl-pen]

As a trained EMT, I am always concerned that we don't trigger a medical emergency in my female ticklee - I like serious tickle torture in tight bondage but no gags or masks - the girl can scream and plead all she wants as part of the fantasy - but I don't want her to suffer breathing or circulation problems, cramps, etc - so the safe word is 'REAL WORLD' to take it out of the fantasy - if I hear that, I stop immediately.

 

[FT Genikit]

I can't decided on one thing for two result. If I'm being tickled, I go until I can't stand it anymore. But if I'm doing the tickling (Even if not feet) then I let them use it whenever thay want to. (Though I'd probably stop before that happens)

 

[Kittamaru1]

I always offer to use a safeword... I think it's good just in case it gets to be too much. There is such a thing as to much of a good thing, though I've never been brought to say it myself 🙂

 

[Cercatore]

No, never.

 

[tkl-pen]

I just put an 18 year old girl named Lacey through her first tickle session - she asked to use 'cinnamon' as a safeword - it was so intense she was sweating in her bonds within five minutes - but she never used that word in the entire hour I tickle tortured her.

 

[TickleKay]

No, never really used one except for once when I had a bad case of bronchitis. It kind of betrays the whole point of tickling and losing control if you still have the control IMO.

 

[TickledToDeath]

No, never really used one except for once when I had a bad case of bronchitis. It kind of betrays the whole point of tickling and losing control if you still have the control IMO.

Exactly.
The ticklee should not have the control and the tickling should be wild, evil and intensely merciless!:ayyy: :laughing:
I like you already!


TTD

 

[TyrantRaveAB]

i just tickle until she starts begging. its cute. but i know she means it when she says shes gonna piss her pants. and... thats bad.

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

I never had the option of a safeword.

 

[3xPIN]

It undermines the purity of tickle torture.

 

[sXeTickleDiva]

With my boyfriends (the ones I've had), I always used a safe word, but I'm currently single with a lee (who is in love with me, not sure why) and well, I never use safe words, she enjoys being tortured, she really, really enjoys it... so I tickle her for hours non-stop without alot of breaks, I maybe give her one, maybe two but that's it.

 

[PixilatedPixel]

When I'm in a relationship, I'm usually a 24/7 sub, not just with regards to tickling... and although safe words are important, so is having a partner that knows your limits, when to push you past them, and when to ease off.

While I'm getting to know a girl we'll maybe use a safe word, but once I get to trust her, and her ability to dominate me... the safe words become meaningless and counter-productive.

 

[melanie2]

i've never been tickled to the point of needing one...sighs..

i'm unbreakable....

 

[AdamN]

I always give my 'lees a "just in case" safeword, even if they tell me they don't need one. One can change their mind quickly once a tickling begins, so it's always good to have one on standby.

 

[AngelOfDarkness]

Nope, I'm a sub, so I don't get one. 😀