Does a man watching f/m tickling make him gay?????

[Wolf]

this is most likely a repeat, but....

I thought wanting to have sex with members or your own gender made you gay.

Did I miss something?

F/M videos, Naked male torsos (eek!) on the TMF Welcome page.... geez.

I'm gonna have to make a list to keep track of all the things that "make" someone gay, nowadays....

 

[soulfulscribe]

I really can't stand threads like this because it brings out the most myopic close-minded behavior from people.

Tickling ain't sex, no matter how many people want to pretend its the same thing. A preference for f/m, f/f, m/f, m/m does not tell much of anything about someone's sexuality. Sexuality is complicated and evolving. A man can be straight and enjoy f/m, m/m or m/f. A woman can be gay and enjoy f/m and m/f. How people enjoy tickling is a totally different thing from who they are attracted to and want to have sex with.

Well said, sir. I concur. (Damn you unintentional rhymes) And speaking as a straight male 'lee, watching f/m just makes me jealous of the male's predicament.

 

[Capnmad]

I was watching a Burger King commercial today and got to thinking, "Mmmm... That looks good about now..." Then I realized what thinking that implied, and now I must come out of the closet and confess to being flame-broiled.



...thank God I had some aloe handy.

 

[soulfulscribe]

I was watching a Burger King commercial today and got to thinking, "Mmmm... That looks good about now..." Then I realized what thinking that implied, and now I must come out of the closet and confess to being flame-broiled.



...thank God I had some aloe handy.

I will never look at the whopper the same way again. Mmm... double with cheese.

 

[Angel77]

I really can't stand threads like this because it brings out the most myopic close-minded behavior from people.

Tickling ain't sex, no matter how many people want to pretend its the same thing. A preference for f/m, f/f, m/f, m/m does not tell much of anything about someone's sexuality. Sexuality is complicated and evolving. A man can be straight and enjoy f/m, m/m or m/f. A woman can be gay and enjoy f/m and m/f. How people enjoy tickling is a totally different thing from who they are attracted to and want to have sex with.

Amen.

 

[Johnny lea]

Personally I can't see anything gay about watching a sexy female ler showing her dominant or playful side. That's the appeal to me in such a scenario anyway.

 

[alchemy]

No, watching F/M vids doesn't make you gay

But using peach scented shampoo will make you walk funny

 

[tummytickler69]

id say it doesnt make you gay, but its not a good sign lol

 

[Merkle'sBoner]

I have been wanting to ask this question for a while and I'm just now getting to it. So what do you guys think? If a man likes to watch other men get tickled by women does that make him gay? What about the other men on this forum? Do you watch F/m tickling? Do you prefer it? Honest genuine answers people. No smart ass stuff please.

Gay? No. It does however turn you into Richard Simmons.

 

[LBFT]

Not Gay

No, it really doesn't. Unless you're already gay. There are men that scoff at those who watch F/M, but if anyone ever says that it makes you gay is an idiot.

Personally, I don't like men in my tickling clips/videos not has the ticklee or tickler. I don't like looking at men at all, it is a turn off for me. But I don't think it makes you gay if you watch F/M or M/F. I agree 100% with CrystalLight, your an idiot if you say it makes you gay if you watch F/M. Ask yourself this, does it make a female a lesbian if she is watching M/F or F/F tickling? My answer is not gay it is all a matter of personal likes and dislikes.


Thank you,
LBFT

 

[Artoo]

id say it doesnt make you gay, but its not a good sign lol

What's it not a good sign of?

 

[ticklemepls]

Personally, I don't like men in my tickling clips/videos not has the ticklee or tickler. I don't like looking at men at all, it is a turn off for me. But I don't think it makes you gay if you watch F/M or M/F. I agree 100% with CrystalLight, your an idiot if you say it makes you gay if you watch F/M. Ask yourself this, does it make a female a lesbian if she is watching M/F or F/F tickling? My answer is not gay it is all a matter of personal likes and dislikes.


Thank you,
LBFT

^ what they said...

being gay is being sexually attracted to the same gender... just watching a tickle clip with a guy in it doesnt make you gay.

 

[Barney Stubble]

I'm going to proceed under the assumption that the OP was poorly worded and the question that was meant to be asked was, "Is a guy's preference for f/m tickling clips an indication of homosexuality?" as I'm sure few believe that watching any clip suddenly transforms a heterosexual into a homosexual.

I would say definitely not. As many have said, any f/m activity is heterosexual by definition, but it's more than that. Many incorrectly assume that having a tickle fetish means wanting to see someone of their gender-preference tickled. They assume that hetero guys want to see girls tickled, and they assume gay guys want to see guys tickled. And that does seem to describe the majority of tickle fetishists.

But what about the tickler? Some tickle fetish people are as interested in the tickler as they are in the ticklee. Some are interested exclusively in the tickler and don't care about the ticklee's gender.

So it happens that there are many heterosexual guys into f/m. It's not that they like seeing guys tickled. They like seeing women in the tickling driver's seat.

Now if a guy gets off on m/m, that's pretty tough to defend as heterosexual.

 

[rhiannon]

I think some people are mixing up a guy being submissive with being gay....just because you like to be sub, you're not gay, that's ridiculous!

 

[MaleTickleeDC]

I've been reading tickling sites since around 1997, when I began college and was able to search for tickling online without worrying about parents walking in on me or finding the query in my search history. Back then, there were tons of people who accused male lees of being gay. This was back when "gay" was still considered an insult by lots of people. I am more of a lurker so I didn't get bashed, but as a straight male lee, I always thought this idea was nonsense.

Male lees like the idea of males being tickled by females. Personally, I usually picture myself as the guy when I watch an F/M clip. The thing that does it for us is the female being in the dominant position. I like F/F as well for that reason.

A lot of the guys who are into tickling like to see females in the submissive position. They have a hard time processing the notion of a dominant female and a submissive male. That's fine; I have almost no interest in M/F stuff. To each his or her own. But the guys who become hostile when F/M comes up are really displaying poor form. They are clearly very uncomfortable with the F/M scenario and are taking it out on everyone else. If you don't like F/M, don't watch it. But don't beat up on those who do simply because it scares you to even imagine that somewhere, somehow, a man is at the mercy of a female tickler (gasp!).

 

[Sandisk444]

I like the idea of a guy being tickled by a girl but i can't watch the clips, i dunno why. But it doesn't make you gay for watching it. If you were sexually attracted to the man being tickled then you might be gay but not for watching the clip.

 

[baldadonis]

I think some people are mixing up a guy being submissive with being gay....just because you like to be sub, you're not gay, that's ridiculous!

totally agree.

I think I've already commented on this somewhere way back in the day LOL.

But I watch f/m ALL the time because I fricking love being tortured and tickled by women.

A: I know for a fact I'm straight.
B: I know that being a lee for women doesn't make me question my manliness either.
C: I'm not a homophobic either.

Nobody will ever convince me otherwise....nuff said.

Excellent reasoning and good rules to follow to be popular with the ladies at gatherings.

 

[Jagermeistered]

I would be very jealous, and want too punch the guy in the face.

Just kidding!

Not my number one pick for a clip, but I like reading F/M stories... And, just imagine...

 

[OneHitWonder]

No, it doesn't mean he's gay (not that there's anything wrong with being gay!) any more than watching porn with the girl on top means he's gay. What it means is that you like watching guys being tickled by women!

Check out this poll where I've teased out five dimensions of sexuality and tickling that mix in any number of ways; sexual preference is just one of those dimensions that can be mixed with the others. Your question shows yet another dimension in tickling--I just have 'ler, 'lee, and switch, but other dimensions of preference can be what you raised: F/m, M/f, F/f, M/m, etc. which can have a sexual dimension or not depending on the person or occasion.

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=159373

Personally I prefer F/f tickling, but I'm not against other combos. Watching women tickle men appeals to my 'lee side because I can put myself in his shoes and imagine being tickled by her!

Me Too!!!

 

[BellybTickler]

I'm turned on by watching F/M, mainly because I can visualize myself in being in the position of the male, which is a massive turn on for me as it is. I wouldn't say it is so much that it is a male, but that it's our ability as submissives to identify with the male that is what is arousing.

 

[tacoman]

It certainly does not mean ur gay. In fact, when I watch clips of f/m tickling, I wish I wish I was the one being tickled. Being gay is a choice. I have friends that watch m/m tickling and they r straight. It's just ridiculous to assume that because u watch f/m tickling that ur gay.

 

[WorkInProgress]

I think individuals can figure out for themselves whether they're gay or not. So, if you ask the question because you wonder whether you yourself are gay, then the answer is, you are if you say you are, you're not if you say you're not. If you ask the question because you wonder if some friend of yours is gay, the answer is, he is if he says he is, he's not if he says he's not. What kind of video one likes to watch tells you nothing.

 

[smokinj]

I think guys tickling guys is completely disgusting and literally makes me sick to my stomach. Yuck. To each his own but its not for me.

 

[Wolf]

So...

I think guys tickling guys is completely disgusting and literally makes me sick to my stomach. Yuck. To each his own but its not for me.

Anybody who's taken a first-year Psych course (or read a damn book) is laughing their asses off right now.

 

[smokinj]

Anybody who's taken a first-year Psych course (or read a damn book) is laughing their asses off right now.

So what? Girls tickling guys is ok, I just don't want to see guys tickling guys. Grow up.