Does anybody really meet people for sessions in the personals section, has anybody had luck on any sites? If so which ones, and how did it come about. I am beginning to think there are no women out in the world that are truly into it.
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does anybody really?
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I feel like people expect their perfect lee or ler to just land in their lap one day out of nowhere.
Truth is, in my near 13 years in the community, I've never heard of anyone having any luck with the personals section. Chatroom has been pretty shitty too in the last 5-7 years. Living in Chicago, literally one of the biggest cities in the US, there was no one locally aside from a few couples, who only played with themselves, bunch of older creepy dudes, and a lot of people not willing to meet at all.
I hear a lot of complaints about setting shit up for one on one meetups, even in public places. It seems there are just a ton of flakes. Lots of people wanting to talk and fantasize about meeting up, but few who actually follow through.
Obviously, the men outnumber the women on sites like this. Just a fact of life. Most women aren't going to realize they have a fetish, let alone explore it or register and become active on a fetish site. When they do, there's a lot of shit they have to deal with in terms of harassment and so on. Many get chased off. I have a feeling that is starting to change. I'm hopeful.
I've had the best luck going to gatherings, meeting a ton of people at once, having no expectations aside from getting to know like-minded individuals. I had to get out of my comfort zone and my neighborhood and actually travel. Lead to a ton of friendships with lots of great folk and even some romantic relationships as well. And the more people you become friends with, can help when meeting others as well because they can vet for you. Let you know if a person is legit and not shady.
Also, I had great luck just being open and unashamed about it with vanilla folk. It's 2015 and there are multiple songs on the radio about eating ass. Tickling is really not as big a deal as some of us tend to make it out to be.
Of course, travel, meeting people, being open about it to vanillas, none of it is necessarily easy, but it gets easier the more you try and to be honest, nothing worthwhile ever comes easy.
Good luck to you.
Truth is, in my near 13 years in the community, I've never heard of anyone having any luck with the personals section. Chatroom has been pretty shitty too in the last 5-7 years. Living in Chicago, literally one of the biggest cities in the US, there was no one locally aside from a few couples, who only played with themselves, bunch of older creepy dudes, and a lot of people not willing to meet at all.
I hear a lot of complaints about setting shit up for one on one meetups, even in public places. It seems there are just a ton of flakes. Lots of people wanting to talk and fantasize about meeting up, but few who actually follow through.
Obviously, the men outnumber the women on sites like this. Just a fact of life. Most women aren't going to realize they have a fetish, let alone explore it or register and become active on a fetish site. When they do, there's a lot of shit they have to deal with in terms of harassment and so on. Many get chased off. I have a feeling that is starting to change. I'm hopeful.
I've had the best luck going to gatherings, meeting a ton of people at once, having no expectations aside from getting to know like-minded individuals. I had to get out of my comfort zone and my neighborhood and actually travel. Lead to a ton of friendships with lots of great folk and even some romantic relationships as well. And the more people you become friends with, can help when meeting others as well because they can vet for you. Let you know if a person is legit and not shady.
Also, I had great luck just being open and unashamed about it with vanilla folk. It's 2015 and there are multiple songs on the radio about eating ass. Tickling is really not as big a deal as some of us tend to make it out to be.
Of course, travel, meeting people, being open about it to vanillas, none of it is necessarily easy, but it gets easier the more you try and to be honest, nothing worthwhile ever comes easy.
Good luck to you.
wolfman40
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I've met and played with a lady through fetlife & a lady through TMF.
I try and get to munches as often as I can, more to make friends more than anything else.
There is a lot of downtime in the particular kink.
I wish you all the best.
I try and get to munches as often as I can, more to make friends more than anything else.
There is a lot of downtime in the particular kink.
I wish you all the best.
moochtickler
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Hi Chicago, moochtickler ,here, hang in there kiddo, good things come to those who wait, so they say keep up the hope. Talk to you in the chat room, the care and have a cool yule. Jeramiah a.k.a moochtickler
DarthGrinn
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I am mostly on here just to interact with like-minded people. This community was a huge part of me realizing that tickling/foot fetish didn't solely exist within the confines of my own mind.
For IRL interactions, I just go IRL lol.
I've only tried the online-to-irl transition a couple of times (on other social networks/communities), and realized it wasn't for me.
For IRL interactions, I just go IRL lol.
I've only tried the online-to-irl transition a couple of times (on other social networks/communities), and realized it wasn't for me.
