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Does fake laughing work?

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I’ve heard a time or two that people can become more ticklish if they force their laughter.

As someone that isn’t really ticklish, I’m curious if anyone has experience with this theory.

Have you ever tried to make yourself more vulnerable by faking/forcing your laughter? Has it ever worked to “trick” your brain and increase your ticklishness?
 
There's a lot of pieces that come together to make someone experience tickling, ticklishness, and laughter from it, but for simplicity, let's break it down into two parts: The sensory nerves throughout the body, and the brain. The nerves are more of the input mechanism that detect the touch information and relay it to the brain for processing. If there is any number of things "wrong" with the nerves, they won't be able to relay the spectrum of signal the brain needs to interpret it as tickling. On the other hand, if they are fine, and I suspect for most non-ticklish people, this is the case, it's all about how the brain processes the information gathered from the nerves.

In research, it has been observed that laughter that is generated by perceiving something as humorous stimulates the same part of the brain that fires when we are tickled. I have observed in myself so many times that when I find something funny and I start laughing, I am so much more ticklish. My wife discovered this early in our relationship and loves to exploit it, so I've had many, many opportunities to experience the difference first hand. Now, I suspect, but don't know, that forced laughter may slightly stimulate the brain in the same way, though probably inefficiently. You'd probably do better to practice it alongside watching or listening to content that you find funny enough to make you laugh.

A suspiscion I've had for a while is that the reason many (not all) people with anxiety and depression aren't as ticklish, when they otherwise had been, is for the same reasons they have a harder time finding humor in things or laughing in general while in that state of mind. I'm sure biochemically, the threshold for stimulating that part of the brain is higher, and probably even higher still for those with chronic conditions. Note that there is quite a bit of speculation on my part here and I'm not a tickle scientist, despite what my wife would have you believe lol.
 
I have chatted with a fair number of ppl who suffer from depression and anxiety and they have told me that when tickled it helps bring them 'up'
(probably the adrenaline rush). and then helps them stay in a better mood for awhile...the 'endorphin bath' after the more vigorous tickling is over..and vigorous doesnt have to mean extreme or 'torturous' levels from what they say...just concentrated tickling (sometimes gentle, sometimes. harder) that seems to refocus their mind and brain on better mood and relaxation afterwards.. Which is why I think we should consider actual tickle therapy clinics of spas since not everyone has a willing tickle play partner at their disposal to visit once every so often (some have said weekly, some less frequently)..I believe there is at least one in Florida ...Tickle Bliss or something like that...
but I have chatted w Lee's who crave the relaxation/satisfaction that regular tickle sessions could provide...but the problems are time and location (some are not even in the U.S. )...or are half a continent away.
just food for thought
 
I have chatted with a fair number of ppl who suffer from depression and anxiety and they have told me that when tickled it helps bring them 'up'
(probably the adrenaline rush). and then helps them stay in a better mood for awhile...the 'endorphin bath' after the more vigorous tickling is over..and vigorous doesnt have to mean extreme or 'torturous' levels from what they say...just concentrated tickling (sometimes gentle, sometimes. harder) that seems to refocus their mind and brain on better mood and relaxation afterwards.. Which is why I think we should consider actual tickle therapy clinics of spas since not everyone has a willing tickle play partner at their disposal to visit once every so often (some have said weekly, some less frequently)..I believe there is at least one in Florida ...Tickle Bliss or something like that...
but I have chatted w Lee's who crave the relaxation/satisfaction that regular tickle sessions could provide...but the problems are time and location (some are not even in the U.S. )...or are half a continent away.
just food for thought
Couldn’t agree more. I often wonder why these haven’t caught on considering tactile stimulation is often a core need.
 
Couldn’t agree more. I often wonder why these haven’t caught on considering tactile stimulation is often a core need.
It IS a core need, especially in today's society, where we seem to force detachment, and not just by 'device use' ... Now you can barely offer to assist a woman (who obviously needs help with loading their trunk with heavy groceries). without being treated as a potential threat...and unfortunately, I understand their position. So I offer and if they refuse, I nicely exit and go on my way.

As to why touch therapy in the form of tickling spas is not more common?

Well a variety of reasons...all understandable....

Many would say, if you need touch therapy, just get a massage. And yes that may provide enough for many ppl. But some ppl need / want more. They may not want a 'bondage tickle scene' every week or two...But the intricate parts of our brains and tickle fixation may mean some want to feel the tickling sensations with the advanced endorphin and other biochemical relief that it provides...a giving up of their control or need for decisions...
Whatever the mental case may be...

But the one primary reason? The tickling fixation is not a 'mainstream' fixation. I and others that are in the ' tickling fixation ' camp describe tickling as a fixation (instead of fetish or kink) because some of us believe that the pure joy of tickling does NOT have to involve sex / sexual content in any way. For some ppl that may be true, but not all, and certainly it is not an automatic integration! Can tickling be incorporated into foreplay and sexual behaviors? Yes, and not denying that at all...even for me personally...but I've done tickling with girls that was not sexual in intent or nature or in any way. Tickling can be an incredible enjoyable interaction that is actually 'asexual' , just a fun interaction btw Ler and Lee that is all about the fun power exchange and responses without any sexual intent at all! That is a fact that is lost on most public boards. Tickling gets wrapped up into the BDSM scene and in some ppl's minds (especially the general public) is just an extension of that genre... Oh you like tickling, or tickling with bondage? Then you must be into tickling WITH sex!
The two do not have to be related! We can compartmentalize and separate the three situations. But societal culture does not alway show or know those facts! And on most boards, 'pure' tickling gets absorbed into the tickling with sex scenarios, to the detriment to us 'purists' !

So I can imagine that setting up a spa or clinic for tickle therapy, touch therapy etc would be an interesting endeavor in most locales bec they would assume it was simply an extension of a 'escort service with added attractions' or overt prostitution....bec you could say what it was all about, but many would simply hang on the idea that massage or touch therapy is ripe for abuse and under the table sex acts (or on the table) if I may be so humorous.

But it could be accomplished with the proper management and attitudes of the Ler's involved. But then you'd need to have an idea of countering the fetishist who pays for touch therapy but wants more, especially once in the establishment. How to handle without a third party observer/security person..... I dont know.

I just know that I've encountered many ppl online over various boards TMF, Tumblr, DeviantArt, etc who have expressed a lot of angst about their desire for simple, stress relieving tickling sessions, sometimes quite frequently ( ie weekly). I would gladly be their platonic tickle play partners, but time and distance has always been an issue for personal attention to those willing and wanting Lee's needs. Also, it seems that so many actually do want more regular tickling sessions for stress relief and mental health stability. Then I found out about this one therapy place in Florida and I started wondering why tickling and tickle touch therapy couldn't be more mainstream.
 
I can't see absolute faking working. Maybe upscaling some natural reaction, but it always seems pretty obvious when it really isn't working.
 
I can't see absolute faking working. Maybe upscaling some natural reaction, but it always seems pretty obvious when it really isn't working.
I think you’re probably right. If anything, I was curious to know if anyone had experienced a psychological breakthrough in this regard, particularly if they aren’t very ticklish.
 
It IS a core need, especially in today's society, where we seem to force detachment, and not just by 'device use' ... Now you can barely offer to assist a woman (who obviously needs help with loading their trunk with heavy groceries). without being treated as a potential threat...and unfortunately, I understand their position. So I offer and if they refuse, I nicely exit and go on my way.

As to why touch therapy in the form of tickling spas is not more common?

Well a variety of reasons...all understandable....

Many would say, if you need touch therapy, just get a massage. And yes that may provide enough for many ppl. But some ppl need / want more. They may not want a 'bondage tickle scene' every week or two...But the intricate parts of our brains and tickle fixation may mean some want to feel the tickling sensations with the advanced endorphin and other biochemical relief that it provides...a giving up of their control or need for decisions...
Whatever the mental case may be...

But the one primary reason? The tickling fixation is not a 'mainstream' fixation. I and others that are in the ' tickling fixation ' camp describe tickling as a fixation (instead of fetish or kink) because some of us believe that the pure joy of tickling does NOT have to involve sex / sexual content in any way. For some ppl that may be true, but not all, and certainly it is not an automatic integration! Can tickling be incorporated into foreplay and sexual behaviors? Yes, and not denying that at all...even for me personally...but I've done tickling with girls that was not sexual in intent or nature or in any way. Tickling can be an incredible enjoyable interaction that is actually 'asexual' , just a fun interaction btw Ler and Lee that is all about the fun power exchange and responses without any sexual intent at all! That is a fact that is lost on most public boards. Tickling gets wrapped up into the BDSM scene and in some ppl's minds (especially the general public) is just an extension of that genre... Oh you like tickling, or tickling with bondage? Then you must be into tickling WITH sex!
The two do not have to be related! We can compartmentalize and separate the three situations. But societal culture does not alway show or know those facts! And on most boards, 'pure' tickling gets absorbed into the tickling with sex scenarios, to the detriment to us 'purists' !

So I can imagine that setting up a spa or clinic for tickle therapy, touch therapy etc would be an interesting endeavor in most locales bec they would assume it was simply an extension of a 'escort service with added attractions' or overt prostitution....bec you could say what it was all about, but many would simply hang on the idea that massage or touch therapy is ripe for abuse and under the table sex acts (or on the table) if I may be so humorous.

But it could be accomplished with the proper management and attitudes of the Ler's involved. But then you'd need to have an idea of countering the fetishist who pays for touch therapy but wants more, especially once in the establishment. How to handle without a third party observer/security person..... I dont know.

I just know that I've encountered many ppl online over various boards TMF, Tumblr, DeviantArt, etc who have expressed a lot of angst about their desire for simple, stress relieving tickling sessions, sometimes quite frequently ( ie weekly). I would gladly be their platonic tickle play partners, but time and distance has always been an issue for personal attention to those willing and wanting Lee's needs. Also, it seems that so many actually do want more regular tickling sessions for stress relief and mental health stability. Then I found out about this one therapy place in Florida and I started wondering why tickling and tickle touch therapy couldn't be more mainstream.
I agree–This is well said!

How people feel about tickling within our community is a spectrum that spans all over the place. For people outside, at a minimum it's viewed as playful, yet somewhat uncomfortable behavior best left to children, and on the more extreme end, something creepy that surely only pediphiles or sex offenders would engage in. Right or wrong, in several cultures, touch often or always comes with skepticism for the motive (and perhaps justifiably). Still in many circles, getting a massage can result in some raised eyebrows, let alone paying for someone to tickle you.

I can personally separate the sexual and non-sexual components of tickling circumstantially, but there are several that can't, and I suspect that would taint the general perception of such places over time, but I don't know.

This is also just for me personally, but something is lost in translation with tickling going from solely a shared interpersonal experience to a transactional service-based one. The sensation aspect is definitely super important to me (it wouldn't be tickling without it!), but there's something about the relational half of it that is equally important. I sometimes wonder how many others feel this way, or if that's more rare. Anyway, I'll not go into that more here, or we'll go too far off topic.
 
It IS a core need, especially in today's society, where we seem to force detachment, and not just by 'device use' ... Now you can barely offer to assist a woman (who obviously needs help with loading their trunk with heavy groceries). without being treated as a potential threat...and unfortunately, I understand their position. So I offer and if they refuse, I nicely exit and go on my way.

As to why touch therapy in the form of tickling spas is not more common?

Well a variety of reasons...all understandable....

Many would say, if you need touch therapy, just get a massage. And yes that may provide enough for many ppl. But some ppl need / want more. They may not want a 'bondage tickle scene' every week or two...But the intricate parts of our brains and tickle fixation may mean some want to feel the tickling sensations with the advanced endorphin and other biochemical relief that it provides...a giving up of their control or need for decisions...
Whatever the mental case may be...

But the one primary reason? The tickling fixation is not a 'mainstream' fixation. I and others that are in the ' tickling fixation ' camp describe tickling as a fixation (instead of fetish or kink) because some of us believe that the pure joy of tickling does NOT have to involve sex / sexual content in any way. For some ppl that may be true, but not all, and certainly it is not an automatic integration! Can tickling be incorporated into foreplay and sexual behaviors? Yes, and not denying that at all...even for me personally...but I've done tickling with girls that was not sexual in intent or nature or in any way. Tickling can be an incredible enjoyable interaction that is actually 'asexual' , just a fun interaction btw Ler and Lee that is all about the fun power exchange and responses without any sexual intent at all! That is a fact that is lost on most public boards. Tickling gets wrapped up into the BDSM scene and in some ppl's minds (especially the general public) is just an extension of that genre... Oh you like tickling, or tickling with bondage? Then you must be into tickling WITH sex!
The two do not have to be related! We can compartmentalize and separate the three situations. But societal culture does not alway show or know those facts! And on most boards, 'pure' tickling gets absorbed into the tickling with sex scenarios, to the detriment to us 'purists' !

So I can imagine that setting up a spa or clinic for tickle therapy, touch therapy etc would be an interesting endeavor in most locales bec they would assume it was simply an extension of a 'escort service with added attractions' or overt prostitution....bec you could say what it was all about, but many would simply hang on the idea that massage or touch therapy is ripe for abuse and under the table sex acts (or on the table) if I may be so humorous.

But it could be accomplished with the proper management and attitudes of the Ler's involved. But then you'd need to have an idea of countering the fetishist who pays for touch therapy but wants more, especially once in the establishment. How to handle without a third party observer/security person..... I dont know.

I just know that I've encountered many ppl online over various boards TMF, Tumblr, DeviantArt, etc who have expressed a lot of angst about their desire for simple, stress relieving tickling sessions, sometimes quite frequently ( ie weekly). I would gladly be their platonic tickle play partners, but time and distance has always been an issue for personal attention to those willing and wanting Lee's needs. Also, it seems that so many actually do want more regular tickling sessions for stress relief and mental health stability. Then I found out about this one therapy place in Florida and I started wondering why tickling and tickle touch therapy couldn't be more mainstream.
I agree with a lot of what you’ve said here. Tickling with my partner has always been very intimate, and some of that is because she doesn’t share the same level of interest or fixation that I do.

For me, I enjoy erotic tickling, because I’m not ticklish person by nature, but that heightens the senses a bit. That being said, I love the nature of playful tickling. I love the interaction of two people genuinely having a session and a moment together. It’s very special, and not often captured in the videos that are more broadly made.

I think one of my favorite studios was Tickle Therapy. In both concept and execution, they had excellent ticklers, and their concentration seemed to be centered around the act of tickling itself. Truly a terrific studio in my opinion.
 
I agree–This is well said!

How people feel about tickling within our community is a spectrum that spans all over the place. For people outside, at a minimum it's viewed as playful, yet somewhat uncomfortable behavior best left to children, and on the more extreme end, something creepy that surely only pediphiles or sex offenders would engage in. Right or wrong, in several cultures, touch often or always comes with skepticism for the motive (and perhaps justifiably). Still in many circles, getting a massage can result in some raised eyebrows, let alone paying for someone to tickle you.

I can personally separate the sexual and non-sexual components of tickling circumstantially, but there are several that can't, and I suspect that would taint the general perception of such places over time, but I don't know.

This is also just for me personally, but something is lost in translation with tickling going from solely a shared interpersonal experience to a transactional service-based one. The sensation aspect is definitely super important to me (it wouldn't be tickling without it!), but there's something about the relational half of it that is equally important. I sometimes wonder how many others feel this way, or if that's more rare. Anyway, I'll not go into that more here, or we'll go too far off topic.
It’s an interesting question you pose. In my experience, the relationship is paramount. As a lee, having that trust in your tickler is a big component of why it’s an enjoyable experience.

In general, I enjoy being tickled, so a light touch on any tickle spot is soothing and helps my anxiety. For this same reason, I do wonder how many people would benefit from tickle sessions. Not necessarily torturous tickling, but friendly intentional tickling with the aim of elevating one’s mood, eliminating anxiety, stress relief, and knocking down inhibitions.

I believe that to be the most rewarding aspect of what tickling can do. It would be great for people to experience that concentration of tickling in a safe and caring way.

As an aside, I know the above description is not what you would find in a typical video, but I do wish there was more media related to the positive gentle side of what tickling can achieve.
 
It’s an interesting question you pose. In my experience, the relationship is paramount. As a lee, having that trust in your tickler is a big component of why it’s an enjoyable experience.

In general, I enjoy being tickled, so a light touch on any tickle spot is soothing and helps my anxiety. For this same reason, I do wonder how many people would benefit from tickle sessions. Not necessarily torturous tickling, but friendly intentional tickling with the aim of elevating one’s mood, eliminating anxiety, stress relief, and knocking down inhibitions.

I believe that to be the most rewarding aspect of what tickling can do. It would be great for people to experience that concentration of tickling in a safe and caring way.

As an aside, I know the above description is not what you would find in a typical video, but I do wish there was more media related to the positive gentle side of what tickling can achieve.
There are other avenues for viewing videos ie Tumblr that have a range of videos...some intense, but some playful bec they are between partners in which the tickling may even be intense but its between two ppl with a. relationship. That is the best scenario. the spa idea is just an answer to ppl who can't find a willing tickle play partner and still want the benefits of tickling (endorphin release, mood elevation, etc).
also as an aside, there are prob very few production studios that offer the content with the relationship aspect.. I dont know how much content on tumbler is from production companies but there are still quite a few 'private' vids between playful consenting partners/friends to illustrate the aspect yu mention.
 
I agree–This is well said!

How people feel about tickling within our community is a spectrum that spans all over the place. For people outside, at a minimum it's viewed as playful, yet somewhat uncomfortable behavior best left to children, and on the more extreme end, something creepy that surely only pediphiles or sex offenders would engage in. Right or wrong, in several cultures, touch often or always comes with skepticism for the motive (and perhaps justifiably). Still in many circles, getting a massage can result in some raised eyebrows, let alone paying for someone to tickle you.

I can personally separate the sexual and non-sexual components of tickling circumstantially, but there are several that can't, and I suspect that would taint the general perception of such places over time, but I don't know.

This is also just for me personally, but something is lost in translation with tickling going from solely a shared interpersonal experience to a transactional service-based one. The sensation aspect is definitely super important to me (it wouldn't be tickling without it!), but there's something about the relational half of it that is equally important. I sometimes wonder how many others feel this way, or if that's more rare. Anyway, I'll not go into that more here, or we'll go too far off topic.
yes I can separate the two as well but in an ideal situation, a relational tickling partnership is the best. But many ppl want or need the tickling for the other benefits, and have to accept the touch therapy without the psychological aspects of a relationship. we all tend to find what soothes our souls.
 
Have you seen or experienced that with anyone? I originally asked because I’m not ticklish, but I have a very hard time letting myself go.
Yes even on myself. There is too much psychology involved in tickling, it's similar to hypnotism, you need to ease your mind into it.
 
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