Does reality match the fantasy?

[guysmiley]

The old thought that reality never lives up to the fantasy has always made me wonder...

As someone who has not had a true tickling session/relationship, I'm curious if I'm setting myself up for failure?

I'm interested to know from those who have had an experience if it lived up to what you had imagined? Was there something you would have done differently? Any regrets?

 

[jonny86]

Depends on how outrageous your fantasy is 🙂

 

[Marquis De Sade]

In reality, we BOTH orgasm.

 

[stockytickler]

It completely did for me ... did and moreso. Before my first session I worried if I'd be too ticklish and couldn't take it, or if I wouldn't be ticklish enough, or if I'd try to tickle someone and it just wouldn't register (tickle fail). I guess in my wildest dreams I never thought I'd find someone so beautiful who was into me, and into tickling, and that they'd be so damn good at it and that I could still completely take it and only ever want more. Or that I'd be as completely turned on by it as I'd hoped to be, and so is he.

Yeah, it seems the girl version of this otherwise incredible person doesn't seem to exist (no one who ever reciprocated anything resembling interest in me, anyway) but I'm bi, so that's a bigger problem for my parents than it ever will be for me. 😛

Tickle sessions can be intense, amazing and completely out of this world. I know this because I have experienced it. All the very best of luck to you 🙂

 

[JoePTickle]

Yes, it was a professional session and at least as good as what I'd hoped for. She was an experienced tickler and wrestler, though I wasn't looking for wrestling per se... and she was ticklish too. We traded several e-mails before the session, so knew what was coming. Like jonny said though, it depends on what your fantasy is. In my case, she had another wrestling/tickling model there too, and I'd always wondered what it would be like to be a 2-on-1 lee. And soon, to be a 3-on-1 lee.

 

[Coda]

Fantasy only relies on one really thoughtful and passionate person and no external stimuli, so it's very much easier to attain at a high-quality level than reality.

 

[Crazy Wabbit]

The old thought that reality never lives up to the fantasy has always made me wonder...

As someone who has not had a true tickling session/relationship, I'm curious if I'm setting myself up for failure?

Why do you ask? Do you have any doubts? Keep in mind like any other fetish, it's not for everybody.

I'm interested to know from those who have had an experience if it lived up to what you had imagined?

The first 2 or 3 times, it was every bit of the fantasy. After that, you pretty much know what to expect. However, I was only 14 years old at the time, so you have to consider that when you become an adult, we have already been desensitized some through both experience and age.

Was there something you would have done differently?

Yes. Tickle the three teachers who tickled me. One mummified me in a wrestling mat as if I was some burrito, removed my shoes, and tickled my feet. The other two did their dirty work when I tried to climb this steel pole on this structure and when you get to the top, you're supposed to ring the bell. One of them, I had the courage to get my revenge. She slipped off her flip flops and took a nap on the bench. She woke up about when I was half way there to get my revenge. My heart started racing and never attempted it again.

The other one did the same thing to me. I never had the opportunity to get her back at school. However, we did have a field trip and we had a picnic. Her and her teacher friend ended up falling asleep on a beach towel. I just wished I had a friend back then to help me since I didn't have the courage to do it on my own. I would've told him, you get one foot and it'll get the other. That way, each of us can just concentrate all of our energy on just one area and it'll be just that much more intense on her. Unfortunately, I didn't have that friend (or a few more to get her other friend) and I didn't have the courage to go alone. :-(

Any regrets?[/QUOTE]

Yes. I wish I would not have been as shy as I was back then. Or came out of my shell sooner. I had about 4 girls who wanted me as a boyfriend without even trying. I sometimes wonder if I had been more assertive, how many more would have been interested.

 

[GEORGIATKLER]

I'll take a virtual Viagra and get back to you on that....... As has been said, it depends on the extent of the fantasy and the level of consentual tickling in reality. As in any successful relationship, it has to be about meeting the other person's needs and desires and not just your own, unless a one night stand is considered da bomb. In a secondhand furniture store it certainly is!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I think that no matter how outrageous or tame your fantasy is, it's probably going to take several sessions with someone who you really click with before it gets really good. The more they learn about your body and the more you learn about how their mind works so you know how to communicate exactly what you want, the better it'll be. But that kind of stuff usually takes time, so don't be disappointed if the first time out isn't everything you imagined. If you're both into it, chances are it'll work it's way up.

 

[c7_assassin]

It depends how you're judging things. It's never going to look or feel exactly like it does in a video or a piece of wank fiction; that's why it's called fantasy.

On the other hand, I'd take a bad time with a warm, writhing woman before a good piece of porn any day. It's like sex; only a deviant prefers the solo version.

 

[Mane'o]

Fantasy about tickling is wonderful but tickling reality is also wonderful, just different from fantasy. In a fantasy the other person behaves just the way you want. In reality the other person acts and reacts on her or his own and you have to respond to that not to your fantasy. If you focus on the other person I've found the reality far exceeds the fantasy.

 

[voided9]

With the right lee, the reality can easily be just as good as the fantasy. It has for me, anyways. But like others said, it also depends on your fantasy.

 

[P[a]pi]

Reality can definately be satisifying, but you may have to work at it. As in your first session in real life might not be your best, just like with sex.

 

[SadCuzNotTcklsh]

I my fantasies I am actually ticklish. So I guess it doesn't match up for me...

 

[Bohemianne]

In reality, we BOTH orgasm.

LOL!

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This is my take on it. I transmute them into art.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

You bet it does!

 

[Kittycupcake]

I imagined tickling to be horrible and all kinds of icky, so in reality it's waaaaaaay better than I ever thought 🙂

 

[guysmiley]

I imagined tickling to be horrible and all kinds of icky, so in reality it's waaaaaaay better than I ever thought 🙂

LOL!

In response to some of the earlier posts, I wasn't talking about a specific fantasy. Just the overall what you imagine it will be like vs the actual experience. Judging by what everyone is saying, it sounds like it can be everything and more with the right partner.

 

[alex]

A great question.

>if it lived up to what you had imagined?

Yes. At least.

>Was there something you would have done differently?

No. The key is to know exactly what you want and to let them know before it starts.

>Any regrets?

That it couldn't last forever.