"Eew, feet are gross!!"

[Rectangle]

There's a huge difference between saying, "feet are gross" and saying, "foot fetishists are gross"
You're putting an awful lot of backstory into someone's simple declaration that they don't find a body part attractive (or perhaps, just theirs).
Why does it have to be so binary? People seem to think that if others aren't into whatever they're into, with the exact same parameters and intensity, they're vanillas?

 

[milagros317]

Just say "sure they are, so am I, can't you see we belong together?" 😀

But really, cut them loose. You don't have time for that shit.

Exactly. Life is too short to spend time with women who think that my erotic interests are gross and disgusting.