DEAR SIRS AND LADIES,
Let me give you all some advice on something. I am a law enforcement type professional guy. Accordingly I own (and am expected to own) handcuffs. Here is my NEVER FAIL "bondage investive interview technique".
STEP ONE) Pick your significant other up in your car. Have sitting in the passenger seat, a pair of handcuffs. Your significant other will have to pick them up before they sit down.
STEP TWO) Watch what they do with them. If they just toss them aside, they are not willing to play pirates with you. If they proceed to play with them by pressing the slide into the locking mechanism over and over, they are in a possition to be talked into anything. At that moment they are imagining wearing them, or you wearing them.
STEP C) Listen. Because it is quite possible that all the kinkiess they possess in the back of their minds is about to come out.
I have never had a girl play with my handcuffs in my car and not had her wearing them that night, or the next date. Remember, I am supposed to have them there. If you are not, have a good excuse, and then proceed with the steps.
I'm going back to drinking now.