ever told your family/friends you like tickling?

[ticklishLaugh]

For all the members on this site What do your friends/family members think of your love for tickling?


For me personaly my friends find out that i like tickling cuz i keep my tickling clips in plain day in my Morpheus music server on my computer ''desktop''. But i think that they think im kinda werid! but all though i havent really asked them but if i asked them do you think im werid cuz i like tickling? im sure thatd say yes. And as for my family they dont know what so ever. Im a little nevrous of telling them. But heck id rather like tickling then some other sick things on the internet you can get yourself into theses days like ***porn*** to me thats just yuck😛 well bye~

 

[Ovda]

I've told my best friend. I remember that night. I was so nervous as to how he was going to take it or not. I agonized over that decsion to the point that I thought I was going to throw up. He is the only person who I talk to, besides online, about my tickle fetish.

 

[tklr5150]

I've told a couple of people, just because I've needed to discuss certain matters with them that directly link to knowing about it. Oddly the only ones I've told thus have been girls, including my best friend; not that I don't feel comfortable spilling to my other best friend, it's just something that I don't think he really cares to know about me. I've grown a lot more comfortable fessing up about it, and I've found that most people I know don't find it all that weird even.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Not EVERYONE I know, knows I like tickling but alot of my friends do. Eventually, I end up making it quite obvious to most.

TTD

 

[tummyticklish01]

i only told my older sister, i was nervous as heck, but when i finally told her, she thought it was just funny and ended up tickling me a lot more!!!🙂🙂🙂
whenever she tickles me she would say, "so, do u still love tickling??"
so my experience ended up helping me🙂

 

[TicklingDuo]

My brother and one of my friends know. Both thought it was rather strange/weird/wharped at first. But, they've since come to know that I'm just plain nuts. LOL They're pretty cool about it, but don't exactly look to bring it up.

My brother was easier to tell than my friend. He and I have always shared things...including very personal stuff. My friend is kind of uptight about things sexual. Anything out of the norm, she considers perverted. So, she was a challenge. But, she's beginning to accept it more...not that I'd give it up for the sake of someone's opinion.

Ann

 

[ticklishLaugh]

Read This Ann...please

Hey Ann im not an actual AOL MEMBER i just have AIM sorry🙁 sorry i cant look at your Tickling chamber. So when ever you get a chance sign on AIM so we can get to know each other ok? well bye Ann -David aka TicklishLaugh

 

[tklr5150]

Just like tummy, opening up helped me out too. One of my best friends at school is also incredibly hot, and after learning of my interest (and knowing about my frustration) she volunteered to let me tickle the crap out of her once even though she absolutely hates it.

 

[dardanos78]

I find it really hard talking to people about tickling. I dont feel comfortable telling my family. And my friends would be happier if I didn't tell them (mostly guys), my only female friends are ticklish but absolutely hate getting tickled, they get pretty violent and angry.
Thankfully I don't lose a whole lotta sleep over it. I know that some day, my time will come to open up to others, but until then there is always the TMF🙂 .

 

[feetclimax]

I agree dardanos

I feel the same way dard, I think ill stick with TMF until I feel that the time is right to be more open, its way to early right now.

 

[duannewalton]

Ever told your family/friends you like tickling?

Well, they kinda figured it out for themselves when anyone that took off their shoes in the house was fair game.😉 They don't seem as worried about it as they used to (mainly because I stopped attacking shoeless people in the house). I guess they figure it's my world, I can color it any way I want.

 

[TicklingDuo]

Hey Ann im not an actual AOL MEMBER i just have AIM sorry sorry i cant look at your Tickling chamber. So when ever you get a chance sign on AIM so we can get to know each other ok?

TL...You're on my list. I'll be watching for you. AFA the Chamber, if you're talking about the web site, it's on geocities and you should be able to access it...The Tickle Chamber If what you're refering to is the chat room, I know there's a way for non-AOL members who have AIM to go to the chat rooms. I'll check up on it. 😉

Ann

 

[dvnc]

I've told my close friends, every woman I've ever dated, my ma, and anyone sharin' info 'bout their kink. No one gives me grief. Never figured they would, really, once I got to thinkin' 'bout it.

Most never bring it up again, 'cept the folks wit' other kinks. The rest chalk that side o' my life up to my "kink".

dvnc

 

[terorizer]

While certain family and friends know, I tend to treat tickling like any of my passions, meaning I don't discuss say Jazz for instance, with people I know have no understanding or preference for it. If kinks in general come up or I'm asked specifically, I'll disclose, but typically I it never crosses my mind to talk about it. Those I have tend to get a giggle out of it for a minute then forget about it.

 

[ticklishLaugh]

Ann joining your chatroom through aim

Yea Ann could you check up on the AOL chat room.. as of how i can join through say AIM. Without being a member of AOL.com thanks alot🙂 well bye Ann~David aka TL get back to me asap!

 

[Slappy McGee]

I find this topic interesting, because so many people feel so differently about how open they are about this stuff....

I personally don't feel a need to ever make it a common topic of conversation in my life, not with everyone.....

to me, it just seems unneccessary and excessive... I mean if someone is gay, then they may want to "come out" becuase they have to sneak around and hide their lifestyle if they don't. with tickling however, it is either going to be out in the open and just "fooling around" tickling, which may be a turn on, but why would anyone need to know that? you don't tell everyone you find attractive that little fact, it is kinds the same thing, just not important....

and for more "sexual" tickling, that is in the bedroom, and nobody needs to know about that unless they are going into the bedroom with you, or you maybe want them too 🙂 again, it just doesn't seem practical or neccessary to tell everyone.....

for example, a few days ago, a female friend of mine told me that a girl we see on occasion said that her boyfriend (who we also know) had her buy a strap on so she could have anal sex with him...... if you are saying "good god why would I want to know that!!!" so was I . trust me, so was I.

the point is sometimes unburdening yourself by telling A "SECRET" might feel good to you, but make someone else very uncomfortable. I am fairly certain that my family doesn't want to picture me doing anything in bed, let alone tickling. I tell those who I feel I need to tell. If it comes up in a conversation where it might be appropriate, than thats cool too.

just my opinion. I am not saying it is BAD to tell everyone you know about your sexual interests (if that is what tickling is to you), I am just providing a different way of looking at it.

tickle on

Slappy McGee

 

[Slappy McGee]

how my last post got posted twice, and once only half done, is beyond me, sorry.

 

[dvnc]

Ooh, good point, so to speak.

dvnc

 

[ForgottenTcklr]

I think that it is generally hard for most people to tell someone the first time. But it gets a lot easier from their. Telling your family may not be important. I think that a spourse or boyfriend/girlfriend will obviously find out eventually, but telling parents,sibblings,children, etc. may server absolutely no purpose.

 

[dvnc]

Dunno. Tellin' my parent was a fine thing. Didn't have t'dance around what I was up to, every month, or who the local crew was that never got invited by her place (all my other friends have met her, it seems). Outtin' that brought me a bit of personal peace.

YMMV, though,

dvnc

 

[MadKalnod]

I haven't told my parents, but if they know I don't really see it as an issue. I don't ask them what they do in the bedroom 😱 , so I don't discuss my preferences with them.

My middle brother knows (he found my secret stash), but we don't discuss it either, partly for the reason above, partly because he's a bitter foul-tempered troll and the two of us rarely speak to each other.

My younger brother and several of my closer friends know, not so much about the tickling part but definitely about the foot-fetishism part. However, when taken altogether with the more socially acceptable fondnesses for very tall women, redheads, Irish/English/Australian/Scottish accents, Goth Chicks, Batgirl costumes, bathtubs full of butterscotch pudding (Joke), etc., it's just another sideshow act in "Mike's Cast of a Thousand Fetishes", so they don't make a big deal of it either. If they consider me wierd, it's more likely for "Mike's Endless Supply of Obscure, Arcane, & Utterly Useless Geek Lore" than my tickling fetish.

 

[Slappy McGee]

madkalnod, you have great taste in women..... you must like nicole kidman as much as I do LOL 🙂

if you are into goth chicks, you must see the goth babe of the week site... can't remember the url, but if you do a search you'll surely find it... much yumminess.

Slappy McGee

 

[MadKalnod]

You mean this one, Slappy?
http://industrialgothic.com/gbotw/
Yummy indeed.

As for Nicole Kidman, while that whole Scientology thing is a major turn-off, the combination of a 6' redhead with a New Zealand accent who has publicly stated on at least one occasion that she loves to be tickled more than anything else in the world, especially on the feet does cause my knees to fire their explosive bolts and jettison my lower legs.

 

[Mimi]

All of my close friends know of my fetish. I have revealed it to about 15 people in all. It was REALLY hard at first....I was so scared they would write me off as a freak if they knew. But once I started coming out of the closet with it, it got much easier to share. Not a single one of them have ever made me feel outcasted or abnormal. Only one friend even questioned it with "You LIKE to be tickled? Oh gosh, I HATE it!". She of course, is one of those people who tickling is comparable to pain. She is so unbearably ticklish that it literally hurts her to be tickled.

As for the rest though, they are all totally obliging 😀 . It has actually been to my benefit to be honest about it, since I now get tickled all the time by my friends, whenever we get together. Life is great!

 

[dvnc]

ROFL! MadKalnod, I used to know Raven, from '96. When that site when up, she sent 'em a passel o' pix and that's the one they chose. I'd completely forgotten that site. Funny t'see it's still kickin'.

Ah, t'be young again...

dvnc