Explain the slaves thing, please.

[Antarion]

Call me an innocent kid if you want, but I'm still confused regardless.

I never have really understood the whole 'slaves' thing, I've seen people talk about how 'Their mistress will be upset' or something. I didn't know this was an actual thing. Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to insult or demean anyone. I'm wondering what's so appealing about being a slave, isn't it kinda... Embarrassing? I don't think I'd be able to do it, it'd make me feel like less of a man.

How many people here are into that thing? Have I just seen a very vocal minority?

 

[usgrant]

It's fun for like an hour or two.

 

[C.A.B.]

Regarding the personal enjoyment of being a slave, a Master, or Mistress, it falls under the category of "If you have to ask..."

It would be like you trying to describe why you like one color over another... personal taste.

 

[milagros317]

Power exchange (voluntarily turning power over yourself to somebody else, in my case to a very beautiful woman) can be very, very exciting.

Obviously, it can only be done with somebody that you trust. 😀

 

[BellybTickler]

Some people choose to carry the lifestyle beyond the bedroom, this is more of a bdsm related activity than a tickling fetish one. It's all dependent on what works for you and what you're looking to gain.

I'm very happily a collared submissive, soon to be slave. I appreciate and welcome the discipline of the lifestyle, as it actually helps me in controlling & maintaining my PTSD & depression.

 

[maniactickler]

Maybe as a fun roleplaying thing, but not 24/7. thats a little much.

 

[ticklemepls]

It's a mind-set thing for me. I like the idea of letting go of control ... of doing things and knowing it pleases him. It's not for everyone and those who are not really "into" it simply dont understand it.... I will say I've been insulted many times by people saying I do it because I need someone to run my life, because I'm weak, or even because I cant make my own decisions.... rest assured this is NOT true. Submissives/slaves are not weak- as a matter of fact, it's the opposite. . . It takes dedication and control in order to maintain that balance.

Like I said, it's not for everyone- but it opens up a whole nother world for those who choose to explore it 🙂

 

[Antarion]

Thanks for all your replies. It might be something worth looking into, I dunno.

 

[Leo tickles]

I suggest reading this article here.

In most cases, the ticklee's you see in videos are submissives, or are being paid to play such, not slaves.

http://www.teramis.com/kink/subvslave.htm

And of course, the entire thing is up to you and whoever you're involved with and configurable to meet both of your needs. The "general" things are explained in the article, though the lifestyle can be modified to cater to individual needs.

 

[tickledorange]

The short answer is because it makes me happy.