*/F guys: are you OK with normie females knowing about “you” but not normie males?

[Toesheldback]

I used to hide it from everyone but my partner(s), but I’ve become more comfortable with females knowing it (not in a work situation of course). Maybe it’s because it’s sparked at a minimum some fun tickle talk with a female, or in a few cases, led to an f/f or mf/f event. I don’t volunteer it, but I also don’t deny it (usually downplay it a little).

Males are a different story. I keep it hidden from all my male friends. The couple times I was unwittingly “outed”, I went about as you'd expect. So I appear as vanilla as everyone else.

What say you?

 

[MikeMenace]

I'm not okay with 99,99% of normie people knowing, regardless of gender. Unless I'm in a sexual relationship with someone, I'm not telling them. Why would I?

 

[com_tklr]

I agree. Unless I'm in a position where something's going to happen, like at a play party or with a romantic partner, there's no way I'm telling anyone of any gender.

 

[lovebeinticklish87]

I used to hide it from everyone but my partner(s), but I’ve become more comfortable with females knowing it (not in a work situation of course). Maybe it’s because it’s sparked at a minimum some fun tickle talk with a female, or in a few cases, led to an f/f or mf/f event. I don’t volunteer it, but I also don’t deny it (usually downplay it a little).

Males are a different story. I keep it hidden from all my male friends. The couple times I was unwittingly “outed”, I went about as you'd expect. So I appear as vanilla as everyone else.

What say you?

Yeah I dont tell anyone unless I'm involved with them in a romantic situation if u get what I mean, waaaaay too shy and awkward about others knowing, despite me wanting to talk about it with other women. Guys on the other hand I would never tell. I almost could express it to women who i see have nice fingers and nails and who appear friendly and open to it but it's a really really long process of building up the courage but the few times I have expressed it, it usually ends in embarrassment and rejection 🙁 owell guess I just have to keep on trying

 

[IrishTickling]

Hell no! I'd be way WAY too embarassed

 

[Elyos]

Looking at the comments here, it appears as if the stigma still does exist to a high degree.

It's a shame, everyone should be free and happy about expressing their lifestyle, regardless of to whom. 🙂