I'm definitely a 'ler in my real life but there is something so irresistible about a woman who is into the control that every now and then I have a desire to know what it would be like to be at the mercy of a turned on, tickling woman. I'd say about one out of every 25 fantasies of mine turns that way. I've never had it in real life. Definitly flirted with the idea. But it's hard to find a woman who is really into it for her own pleasure who is trustworthy.